Do we care about yourself to feel Posted on 2005-01-20 13:10 Pzhuyy Read (192)
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A young writer first went to New York, Mark Tween, I asked him to eat, more than 30 people accompanied, all of which were local. When I got into the seat, the more fear of the writer, the more scared it, and I was shaking.
"Where are you uncomfortable?" Mark Tween.
"I am afraid to die." This young writer said, "I know, they will ask me to speak, but I really don't know what to say, I think of the ugly in front of them, I will be god." " Oh, you don't have to be afraid, I just want to tell you - they may ask you to speak, but anyone doesn't expect you to have an amazing speech. "
Mark Twain is suitable for many young people. For young people, because they have been eager to fully show their talents, when the opportunity suddenly comes in front of them, many people will become a sudden. The first speech, the first time I did independent, I was first delegated to the mission, you might be nervous to sleep well. At this time, you must understand that people around you have their own things, they don't have much attention to you so much, they still treat you as an ordinary person, they don't expect you However, however, however, as long as you do it with others, press the class to do it, say, even if you have successfully completed the task.
Some people may say that it is difficult to have a chance, why don't you borrow a shocking? In fact, in this increasing reason, a person's advantage is that through a long period of time, after a series of events, it will only appear in the drama. On the contrary, the excessive standards of the premium, which are easily caused by people. The only thing you have to do is to let people see you have made full preparation for this, you have a very serious attitude, this is enough.
On the road of life in a hurry, we are just a landscape in the eyes of others. For the first participation, the first failed, it can be smirked, don't entangle in the mood of the lost, your cry can only remind People have noticed that you have once. You laugh, others will forget it.
There is a saying: "When we were 20 years old, we worried about our ideas. At the age of 20, we would ignore others to our ideas. 60 years old, we found that others did not think of us at all." This is not negative, this is A philosophy of life - learning to see yourself, in order to make it lightly, there is no burden to embark on a long journey, your life road can be more straight.
