8 kinds of psychology affect your relationship
Good psychological quality is the necessary conditions for people to conduct extensive social activities. Instead, there is poor psychological state, and some diaphragm and barriers will form a certain extent hinder people to make friends and adapt to society. Therefore, we should pay attention to self-cultivation in work and life, and strive to overcome the pathological psychology in the following interpersonal relationships.
Some people in inferior psychology are prone to inferiority, and even look down on themselves. I only know that they don't know their long, Ganjia people, lack of self-confidence, unable to play their own advantages and specialties. People with inferiority, there is no courage to do things in social interactions, accustomed to coming with the sound, and there is no odds. This kind of mentality does not change, long time, it is possible to gradually wear people's courage, strength and unique personality.
The psychology is mainly seen in the world, and the people who have experienced shallow, introverted, and not good. The embarrassment will hinder the implementation of our plan and envisage. The psychology is the rope of the ideological behavior, and it should be discarded.
Visit the psychology, people who have guessing psychology, often use untrustworthy eyes to examine each other and look at the outside thing, every time I see what others talking about, think that people are talking about their bad things. The person who suspicion, often catching the wind, the three-way branches, says three four, provoke the incident, the result can only be self-satisfied, harm others.
Some people in the reverse and anti-psychology always love to raise with others, indicating that their own standards are different. For anything, no matter what is not a song, you said that he is too bad, you said that he is too biased, you said that the pepper is very spicy, he is not spicy. Reverse and anti-psychological is easy to blurry is a strict boundaries of non-singularity, often make people feel disgusting and disgusting.
His psychological human existing knowledge, experience, and thinking, etc., need to be updated, otherwise it will lose vitality and even generate a sub-effect. His psychology ignores this, it is manifested as a disabled, refused to expand his thinking, prompting people to circle in a narrow space in self-enclosed.
Some people who play the psychology are treated by friends, often in Qin Chu, seeing the soul, and likes to brag. This kind of person's interaction is just a surface article, so it is often not true friendship and friends.
If a person, some people think that the purpose of making friends is to "use each other", so they only make useful people who can bring their benefits to themselves, and often "cross the river to remove the bridge." This kind of interpersonal interaction will make your personality damage.
Some people in the indifference are indifferent to those who have nothing to do with themselves, and even mistakenly think that the speech is sharp, the attitude is proud. It is the "personality", so that others do not dare to get themselves, thus losing more friend.
