Transform enemies into benefactors
The enemy is the most hated person, and the benefactor is the person who is most grateful. How can the most hated people be converted into the most grateful people? How to transform?
When others make a evil behavior, you hate him into your enemy; you don't hate him, you will become your benefactor.
China's ancestors lost their mother and was very unfortunately in a vicious step. The stepmother is not pleasing to the body from entering the door, and he is not hitting him, and it is finally upgraded to death. I don't hate her for the rest of the stepmother, but I think it is not good. He believes that the stepmother is not happy from entering the home, this is his unfilial filial piety, he did not do it well to let the stepmother is angry. The more the stepmother is not good, the more condemned himself, so that filial piety is getting strict and sincere. The behavior passed to the emperor's ears, and heard that his country was very moving. Immediately, please ask you to enter the palace, two daughters have been met, and the throne will give it to the throne. he. If it is not a vicious stepmother, the filial piety will not be triggered. He is impossible to board the throne, the stepmother is the greatest benefactor. If you hate his stepmother, there is no greatness of the elderly. It is because I don't hate, and the big huntees will transform the enemy's enemy into a lifelong grateful.
I can be fortunate to come to Beijing, because I don't hate. I was in the middle of the year, I only went to the city to open the store, live in my little aunt, my cousin didn't welcome me, because I want to live in a room with her, then she was very nervous, her The character is very "unique", do not like someone within her sight. She is almost indignant every day. She takes out the book from the bag to the desk, and thereby venting my dissatisfaction. I have to go to bed every day before she came back, I didn't dare to make a little, and I would like to affect her study. The homework of the high school is very important. I always think that I have to affect her study, but I am small, I really don't dare to live outside. So, no matter how it makes a temper, I have never born, even if she goes to my store, I pointed to me, I am not angry. My aunt and aunt did not dare to say her, afraid that she was in the emotional impact. So, the easier, my aunt, and the more I feel sorry for me. My second aunt was in Beijing at the time. After she returned to my hometown, I began to figure out how I can get me in Beijing. I have more than 30 children, add up to have more than 30, just I am fortunate to come to Beijing. I said that she had sent a vow, a relative didn't get around, but I came here, but she didn't even dream, how can I get me? So I can come to Beijing, all because my cousin, she is my benefactor. I also changed the seemingly grateful benefactor because I didn't hate.
It is because the people who feel that each other are sorry, they are hurt, they have lost their own. In fact, what is the real life? At the beginning, if I think I have suffered a loss, and the kernel sister is more, I may now in the countryside, because I didn't live outside at that time. Enemy is still benefactors, select the right to be in you. If you have hate, you have an enemy, you don't hate yours in your life. When you choose to hate, you will block more walls in front of you; when you choose not to hate, you are a spacious avenue in front of you.
