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I always try to make every day as the last day of my life. I am grateful about the things you have, I am full of enthusiasm for my job, I accept everyone with love and care. I am in just 2 years and a half, from one place
It is a billionaire. I hope that some of my philosophy will be passed to more people, helping everyone to make never-ending progress in any way, and constantly break through and grow. Please believe that every one of us has unlimited potential, just have you have to have a certain thing. Remember: I can, you can.
In order to do effective life potential management, from negative becomes active, you must understand the ultimate goal of life. What do you want? What are the most important to your life? What is the most wanted thing in your life? Perhaps, you have never thought about it ...
Life potential management is to manage self and surrounding resources in systematic approach, reaching the purpose of life. The difference between successful and losers is that the winners can self-manage, incentives, and do valid time allocation, but the losers are not. Treatment events need to be aimed in priority, depending on the crisis event (important and urgent), high productivity events (important rather than urgent).
Must knowing the potential of life
In order to do effective life potential management, you must understand the ultimate goal of life. What do you want? What are the most important to your life? What is the most want to do in your life? Perhaps, you have never thought about it, but if you don't know these answers, your life will be like a boat that is not known to mooring, can only drift in the sea.
The following problem is that the top success in the world is thinking, and eventually reaches a similar result. If you can find the answer one by one, you will effectively provoke a surprising life potential.
Question 1: Where is the meaning of my life, where is the purpose of life?
If people want to be happy in the world, they must feel the importance of their existence. If the purpose is unclear, they will blindly, and they will lose the direction. Do everything you know, you will easily find good ways to practice. Please take careful consideration and repeatedly ask, this is a very important issue.
Question 2: Who am I? What kind of character is my ideal?
You have to find yourself and find people who want to become ideal. Many people work hard and think that when he reaches a target, such as buying a house, marriage and child, earning more tens million, it can be happy, but usually these efforts have been very painful, but the happiness after reaching is very short. Advice you a concept: no matter what you get anything, you can't let you continue happiness! Conditions that sustainable happiness are to become your ideal. Fortunately, human beings have great discovery, that is, people can become their ideal characters through thinking changes. The answer to this question can have a lot, you can set a number of self-image.
Question 3: What values and beliefs I have?
The formation of the average values comes from his environment, and the values of few people are designed by themselves. People usually have actions and results in order through the value of value and belief (that is, concept). Therefore, the decision is only the allocation of the value level, which is more important to the so-called value level, which is less important. In the "Testament" course I opened, I specifically guided the students to find life meaning, find out the ideal people who want to become, re-establish values and beliefs, designing the architecture of life, rather than letting environmental impact you. Typically, 80% of the seminar, 80% have a breakthrough in a turning point, and it is conceivable to know how important it is to find out the meaning of life.
Question 4: What is the strategy of my life? What method do you want to use to achieve life meaning, become an ideal person, retrieve values and beliefs, retrieve the might of life?
Question 5: What is the five major goals this year?
Question 6: What are the current short-term goals?
Question 7: What are the actions to be implemented every day?
The answers to the above problems can be constantly correct.
The following is some of my basic examples.
The meaning of life:
Two years ago, the meaning of life: becomes a person with love, bring love to others.
Adjustment Life Significance: Become a model of all human balanced success, and stimulates individuals, let them live ideals, promote the world, create a better world.
Recently, after adjustment, my life is: continuous improvement and creation of superior life and life value, helping all human beings to success.
who am I?
First, I am a person who cannot be possible.
Second, I am a source of great contribution.
Third, I am the answer to tomorrow.
I am a miracle of modern people.
Five, I am a modern wonderful.
Sixth, I am the hope of human beings.
Seven, I am every dark candlelight.
Eight, I am a growing catalyst.
Nine, I am the most sincere friend.
Ten, I am a living artist.
Value:
Health, vitality, love and warmth, grateful, happy, balance, progress, dedication, excellence, respect, pay, share.
belief:
First, live to learn old.
Second, the example of modern people.
Third, I will always imitate excellence.
If you can write the answer to the above questions, your potential will be more effectively excited. You can also use the above questions to other respects, you can fully stimulate potential. That is, in the work, emotion, the same problem is written, and the answer to the pyramid pattern is written. Figure:
Take me as an example:
Example 1:
Working purposes: Continuously give human value, help them break through, so they can create their own lives.
Who are I: Teach others how to succeed.
Values: attitude, honesty, service, efficiency, respect.
Belief: I will always find updates, better, faster ways to create better results.
Example 2:
Physical purpose: demonstrating power, vitality and balance.
Who are I: World-class athletes.
Example 3:
Money Purpose: Constantly growing development, helping those who are unfortunate than I am helped to build a better environment.
Who are I: (1) I am a giant who drives charity. (2) I am an artist who creates a better experience.
Values: Growth, Expand, Beautiful, Share, Give, System.
Faith: (1) I am the world's best educator. (2) I am a living artist that turns the surrounding environment into art.
Strategy: 10% of income is donated monthly.
Example 4:
Feelings: Sharing experience, encourage supporting each other, creating an ideal team to do more for society.
Who are I: (1) I am a romantic person. (2) I am a model husband. (3) I am a gentleman.
Values: trust, romance, surprise, respect, share.
Faith: I will always respect the feelings of each other.
Strategy: I am constantly letting the other person know that she is the most important, constantly supporting her something, constantly sharing my current situation to each other, sharing life.
In accordance with example, you can also list your own pyramids in all aspects, clearly know your direction.
Pursuit of values and escape values
Values are divided into indirect values and end values. An indirect value is often manifested by nouns, and the end-type value is a feeling, and the value of life we have to set is end-type values.
For example, what is the most important thing to ask a person in a lifetime? He gives you a name, such as a family, a career, etc., is an indirect value. If his answer is a feeling, such as happiness, excellence, etc., it is an end value. Ending values are divided into pursuing values and escape values. I will use myself as an example below.
Values two years ago:
Pursuant values: freedom, success, love, excitement, happiness, dedication, security, excitement, health.
Escape value: pressure, boring, loneliness, inconsistency, rejected, body pain, fatigue, dispute, embarrassing, criticized.
From the above values, you can judge that this person has a daily life pace, the advantages, bottlenecks and the bottlenecks to break through.
Value is adjustable
I passed the first item of free column in pursuing values, but there is a contradictory rule: I think freedom is what I want to do at any time, whether in any situation and people like people, not Any person's control. In fact, this freedom hinders the freedom of others, it is impossible to achieve. After the real freedom is actually the freedom of thought, I removed freedom from the values, because the value limits my pursuit of freedom. I finally understood that everyone has freedom. His freedom is to choose what he wants. If you want to do, you decided to live.
Through self-breaking methods, the following is the values I have adjusted:
Pursuit Values: Faith, Thanksgiving, Health and Vitality, Love and Wellness, Passion, Excellence, Laughing, Happy, Growth, Best, Awareness, Wisdom, Respect, Sincere, Investment, Dedication, Innovation.
Escape value: unhealthy, inconsistent, angry, no system, negative thinking.
After adjusting the value, I have a big change and I have a feeling that I want to have every day. In order to have a belief, I have a self-suggestive goal every morning to cultivate confidence. If you have grateful feelings, you will ask the intermimeters. For health, do warm body exercises every day, eat vegetables and fruits. To feel love and warmth, I smile to others and express my gratitude to others and speak with the most authentic feelings. Have excellent feelings, every time you progress, a little or find out the advantages of others. Happiness is to watch movies, trial new things and travel. In order to become the best, I continuously use the methods you taught and maintain a balanced life. In order to have a sense of accomplishment, I started to break through, and I feel unlimited because of my presence every morning. Therefore, the values you have designed will make you grow up.
How to adjust the original values and designs
Some of the original values are very good, you can continue to reserve, and make it better, lack of positive meaning values can be removed.
The reason why a person can't succeed is as follows:
First, the purpose of blur: It is very difficult to do anything.
Second, the rules conflict: set the rules to make yourself not to do most.
Third, according to the rules or pain.
Fourth, the violation of the rules will be happy.
5. Adhere to your rules is always right: so that others are very difficult to get along with him.
Sixth, look life too serious: causing life, the step is too fast.
Six items can not make you have a life that you want, how can you do it in your life? You need to do the following things.
First, choose and find out the purpose of life.
Second, relax your rules.
Third, the rules of the contradiction are released.
Fourth, the rules you have designed should be "If you press rule, you will get happiness."
5. If the violation rules will have pain.
6. Before doing anything, you will clear the rules of the other party.
Seven, let yourself relax.
Please ask, life is used to enjoy, or do you have a very Xinruel? The average person thinks that it is necessary to achieve only pain without having to enjoy the process, which is only its restriction belief, so it is impossible to meet the overall balanced development.
Balanced development
Balanced development comes from:
First, fully enjoy every process in life. Second, enjoy the process and achieve the ideal.
Third, give the surrounding environment unparalleled value.
Fourth, do the best thing to do.
Life should maintain a balanced state is not easy, because everyone's balance point is different, so when a person balances, it will face an unbalanced, thereby continuous breakthrough and innovation in order to keep balancing. .
How to find a value level
Step 1: Ask "What is the most important thing?"
If the answer is not a feeling, turn it into a feeling. For example, if the answer is "family", then ask "What do you feel about you?" Column all the feelings.
Step 2: State it in order of the feeling of writing.
Step 3: Self-friendly "What is the most hate?" Is listed.
Step 4: Sampling the order in accordance with the extent of the annoying.
Step 5: You ask the following questions.
Questionnament: What benefits do I do with the line of the original value?
Question 2: What is the loss of me in accordance with the arranging of the original values?
Question 3: In order to achieve the goals and ideals of life, what beliefs and values should I enhance?
Question 4: How should I arrange these values in order to make their long-term growth and maintain balanced development?
Question 5: What are the values that can help me more? Which one is a value?
Question 6: Which values have a negative impact on me? And should it be deleted or delayed?
Question 7: In order to achieve and realize the goals and ideals of my life, what is negative emotions and behaviors, I must try to avoid it, can I maintain a good mentality and performance?
How to create a victory life
Method 1: The meaning of life is based on a short and powerful principle, and gives it a phrase of vitality and action.
Method 2: When choosing a rule of life, it should be based on it. And the rules should have multiple choices such as menus, and can be allowed by their own main control, no matter what happens, you can enjoy every process.
No matter if you think about your life's purpose, you will manage your life potential system, you may wish to think one by one, and listed it on paper.
Action commitment
In order to help you make life potential, please write a careful and heart-minded action commitment you have seen this article, please be sure to do.
1. After reading this chapter, what do you think is the most important thing?
2. What is the most important to you in your life? What do you want most?
3. Please follow the questions in this chapter to carefully write the answer, your life is about to change.
4. Main control life, promise "I must, act immediately, never give up!", And sign.
