Husband is weak and bullying, honest people tend to be a victim in a group or a relationship, they are the "air bag" we usually hear. One of the most basic features of the honest people are "fear", not "dare" first. I am afraid of being hurt, I am afraid to take responsibility, I don't dare to break through the routine, I don't dare to express my emotions ... I will seek a bad happening. There is a good plan that cannot be implemented, and the legitual interests do not dare to maintain, so that he is always in a way to avoid the retreat, passive beating, and more fierce the heart, the arrogant arrogance, and the old people I personally, both Damaged on the interests and suffering in the mood, which is difficult to have a dual grinding of body and mind. The interaction between people and people is actually a mutually adaptation.
the process of. It's like a bile to collide with each other, the spheres can't be too hard, too hard, will hurt people, but it can't be too soft, otherwise it will be flattened by others, lose basic living space. . The honest people belong to those who are too soft, and their communication behaviors are basically a retreat, hidden, advocate, and "to emphasize" endure ". , Do not fight. Say, this is mainly because of the lack of determination to fight with others, courage and confidence. The old people don't dare to compete, indirectly from their conceptual shackles. Older people think of it, as long as she abides by the principle, she will naturally get the result of the desired results, to compete, fight against the principle of violation, and it is not morality. Honest people have a good self-defendant as a virtue, to win the power to be ugly, do not compete with noble, and is shameful. Therefore, I will lose the courage to fight for battle. Husband is mistaken, it is the best way to get the benefits, the safest, most reliable, most reasonable, this may be right under planned economy, because you don't have effects, but it can be fuelful, but Under the market economy, it is very different. I don't dare to fight. If you don't fight, you will not have a chance to send your door, and you will not have a free lunch for you. The reason is not daughter, and the direct reason is to fear the consequences. After all, any breakthrough routine behavior must take a certain risk. Any struggle may have a bloody sacrifice, and the consequences of honest people are imagined, and they have become weak. Once a person has become weak in one thing, it is likely that the "dominoes" effect will continue to be weak on the next series of things. Husband does not dare to compete, the direct reason is to be afraid of the consequences. After all, any breakthrough routine behavior must take a certain risk. Any struggle may have a bloody sacrifice, and the consequences of honest people are imagined, and they have become weak.
