There is such a young man, and the university has been working for two or three years. After listening to a successful psychological class, he was quite inspired and encouraged, and the mood was excited. He said in the public speech in the class: "All the successful people, although their origin, academic qualifications, situation, occupation and personality are different, but one is common, it is self-confidence, self-confidence, is successful The first thing. In the future, I must be confident! "Everyone reported his warm applause. However, after a long time, he became a low mood. He didn't understand why he was confident when he was in class, but he became unconfident after returning. It turns out that all the studios, all the staff are higher than him, not doctors is a master, only him is a big book. So, no matter how good he is at home, as long as you go to work, you will only feel inferior and unable to confident. From this point of view, the truth is not difficult, but it is not so simple to really have confidence. Confident or inferiority, is it compared to others? Is it decided by the high and low academic qualifications, positions and performance? It should be confident that this big graduation, this big graduation, because he is "the proud of the sky". However, he is very "unfortunate", his degree in this unit is the lowest, so he can't set up self-confidence. So, if he becomes a master, do you have confidence? I am afraid, because of the master, the doctor's top, the researcher and academician! If this is really like this, I am afraid that he is impossible to be confident even if the President of the country is, because the president of a poor country seeing the rich country will not be confident ... Obviously, a person must really have confidence, first of all Break through this "narrow comparison" psychological barrier. What kind of confidence is a person? Some people say that self-confidence comes from the hints of success, that is, once a heavy responsibility or innovation is successful, this person will be confident. However, although this is not reasonable, there is still no confidence basis for confidence. One person is doing something, especially when he is responsible for heavy or bold innovation, it is necessary to confident, but also confident, but only after success. If you feel that you are not smart enough, you can do it and beautiful, often because you compare yourself and others, or to compare your reality and ideal patterns. People often see how others are beautiful and lucky, always hope that the beautiful and lucky can be owned by themselves, but rarely think that they can change themselves through their efforts, making them more smart, can do and beautiful, plasticize a new new Self. "Knowing yourself" is engraved in the only monument in the temple of the ancient Greece Dell Philippine, like a torch that is not extinguished in the millennium, expresses human and innate inherent demands and supreme thinking propositions. Nietzsche once said: "If a smart person can know yourself, you will not lose anything." Now, with the continuous development of society, people have entered a new stage of breakthrough in the society. In fact, everyone has huge potential. Everyone has their own unique personality and strengths. Everyone can choose their own goal, and through unremitting efforts to compete for their own success. Knowing yourself, it is the basis and basis of each of our self-confidence. Even if you are unfavorable, you are not comfortable, but as long as you relieve your huge potential and unique personality, you can firmly believe that I can, I can succeed.
