Water flow year
I received all things, I got all the documents, I bought the ticket, and the teenager Lang, finally finished the golden age of the seven-year university, and immediately became real adults, and won't have a lot of people, many things. Wu Niu Apoon is a month or the dog is marked. The trend of the past may still still, but the human is no longer still still.
Life is a song, sometimes heaven, sometimes low, sometimes beautiful, sometimes harsh, climbs the peak, sliding into deep valley, everyone is a singer, to sing my own work, playing yourself Music score, create your own legend, listen to your song, accept the following cheers, endure the following ridicule, burning your own beauty, release your ugly, or leave a beautiful day for the later generation, or Working with a young smoke, there is no trace.
Seven years ago, I came quietly. After seven years, I quietly walked, waving sleeves, and didn't take a cloud. At the end of the fifteen, six years old, I know that life is no meaning, but just like Bi Shimin, I have to add a meaning, what is the meaning of it, it is meaningful. The life of the golden age taught me for this rich dinner with "Happy", enjoying its helplessness, and endured it.
The college gold has given me a lot of regrets, more beautiful. The teenagers who have once this have been the adults today. I also deeply understand a lot of people who have known before, and obvious truth.
A person trying to have no shortcomings, like a person who does not have a benefit, is a person who will not succeed. But a person who can't control himself, the success is more difficult, everyone has their own talent, this kind of talent is valuable, but how to use, go to control, to develop this natural me, I am afraid you know Not a lot, I still need a long time to gradually and essay.
I used to be more embarrassed, love is clear, I like it very much. I hate it very annoying. Now I often have a long time for the world. Many things I will slowly learn to like it, go to appreciate, slow Slowly, I found that I originally thought that it was very boring, very annoying things and learning, when I spent some time, some energy tried to do it, when I figured it, I slowly discovered the boring Things will be very interesting, and annoying learning will also make people like it.
Many things can't be pursuit of essence, understanding it, I want to understand the endlessness of the ring, there is no trace of water, and the ghosts are often very painful. After all, many things are not a chartered, but a kind Cultural precipitation, this is not a bought of the beads, and the tops are the end, but must start learning from the form. In the first step, in the process of in-depth process, it will find that such a simple thing why I don't understand, very simple, There is no first cake, the second cake pad, how can the third cake can be eaten? This is also an active example of economic and marginal utility decreasing. [Note 1]
Note 1: In the ancient culture of the Japanese Japanese in Jun Road, Jun Road, Tea Department and Flower Road, is also a form of form. When you don't know, strict form training. After repeated over and over again, you can often get the spirit of these "Tao".
For many "Tao", those more attention to spiritual things, the more they begin, this picture is in the practice of the lead, it is the best, sometimes even the only way.
- "The function is by your side" [Japan] Quanping Jianlang Shenyuan Wu Zhi Liangsheng Luo Li Sheng
But there are also many flowers boxing legs, which are useless except for visual stimulation. For example, Middle School makes a cultural education to our phoenix, pork belly, leopard tail three-stage theory, it is a pure simplification of complex things, plus the feet of rhetoric, and there is no positive sense of infusion, I have learned from Middle School It is: Middle School's composition class is my most headache less. Tagore said: "The great figure is always a child, dead, leaving his innocent to this world." When you first examine the college, even three years ago, I have dinken, I don't want to say anything. I am very uncomfortable in my heart, but now, I have learned to make a ghost face with a child, tease him happy, so I feel so happy, now I also found happiness in life, and I can find happiness everywhere. Leisure.
Now I also learn to focus on one thing, it is easy, I can let myself go into things that is doing, listening to music and enjoying the song of singing, watching technical articles to appreciate the pleasure and logical ring looping of intelligence breakthroughs Strictly, watching "Don't Say A Word" ("Don't Say A Word"), the favorite of MICHAEL Douglas is listening to music, while he is doing breakfast, he is really enjoyable. life. Even when I am in the car, I still have a little dinker, but now I have learned the scenery of the window flowing, to reduce the loneliness and troubles in my heart.
The favorite movie of the seven-year golden era is "Shawshank Redemption" (also called "exciting 1995", "Moon Black Gao Fei", but I don't like these two names. "The Shawshank Redemption"). There are many vulnerabilities in this film. Does the legendary experience of the protagonist have a lot of controversy, but they will open these don't talk about it. It gives me a lot of shock, bringing me a lot of many aspects. Thinking, but the most important thing is: it makes me understand what hopes. What is hope? Ruid said: Hope is dangerous, it makes people go crazy. And Di said: Hope is a good thing, Ruid, maybe it is the best thing, good things will never die.
"There is a kind of bird that will never pay, because each of its wings is full of freedom of glory." The cage can't live with wings, ice and snow can't be frozen wheat seedlings. A person can do not give up the yearning for freedom in 19 years, what kind of spiritual power is there? Finally, he successfully retained freedom. There is such a sentence in "Shawshank's Redemption": prison is a strange place, starting you hate him, then get used to him, and finally ink him. The system is also such a thing, when you reject it, then you are used to it until you don't leave it. Think about it, how many of our body has been systemified?
Golden era let me know how can I achieve something. If you want to make something, the success of the personality is the most important, opportunity, born ... all we can't control, unclean, of course, these will seriously affect character. But personality can be changed through some efforts, although it is very difficult to change. To change the character, you must first change the habits. If you want to change the habits, you must first change your behavior, and you will start with a bad behavior. From my understanding of the books and what I experience, the success of my success is generally two points:
1. Standing on the other party's position thinking. This can inspect your weaknesses and learn the advantages of others. Clearately understand yourself, because just like Wittgenstein: "There is no more difficult thing to deceive yourself." 2. Heart is like water. Before talking, doing things, you can control yourself, you don't let yourself sway with the impulse feelings, you can reduce the misunderstandings and harm to yourself and others. For example, comment on my article can think twice, believe that each other can More gains.
One of the best lectures heard in the golden age called "Successful Manager", it is easy to find on education, and it should be available outside. Here, I recommend it to all readers who have not seen, I believe there will be a lot of gains, I am a person from the middle school to many things. The lecture is the healing of Taiwan. He raised a lot of examples of his own experience, giving us how people, how to do things, give some deeper thinking.
I have been in my student era, there are not many places, but I have been to luxury Shanghai, exquisite Suzhou, intimate Hangzhou, clear Shenzhen, still staying in hot Wuhan seven years. But no matter where you walk, although I don't understand, I am not unfamiliar (except for the strangeness of Shanghai), I just have to come here many years, now just come back and see. Car water horse dragon, one grass, why do I feel so kind and familiar? Now I think I know, because I am a pure Han, the blood of Han culture is born to now, it has been flowing on me, there is a sentence, there is a Chinese place, there is Jin Yong and Gu Long, the same, There is "Analects", "Morality", "Zhuangzi" place, must have my root.
But the words also said that the five thousand years of civilization did not make our current country a modern civilized country. In our country, city and rural, small cities and big cities, big cities and specialties, municipalities directly under the Central Government, I can't imagine many people, I am very fortunate to have a personal experience of these places, I can say, I The text level really can't be described in this gap, the description of the language is impossible to achieve the effects of the same body, and you need to go to these places to really take a walk.
Wuhan is my country's top ten cities. Whether it is the gross value of the city, or the average income of the public, the top ten may have controversy, but the top 20 is not doubt. The top ten in the comprehensive level is no problem. [Note 2]
Note 2: Wuhan 1992-1998 The annual average annual growth rate of 16%, higher, the average level of the province, in the province, ranked sixth place in "China's comprehensive strength of China" in many years.
I am absolutely not a letter to open the river, and I can see the exact data of the window of Wuhan, China. Specific data can be found at http://www.chinawuhan-window.com/gaikuang.html.
It is such a city that I have lived in seven years. I am still here, although I will go tomorrow. However, the public's health habits, language habits, and average cultural quality are too far away from civilized countries in my heart.
But even in this way, Wuhan's citizens must be considered a better part of our country. I have an absolute say, and my hometown is now all down, the remaining is the agency unit of drought and flood protection. And a private company in Zhejiang Boss Office, there is no company company that is saying. I have a good junior high school class in that a famous private company, where this company is referred to as "Dong Sunshine", the employee salary inside is a high income in us, and the average salary can reach eight or nine hundred. In our place, if a young man can have 800 stable income every month, use us there, no matter what you look like, as long as there is no big disability, what kind of girl can be picked Be a wife. I read the seven-year book in Wuhan. I have something to see, I have something to say, I can say this, simply talk about the sound of the body, and there is not much the average of the girls that exceed us. girl. I talk about these, there is no pride, more sadness. I just want to say that our living level is very low, many people's income is fill in filling the stomach, basically can't do anything. People who are exhausted are not like me, let's talk about what love.
I now say something more important, "Dong Sunshine" is dry, and its products are mainly chemical products, have severe polluted chemical products. Why don't it run away from the small cities of Wesi in our Wesi, just because of the low price of labor? It recruits employees in us, all requires high school cultures, and must be strictly written and interview. An outline of the east, and the employees of Dong Sunshine are very enviable and respected.
Dong Sunshine Company was originally a factory in Zhejiang, but the economic development there was faster, the people's income is high, and the eyes are long, so it is required that Dong Sunshine company has strict sewage treatment ability, this cost will be high, natural profit It is also necessary to reduce a lot, so they do our company to our small place. The sewage treatment capacity will naturally say it. Of course, our municipal government does not know the harm, but so many unemployed people, so many people want Doing things, I have to eat, I can't think of other ways. The government also has to create political achievements, but also create taxes, there is no way, welcome Dong Sunshine Company else to come, can the government come out? The more such companies are, the better, as for several decades, after hundreds of years, that is not the government, I can want to get it, manage it. The meal of the children, I have eaten it again. As for the time, the descendants also have their own fun.
My hometown should not be a rare special case of our mainland. It is just the opposite. I have seen it in the place I have walked (I have been to many places in Hubei), but a very common fact.
Here, I mentioned an article written by the online Korean student "a Korean student's suggestion to the Chinese, there is such a paragraph in the article:" I came to your country for five years, many of the original support The beautiful impression in my mind is now disappearing. I am actually very difficult. Guo is in history, the cultural teacher of our Republic of Korea, the civilization of the Korean nation and the whole East Asia is a student of your country. Most of our etiquette system The humanistic thoughts are originated from the great Chinese civilization in your country. So I have always regarded your country as the real "civilized" in Asia, "the state of etiquette". But after I truly came to your country, I found it I want to be wrong. Your country is far less than the basic etiquette and morality and even more than the poor countries in your country. No matter where I am in Shanghai or Beijing Street, I rarely see someone can queue on bus, road It is often very dirty. The pedestrians will throw garbage and wastewater in the streets are very casual things. It is more surprised that your guys will spit! This is a very rude and losing identity in other countries. Visit Guizhou can be made greatly! Once I saw a beautiful girl in Nanjing Road, I saw a beautiful girl in the face of her boyfriend, and such a girl was still married for a lifetime in South Korea. We can't have such a rude girl. There is also a great hygiene habit of your country. It is often taken only a shower every week in the quarter of the non-summer season. This is unimaginable in the country of cleaning. It is generally taken a bath and shakes every day. Love cleaning is also an important aspect of personal cultivation and civilization. In addition, there is no modest, love, I often see someone in the streets, bus and stores in your country. A little quarrel is quarreling, even men's active and ladies quarrel, is there no such thing as the national civilization? Where is the tolerance of Chinese civilization? Is it in our South Korea, Japan and Singapore? I am very sad. " The world is generally permanently washed every day and washes it. "I don't know this, but I know that our mainland is absolutely unable to do this, even the culture is relatively high, the income is relatively high. I have a classmate of Shanxi Pingya. The flat kiln is still very close to the provincial city Taiyuan. The number of people there will be very little, according to him, not a few times a year, but he lives in the countryside. It may be better in the city. Of course, this is not just the reason for living habits, mainly because there is no water, he basically has no fish. Some of the other views of Korean students, I want to leave the reader to judge.
He Xin, "I feel sad about life", a reporter Peli (at that time, Peli complained that the service value of the Wangfu Hotel couldn't the price): "This world is unfair, because many people also pay the price," But there should be no return. We have specially complained Chinese, but also complain about God, because he seems to have designed the world like this. "
"Many people also pay the price, but they have to have a return." This is a truth, but why is this truth so reasonable? How to change this fact? God will not work, my thoughts are still very shallow, and I still can't think of a good answer. But I think everyone can think about it. What I do should have this return, especially all public servants, then this bad phenomenon does this change? Is our country and people also win the respect of other countries?
Many of our mainland are particularly good at empty talk, and they have their own views, one I think is very simple and ordinary truth, he can say a set of views from a trip to the opposite direction, and finally I I have doubt that I am wrong, but I have been in a while, I don't think about it. He actually doesn't say, but he will use language skills. In fact, there is no fact, there is no basically no dependent, it can be called It is a breeze, and an antelope hanging angle, helping. It is like this, there is a saying: "The Japanese did not say that the Germans said that the Chinese only didn't do it." Our mainland is too lacking, quiet. If everyone is willing to do real surveys, use truly reliable data, chart to demonstrate their own point of view, even if the final point is wrong, it is still very respectful, so that our country's hopes will be more many. Just like a senior school in our mainland software, the mainland software project, the mainland's software project, is often lesson, not experience.
What do you mean, it is very simple, success is experience, failure is lesson. We are basically failing. Our experience and lessons have not been summarized, no precipitation, and this thing is not going to do, of course, it is also very difficult, so it is often more and more lessons, less experience. So far, there are no many successful, very well-known software projects, but many companies are also afraid that others know his so-called core secrets, in fact, what secret can be said. This matter wants to do it or a big difficulty, the difficulty is mainly collecting real, uniform data.
I have to go to work at 7.15. I will work now. According to my understanding of the company, it is the software programming of Telecom equipment in the UNIX platform. I hope that I will do some realistic. Work, let yourself feel more practice, I hope that I will contribute even my IT field in China.
At this time, I will leave Wuhan at this time, and my college's golden era is also over. I can't say no regrets for myself, because no regrets are deceived, I can only say this, if you want me to go again Once, I will go.
Postscript: In the final period of graduation, I also met a few people have been a long time, I have a very respect of teachers and friends. They brought me a lot of new gains, new understandings, and I would like to express my heartfelt thanks.
2003.7.1
