There is no ready-made good man in the world.
Everyone is affected by habits, character, hobbies, and different family education, forming unique personality. There are many descriptions of individuality, such as: there are no two identical people in the world; there are no two different leaves in the world; I am a unique creation of the world, etc.
There is no unique person who specializes in your own unique personality. When a woman is choosing, I want to find one: habits are the same as they; the character is compatible with themselves; the hobby and the man who does not conflict with themselves are almost impossible. Because of the unique personality formed by habits, character, hobbies, etc., like a gear that is constantly running, the mismatch is actually in another gear that can be albeded with this gear. This is a very difficult thing, you have one or two parties you have one or two things that are the same as your habits, and when you wait until you live together, those incompatible person will be highlighted, some people will complain The man has become a marriage, and some people suspect that it is wrong to choose the wrong person. So very disappointed breakup re-chosen, but no matter how careful choices, wait until life, there will be all kinds of problems. If you can recognize the incompatibility caused by personality, you want to solve it. How do you solve it?
In fact, the best solution is to engage. Because a good man is comparable to his own habits, character, hobby, is a good man you need. So if you don't work with your own personality, you will not find a good man who is right for you. How to make a running? It is the best way to treat each other with some of your own personality. The life of my two elderly people will give it a little revelation:
My father is sixty-two years old this year, the waist is straight, the red light is full, and decades' calligraphy practice makes him develop a very good personality. He does not smoke, not alcohol, after retirement, get up every morning, come back to the outside, come back After writing, let me do some housework, and people around me have blessed my mother. As a daughter, I am very clear why my mother has such a blessing.
In fact, when the father is young, special love is playing mahjong. If you don't have anything, you can find a few people to play late at night, and the next day, I will not be a common thing for a whole day. People who love to play mahjong are very fierce, my father is no exception. Mother treats my father's bad habits, not using the general wife's approach ------- complaining. But first, persuade my father not to play too long, the body can't stand. Although the father is playing, it is very good, it is very good. The father's words are not very written. When the official needs to sign, the mother will take the opportunity to persuade him to practice, and the father has not broken since then, and since the practice of praise will be less. The father quit smoking mother is also a way of persuasion, a serious smoking, gotting in the morning, coughing, and sinful people have seen it. Mother advised him to say: "Just arrived in middle age, it would be more troublesome!" The father stopped twice, and there was no smoking in the future. Some people will think that my father can listen to persuasion, but if the father is just a bad habit, the mother is just complaining, and there will be no good father today. Be a wife, I want my husband. If I only look at the problems on my husband every day, I have complained that I have complained enough, even if I complain for a lifetime, I will not have a good man.
My father's temper is particularly big. Although he does not lose his temper, it is very good to my mother-in-law, but as long as I lose my temper, I will be swearing. My mother-in-law said that my temper is not good. When I am not married, I don't have to be afraid of her. When I was at the time, I didn't agree, because my father's temper was named, the old man felt that the two temper were together, the days were definitely bad. My mother-in-law said that the public is a worker, and she can bring her from the countryside, and then, the father-in-law is young, so I will firmly agree. After marriage, I tasted the suffering. Little small house will violently jump, even if two people are quarreling when they are pregnant. My mother-in-law said: "I am not afraid of people. He is too powerful than him. He is also awkward. He also fell. Who is afraid of who!" But the mother-in-law did not put the mall tube of the father-in-law Ok, let yourself have passed.
Every life of quarrels, every time, my mother-in-law is going to tears. My mother-in-law playing mahjong is back at 5:30 in the evening.
When the public helped her, my mother-in-law said that I am too late, I will come back at eight o'clock tomorrow, and I will come back at eight o'clock next day.
I gave my mother-in-law and said: "My dad will make a temper, you don't respond, let him send. The best way to deal with the people who have a strong temper is not angry. The stone encounters the stone will be tenure, the stone touchs cotton. Damaged. "Mother-in-law said:" He rushed me with temper, I don't say anything, he still believes that I am afraid of him? "I said:" Then, you haven't afraid of him, what do you get? The feelings are emotional, not in the fight, not to win the other party? "The mother-in-law feels a little reasonable, and it is not very good to talk to the public. The father's temper is really much more.
The home is metaphor into a warm harbor, in order not to be tamed by the other person, in order to fight for a sigh, the home will become a battlefield, become a ice. In order to prevent the other party, it is the happiness of his life.
In fact, a good man has ready, that is a woman's achievement.
