31. Once, I went to pay a relaxed friend, and I talked about my destiny. I asked: Is there any fate in this world? He said: Of course there is. I asked again: What is going on? Since the hit is destined, what is the use of struggle?
He didn't answer my question directly, but smiled and grabbed my left hand, just see my hand, help me calculate my life. After telling me a lifeline, love line, the career line, so on, suddenly, he said to me: Extend his hand, take a move as my look. His action is: raising his left hand and slowly holding his fist. At the end, he asked: Is it clever? I am a little confused, thank you: grip. He asked: Where is the fate line? I am mechanically replied: in my hand. He asked again: Excuse me, where is the fate? I am as head stick, I suddenly realize: fate in my own hands!
He continued to say quietly: No matter how others tell you, no matter how "fortune telling", how to give you, remember, fate in his own hands, not in other people's mouth! This is the fate. Of course, you will look at your own fist, you will also find some part of your lifeline and stay outside, didn't hold it, can it give us any revelation? Most of the fate is in your own hands, but there is also part of the master in "God". It is coming in the past, and the meaning of "Master", "struggle" is to use his efforts to fight.
32. Chen Alu is Taiwan's farmers and has never been far away. I got a half of the money, I finally participated in a tourist group. Everything in foreign countries is very fresh, the key is that Chen Atri participated in the luxury group, one living alone. This makes him novel. In the morning, the waiter came to knock on the door and said loudly: "Good? Morning!" Chen Atriped. What does it mean? In your hometown, general strangers will meet: "Your surname?" So Chen Atro shouted: "My name is Chen A Tu!" If this is this, it is a three-day, it is the service to knock on the door, every day Loudly: "Good? Morning? Sir!"? Chen Alu also replied: "My name is Chen Alu!" But he is very angry. This service is also too stupid. Every day, I ask myself, tell him that I can't remember, I am bored. I finally couldn't help but ask, "Good? Moring? Sir!" What does it mean? The tour guide tells him, God! ! It's really lost. Chen Atrine repeatedly practiced the word "good? Morning? Sir!" To deal with service students in a decent. Another day of morning,? Service life as usual to knock on the door, the door opened Chen A Tu: "Good? Moring? SIR!" At the same time, wait for students called: "I am Chen Alu!"?
This story tells us that people communicate with people are often the contest of willpower and willpower. It is not that you affect him, that is, he affects you, and we want to succeed, be sure to cultivate his influence, only have high influences can become the strongest. ?
33, one person went to buy parrots, see a parrot adopted: this parrot will be two languages, selling price of 200 yuan. Another parrot is laid in front: This parrot will be four-door language, priced at 400 yuan. Which one should I buy? Two have a bright color, very flexible and cute. The person can not make up his mind. The result suddenly found a parrot of the teeth, the hair was dim, and the price was 800 yuan. This person hurriedly called the boss: Is this parrot saying eight-door language? The owner said: No. This person is strange: then why is old and ugly, no ability, will value this number? The owner replied:? Because two two parrots called this parrot boss. This story tells us that the real leader, not necessarily his ability, as long as you understand trust, understand the right, know how to get rid of yourself, so that you can improve your own value. Instead, many people are very strong, because they are too perfect, they must be, think that people are not as good as they, and finally can only be the best public relations personnel, sales representatives, can't become excellent leaders. ?
34. There have been a small country to come to China, and I have tribute three models, and I am very happy with the emperor. However, this small country is not good, and the topic is the topic: Which gold person is most valuable? The emperor thought many ways, please come to the jewelry to check, weigh the weight, see workmanship, is exactly the same. ?
How to do? The messenger is still waiting to go back and report it.泱泱大国, will not even understand this little thing? Finally, an old minister who returned said he has a way. The emperor will invite the messenger to the main hall, and the old people have three straws, insert the first golden person, this straw comes from the other side. The second golden straw fell directly from the mouth, and the third gold, the straw fell into the stomach, and there is no sound. The old minister said: The third gold people are the most valuable! The messenger silently, the answer is correct. ?
This story tells us that the most valuable person is not necessarily the most people. God gives us two ears a mouth, which is that we will listen less. Being good at listening, is the most basic quality of mature people. ?
35, A to B: "I want to leave this company. I hate this company!" B recommended: "I will give you a relationship !! Broken company must give it a look. But you leave, still Not the best time. "? A Q: Why? B said: "If you are going now, the company's loss is not big. You should take advantage of the opportunity to be in the company, desperately pulling some customers, becoming a company's unique person, then take these customers to suddenly leave the company, The company will be greatly lost, very passive. "A feels that B is very reasonable. So working hard, what is willing to work, he has a lot of loyal customers after more than half a year. Goodbye B question A: "Now is a time, you have to act quickly!" A is a little smile: "The old hold talked about me, preparing for me to do the general manager assistant, I haven't left it for the time being." ?
In fact, this is also the original intention of B. A person's work, only paying greater than getting, let the boss really see your ability is greater than the location, will give you more opportunities to create more profits for him. ?
36. There are three people to be governed for three years, and the prison will give them three one person. Americans love to smoke cigars and have three boxes of cigars. The French is the most romantic, and there is a beautiful woman with a beautiful woman. And the Jews said, he wants to communicate with the outside world. After three years, the first is the Americans, and the nose is filled with cigars. "" Give me fire, give me a fire! "He forgot to fire. The french is coming out. I saw a little child in his hand, and the beautiful woman took a small child, and the belly was still in the third. The last is the Jew, and he held the hands of the prison. Schlece! "? This story tells us what kind of choice decides what kind of life. Today's life is determined by our choice three years ago, and today our choice will determine our lives after three years. We have to choose the latest information to learn about the latest trends, making better creation of your future.
37, two people in the forest, met a big tiger. A will quickly remove a pair of lighter sneakers. B is dying, say: "Why do you do it, you can run the tiger!" A said: "I just want to run better than you." 21st century, there is no crisis is the biggest crisis. Especially in the entry, telecommunications, banking, insurance, and even civil servants we think that very stable and guaranteed companies will face a lot of variables. When more tigers come, have we ready to run your own sports shoes? 38, the little camel in the zoo asked my mother: "Mom mother, why is our eyelash?"? Camel mother said: "When the wind is coming, long eyelashes can make us can see in the storm Direction. "The little camel asked:" Mom mother, why is our back so camel, ugly! "Camel mother said:" This is a hump, you can save us a lot of water and nutrients, let us be in the desert Heath is 10 days of no water-free conditions. "Little camel asked:" Mom mother, why is our feet thick? "? Camel mother said:" That can make our heavy body not in soft soft In the sand, it is easy to travel long distance. "Xiao Luo camel is happy:" Hey, it is useful to be useful !! But your mother, why don't we go to the desert hiking? "I am born, I am now useful. No one is used. A good attitude a successful textbook an unlimited stage = success. Everyone's potential is unlimited, the key is to find a stage that can fully exert the potential. 39, seven people have lived together, divide a large barrel of porridge every day. If you want to live, porridge is not enough every day. At first, they grabbed them to share the porridge, one round every day. So every week, they only have a full day, that is, the day of the porridge. Later, they began to pursue a moral noble person. The power will produce corruption, everyone began to dig empty thoughts to please him, bribe him, and get the whole small group black smoking. Then everyone began to make a three-person climber committee and the four selection committees, but they often attack each other, pull themselves, porridge is full of cold. Finally, I think about a way: turn the porridge, but the people who share the porridge will wait for some other people to take the last bowl. In order not to make yourself to eat, each person is trying to divide the average, even if it is not flat, it can only recognize it. Everyone is happy, and and gas, the day is getting better. Also seven people, different allocation systems, there will be different atmospheres. Therefore, if there is a bad work habits, it must be a mechanism problem. It must be unfair fair and fair and fair, there is no strict prize. How to develop such a system is a question that needs to be considered for each leader. 40. There is a person fishing around the river, he fishing a lot of fish, but takes a measure of a fish every fishing. As long as the fish is more than a large fish, he has lost back to the river. At Bymphones, I would like to ask: "Others want to catch big fish, why do you think of big fish back to the river?" This person said nothing: "Because my family's pot is so wide, Too big fish is not installed. "The original annotation is: do not let the endless desires," enough "is also a good life attitude. When people are eating a buffet restaurant, there is no flawless swallowing, that is really a terrible sight.
