The office is sometimes a small society, and colleagues are members of this small society. Like some taboo in interpersonal communication in society, there are some taboos between the colleagues. Ignore these, your colleague relationship is prone to problems.
Remember these "Don't"
There are some behaviors of behavior in relation to colleagues. These inappropriate behaviors often destroy your image in colleagues or cause colleagues' negative views on you. Therefore, remembering these things that must be avoided, the exchange of a staff and colleagues is critical.
Don't take a small circle, and the disharmony
The office should take a private self-painting to form a small circle, which is easy to cause opponents of the outside. Never, there is a small road news in the circle, which acts as a message, so will never get the true trend of others, will only be passionate about you.
Avoid your emotion, complaints
When working, it should be high in emotional state, even if you encounter setbacks, it is full of grievances, you can't get the trust of leaders, don't be stunned, grievances. The result of this will only be counterproductive. Either it is suspicious, or you can't look down on colleagues.
Don't be treated with the situation, Panlong attacked the phoenix
It is necessary to be a bright, honest, and there are two faces after people. In front of the leaders, they fully express themselves, actively take the initiative, extremely sneaked to shoot horses; colleagues or subordinates, push three-scale four, love ignore, and a graceful face. In the long run, the situation is not wonderful.
Don't complain about people
Talking to the painful experience as a talk, never talking, it will inevitably retreat. Forgot the past sad thing, put your attention in the future of hope and make a strong life. At this time, people will vote for you to admire more than pity.
Don't be gesture, behavior is specific
Don't give people a new human feeling in the office, after all, this is a formal occasion. Whether it is dressed or in a statement, I should not too avant-garde, giving people or weird impressions, which will enroll a shame of men and women in the office. At the same time, it will also be considered that there is no practical work ability, and it is a person who is a hanging man.
Do not excessively express
You may not solve it: Is it a wrong? This is not necessarily. Actively basically worth encouraging, unless they are too fire to arouse public anger. For example, seeing colleagues gathered in a piece, not to make it in the past, I'm afraid to miss any important news, but I don't have your business, but I like to publish a long story ... These, the matter is actively absolutely worthy of appreciation, but if it is active It may cause interpersonal relationships to deteriorate.
Don't worry about office friendship
The office is the place where the official is, it is definitely not a good place to play the feelings. The intestines are too good, too people think, too much to feel the feelings of others, will only hinder themselves. The next genus is too good, the other party will be happy, not very small. Trusting other colleagues, eventually, you will only find yourself betrayal.
It is enough to maintain a good relationship between colleagues, but it is enough to make it unnecessary to the same party and in progress. I have seen the true ridiculous office of the real thing. It is a staff member being fired. His good friend immediately handed a resignation. You are gone, I am not intended to stay here.
Remember, as long as you have finished the party with a colleague, his enemies immediately become your enemy, but his friends will not be friends with you. From this formula, it is not cost-effective to have people in the past.
Talk mastery
In the office, colleagues meet the longest time every day, and talking may involve various things other than work, "said wrong words" often bring you unnecessary trouble. The conversation between colleagues and colleagues, how to master the assembly is a ring that cannot be ignored in interpersonal communication.
The office is not a place to attract each other.
There are many people who love, sexual people, like to pour a bitter water to colleagues. Although this is a rich and human taste, you can make you friendly, but the research survey shows that only less than 1% of people can strictly adhere to secrets. So, when your personal crisis and fall in love, marriage, etc. impression. 办 Don't debate in the office.
Some people like to argue, they must be better than others. If you are hobbies and good at debate, it is recommended that you better stay in the office outside the office. Otherwise, even if you win the other party, it is actually that you harm his dignity. The other party may have hated it in the heart, and maybe one day he will use some way to in color.
Don't be a "whisper" scattered person
Hey, if you say it behind others, as long as people are more, there will be gossip. Sometimes you may not be careful to become a "talking"; sometimes you may be an object of others "attack". These whispers, such as those who like leaders, who is most eaten, who has rumors, etc., just like noise, affecting people's work emotions. Smart, you must know how to say, should not say that you should not talk about it.
