This is the words of our high school class teacher, I have seen it very much, and the sorrow of college students. I don't know if you are not this! A little longer, but please look around, I must return to the teacher email email: god123456@tom.com
In a new school, are you doing well? Originally this is a letter that I should write, there are many words that should be said, but I didn't write, I didn't say it. Not don't want, but I know that you are very annoying a void. So, I am waiting, waiting for your life to understand, waiting for you to feel the feelings of life, waiting for your referentition of your life attitude. These things are just a time problem, when you are about to end in a semester, when you are busy with the final exam, I think this letter can be written, these words can be said, I believe that you should have it and me. Some kind of common feelings, ideas should be able to reach a depth. You have experienced high three, but it is not black for you. It is just a feeling than usual, you have not really realized that you have a desperate meaning of your own goals, this comparison During the pale process, you have lost a chance to cast yourself. One person lost a chance is nothing, but in this time, many people lose their success. Securities, my classmates, what did you lose? Black is depressed and dull, but behind its back, it has matured and atmospheric. I still remember that the 00-level tube 2 class is now studying in Li Jun, who is in the Zhengda Software College? At the beginning, he said in our class and said: "There are two kinds of universities: one is talent, one is a scum." So spending a semester in the university, I think Q: You are talent or scum. If I have not guess, you will definitely answer me: I am neither talent is not a scum, I am bound to both. If this is this, I think: You are in the fall of the slag. Do you think it is extremely extreme? On this issue, we need to think of it extreme. In this semester, do you have a lot of time? Many times have spent the bed in the dormitory, and have been used in QQ, and there are many time to kill in the online game. The semester passed, suddenly found that I didn't listen to several lessons, although I gave you the class; suddenly found that I didn't care about a few books, although there are many collections in your college library; Suddenly I found out that I didn't learn something, although there are many things in the university to learn things. Are you currently trying to pass the end of the exam, rather than reaching outstanding and worrying, is counting a variety of ways that you will not be bright red: assault learning, cheating, please give gifts, pray alone ... Don't say classes don't understand Don't say that teachers don't care, don't say that major is not interested, don't say that the school is too bad, the degeneration does not need reasons, only need excuses. If I have not remembered, your tuition fee is more than 5,000 yuan. The highest has reached 9,000 yuan, plus your living expenses and other fees, most of you can reach more than 10,000 yuan, you are now studying in college It is an education that accepts a high fees, but your parents have high investment, how many outputs have you got in your body? Most of you are from rural areas, or small business families. There are not many people in the family. Every penny now uses the hard-earned money earned by their parents. Even the money borrowed everywhere, and it contains Unparalleled hardships with your love. On the old face they were leaving by the years, there is a pair of eyes full of hopeful eyes, the pair of turbidity and even a little blurred eyes.
I hope that I can become disappointed, and disappointment can become desperate, but who is this changed decision? Responsibility is not someone else to give you, but your own mature idea. You all said that he grew up, saying that he was mature, but I think that 20 years old is just a fashionable maturity. You have a responsibility that you can't shirk in your parents, but you have gave up your mission in an unfair. After the semester, when you return to your home, your parents are still adding to you, still full of hope for you, still ignoring you, but you have no apologies, don't talk about your study, even Don't give them a list of results, hiding in a corner, using your own hand swappable, should be signed by them. Liar, a hypocritical liar, a liar that has no sense of responsibility, a liar that can be a scum, I don't want, more don't want my student, the students at the 01-level tube Trip change, I have been stubborn : You can be my pride. It is very difficult to build a thing, it is easy to destroy one thing, students, please remember and assume your responsibility for your parents. In this semester, many students are reflected in such a question: I don't know what I have to do, or don't do anything. This is a very common interest in the students who just entered the university because you lose the goal. The reasons are as follows: First: You have made a university. Complete the ultimate goal of primary school, junior high school, high school. For many students, universities are the final stage of study. After reading a university, you will find a job, but this is still so uncomfortable for you have done the twelve years. Second: The teaching method in the university is completely different from other teaching methods. There is no teacher in the university to turn around you, I am afraid that you have not learned something, and you have a good thing to learn, you are already an adult. There is no previous repetitive explanation, there is no homework that I can't finish before, you think that the class is empty, how about learning, how is it? Instead of learning this hard, it is better to let yourself be free. Third: There is too much time in the university. From the previous early self-study, there are teachers who have the task layout you want to complete, and now there is no one to tell you what you should do, let you think it is awkward. Most of you have lack of independence and good self-control, you can't grasp these more freedoms at all. Fourth: The counselors in the university are completely different from the previous class teacher. The previous class teacher is to manage, just like a harsh nanny, because we will see you as a long-growing child; now the counselor does not care, because they regard you as an adult. In this process, there is a very huge outset, you can't complete this transformation at all psychology and intelligence. Fifth: Most of you lack clear, clear life goals. What kind of people do in the end, what kind of career do it, these are no concepts for you. From the ideal of the primary school, I will go to the beginning of the junior high school era. My university in the high school era, I am confused from the university era, you have completed the transformation of life goals in this process, and finally the dead worm is dead. skin. I think it is this five-point integrated role that makes you lose goals. However, there is no direction of the boat, what the wind is not a good wind. You should find your own goals, not to say, but just as short as possible. Here I give you a suggestion, I hope to help you find the goal.
The first step: I will leave all the obstacles, starting from professional, thinking about what kind of work going to do in the end, or what kind of business. Find a white paper, record your final decision, please don't hesitate. Plane advertising designer? Animation designer? Webset designer? Network programming designer? Software Development Engineer? Communications Engineer? Architect? Mold design engineer? ... Step 2: Use the network, talent market recruitment revelation and other channels to fully understand the professional skills and other skills required for your order. Most of these skills are from books to school. What you need to do is to list a learning book in the order from the basis to a deep order. Please write on paper. Step 3: Press the book to assign a learning time to yourself. Of course, most of you can allocate your own spare time. And put it into every semester, let your own study plan each semester. Step 4: Learn by the study plan, you will learn, and use all possible conditions to practice. I believe that if every classmate has a goal, you will live very fulfilled, you will be busy, and you will get a lot. So, please give yourself a goal for each classmate. In fact, in four steps, one, two, three steps are very easy to implement, the hardest is the fourth step, it is really not easy. First, there are too many college students with too many mixed days, they have a chic life yearning for the same age, to achieve the fourth point, you need to overcome the impact of the environment. Second, there are too many temptations in the university. There is also a sound that makes itchy, and people feel excited in the online game; there is a couple of coming with each other in the road lights by the lake; You can make a drank, you have to do it, you need to reject these temptations, walk in the university in the eyes of others. If you have to live loneliness and loneliness, it seems to be university life. But the success and great people are loneliness and loneliness. They have cultured their super perseverance and the wisdom of their perseverance. There is an animal called a vulture, which has a taxi of the mouth with sharp paws. However, although the growth of the year, its pointed scorpion will grow, longer, you can make you unable to go to the 啄物; its paws will grow thick meat, put the paws together, let It can't go to catch the prey. There is no food to die, this is the unchanging rule. For it, death seems to be the only way out. However, it made a choice that can be shocked by human beings: it repeatedly 啄 啄 in the hard rock, folded the long part, until the previous sharp; use the mouth between the paws啄, although the flesh and blood is blurred, it hurts. This process is enough to last for more than a month, then they fly proudly in the sky like the past. Pain, great, newborn process. Life, isn't it the same? Maybe someone will ask: Why can someone can live a lot of life, and I have to work hard. I convert it to another question: I am going to enjoy life or shaping myself. There are many students trying to attend the student meeting and the officers and cadres of the various communities when they first entered the university. Afterwards, many students have sent such sigh: unfair, and do everything.
I want to ask, the school is still, what is the society? Is it more thorough to the power, relationship, and money? What are you in the society? It is necessary to have no power, it is necessary to have no relationship. If there is no banknotes, what else is there? At the beginning of graduation, you either engage in management work or engage in technical work. But you have no power, there is no relationship, no banknotes, if you want to do how good management work, if you want to get the four-digit monthly salary, isn't a Nanke dream? Your best choice is to engage in technical work, but this requires real material, which is not very powerful, hard, and has more banknotes. Recently, Chongqing TV Station is replaying TV drama "Mountain Castle". I believe that many students have seen this TV series. What kind of feelings have been left to you at the time? Funny, comedy. But this funny and comedy is different from "Silly Director". It is the poor, helplessness, self-improvement, and laughing of the tears after laughing. You can't look down on their work in your heart, otherwise let you go to make a great bar, will you go? I think you will not go. However, when your college graduated, he suddenly found himself in addition to got a college diploma. In addition to the topic of the university, he did not learn the truly hard book, you did the work. What is good? Maybe just name is good, maybe anyone can do it. When you have to blame the sky? Each of us wants to have high quality life, and we want to make your own relatives. Worry-free life, want to leave their own traces in the world, but these are not enjoys. God gave us a hands and a brain, just let us create and think. The university is your best study time, so please give up enjoyment, try to reshape itself, and accumulate strength for the future. Since it is talking about college life, then love is to talk. It is an adolescent young man and girl, and love is inevitably happening here. But I don't know when, this is never doubtful, but it has never been questioned: the current college students are flooding. The criticism of major media is intensified. Nowadays, there are mostly utilitarian, desires, indulgence inside. Every year, each year, the couple finally meals, last hug, the last time kissed, then turned to leave, set foot on their respective journey, from this feeling, just like never happened. Love is just a need for a need. You are now a first semester. There are many people to catch love or caught by love. But I hope that your love is sincere, it is serious, pure, is very colored. If you think he is very handsome, I want to go to fall in love with him, please think twice; if you think she is beautiful, I want to go to fall in love, please think twice; if you think it is lonely, I want to find someone to fall in love, please think twice If you just listen to a few words of speech, go with someone in love, please give up. The word "love" is actually clearly clear that it is object: The following "Friends" words indicate that you should know him (her), he (she) should be your friend; "ㄇ" means you want to be friends Seriously selected; "ノ" means that you can only choose a lover in the picked selection, others can only use your friends. Please cherish your emotions, otherwise it will become very cheap. what is love? This should be clear in your heart.
