Accepting things with their own willingness with their own will
As the saying goes: the world is not as good as eighteen nine. People live in the world, ten people will be as good as eightjins. What is your reflection when faced? Most people face it, almost all are angry, annoyed, frustrated, resentful ... But if you have eightjins, you are treated with such emotions, walk down, look back, don't you just bitter water? And when people are in a bad mood, they tend to come one after another, and the disaster is not single!
How do you think notes? Is there a good way to face not torture?
First come to analyze: Ruyi and unsatisfactory. What is it? The same as the final result is like it; then it is not as good as the end of what I think and the final result is not as good! There is a problem here: people always think that their ideas are the most correct, not in accordance with their own ideas is wrong. People will unconsciously regard their own ideas as truth. So when others don't do it in accordance with their own ideas, they will worry. But the saying goes well: the party is fascinated. People are often fascinated in things: Will be correct, and correct, it is wrong. So in the face of it is not satisfactory, the best solution is to accept - identifying that you think is wrong. This is to be a surface, it is forced to have, but the actual is just the opposite. Because things have already happened, even if you think that your idea is correct, you can't change the reality. With it to keep your own thoughts, you can afford your mind and body, but we will give up your own ideas, agree with the other party. Because no one can go to the front of time, I will see who is wrong.
Below I use an example:
In the first two years, the enterprises at this year, a large number of workers were forced to buy, the main business and three production, the logistics out of the logistics, the three production and logistics either restructure, or a mess. A customer is very glad to tell me: "I really thank the Director of our workshop, or if he made by, I also had to say Byebye with the factory" I asked: "Do you?" What do you thank you? " "I am inverting work, I am too old, I want to change a light life, I think people look at the car in Cheung, the salary is not much less than me, there is a bit right, all of the right love to three or logistics , Doing lightly, I started the event last year, first looking for a place to receive me, spending a lot of money, I finally do it, I will go to Director, accompanying my face, you can give me a sentence. Word, no matter how I say good, he just don't! I really put me fainted! In fact, we usually have a usual relationship. I don't know why he is right with me. I still said: "Do you look at me? "The director said: 'Yes, I will see you not pleasing.' Since then, I didn't tell him in the last half of the year, and I didn't know how many times in the back. But this year, this year, outstanding workers The fragrant, if the director last year, I agree with me, I agree to me, this year, I also went home. Now I see our director, I am sorry. "From this case, if she understands the calm heart accepting with themselves If the willingness violates, there will be no more than half a year, and there will be no embarrassment when he faces the director.
Second case: A customer, marriage is divorced in many years, with a child for more than ten years. She said that she was young, she did not eat at a loss. Now look back, because the tip makes it difficult to get yourself. She is very emotional to tell me: "It is very good to use it." She gave me a chair, she just married, because of the branch, brought her a series of uncomfortable. She said: "I remember that I was married, there was a chance to be branched. We also have two pairs of married. If the score, she is higher than me, two sets of houses, a set is more new, set is old I will give it a pair according to the new house, but I am a loss of people! I will go to the leadership office, don't give me the house, don't want to work! In the end, the new house gave me. I put it in invisible The couple have sinned, and it is also sinned. Since then, the salary is affected. Not a few years we divorced, I didn't expect that I have such a big housing, but it is a wrong choice. I asked " why? "She said:" I haven't been in a few years, and the housing of the couple has moved into a beautiful, spacious and bright new residential community because it is a dangerous house. And I am almost 20 years now, I still live in this broken house, the floor is high, the pattern is unreasonable, the area is small. Ugh! I understand it now, I haven't used it. "It is not difficult to see from her conversation. Due to power, she is not only this time, forcing others according to her willingness, and from her", it is not used. "It can be seen that she eats the bitterness will not be less So when there is a good time in life, be sure to learn reverse thinking - imagine that your idea is wrong, the other party is correct. Otherwise, if you learn foxes fail to get the grape, the method of treatment - that grape must be acid Not good!
