Husband is too childish psychologist pointed out that if a person can make what it should be and actually, then this person will start to ripe. This is very reasonable. From this perspective, honest people are in terms of human being and interpersonal relationships, but they can even say that they are more naive. Because honest people often distinguish what they should be correct, what is the difference, and the differences between the two cannot be accepted calmly. Furthermore, the rules of honest people to treat social operation and development cannot seek truth from facts, or do not recognize the rationality of reality, or idealize the reality, and this is an important reason why they are subject to reality. Important reasons.
History and reality tell us that social operation and development is not only relying on moral strength, but also follow the principles of reality in actual development. Honest people often understand, or do not correctly understand this reality rule, a taste and adhere to moral standards, resulting in a psychological partial deviation. In fact, only understanding the basic connotation and relationship between the actual law and the moral law, we can truly see the true face of the world we are, in order to guide our survival and development. If you take the good, if the other party is a wicked person, you can't apply a simple heart, and the result of the bad guys is anti-fierce. The story of "Farmers and Snakes" is just this. The old man is often fully accepting moral standards with a unreserved attitude, in fact, in fact, in an ideal way, understanding and observing the world we live, and thus always touching the wall in reality. . Some honest people also recognize the conflicts of ideals and reality, but they regard "good" as moral standards, and try to reject the social reality rule, depending on the "evil" of it. They often do not tolerate and have any breakthroughs and weakens of the real moral standard. They tend to treat the social reality rule with an emotional disgust, so they not only define their own behavior, but also define their own communication range In the process of doing things, it is always in an isolated helpless area. The rules of honest people to treat social operation and development can not seek truth from facts, or do not recognize the rationality of reality, or to make realistic ideas, and this is the importance of the reality of reality and blow.
