When I was in October this year, I cousin, because I couldn't work at home, my aunt (his mother) let him come here, let me find a job for him, let him learn something, and also You can go online without such an obsession.
Let me say that he is fascinated by the Internet. At the beginning, I was teaching his computer class. When I was in class, I was very fascinated by computer games. When he went to high school, because he own It's not good, and the school wind is not good, the family is far away, the economy is autonomous, all the conditions that can be entered the game, the result is no day, no night, play the game, play "legend", play "Westward Journey", There are also some games that I have, in short, I don't have to play, and I am going to sleep, it is just to sleep, it is said that when I was in class, the teacher had to answer the question, the result is called He, look at him, quickly said: Sorry, I don't know if you, you sit down, continue to sleep! In this level, it is really sighing.
After coming to Wenzhou, I didn't have to implement it yet. The first weekend, because my friend came over, I let him go to my other cousin, the result, he can be good, there is no obvious, and disappear. , There is no news, I am in a hurry, I am busy calling home for help, I have found it can be found, I don't want to go to Wenzhou's big and small Internet cafes, next or his family ratio We are unhappy, maybe he will come back in a few days; Sure enough, after a week, he called Qian Jun, saying that he came back, but no money, to pick him up, I passed him, see him I didn't take a shower in a week, my face acne, I didn't know how to say him, I found a place to eat, bring him back; after this time, no one is scared. Hurry to work, let him go to work, although the salary is not high, but it is also a relaxed thing, I have thought that he is definitely no problem, he also said that it is not difficult, who knows that after a week, he The boss said with me that he couldn't do this, because he stayed for a week, and did not learn anything. I am stupid. I said that I am going to let him go home. His family will help him send some money and clothing, and there is something to eat. I originally gave it to keep these money. Who knows, he It is missing, the result, goes to the Internet cafe, it is playing for a week, I can't help it, I am busy sending him back. Later, he said with his mother, because he did not pass my phone, so he went to the Internet cafe to play, and I also blackded it.
I saw it on the Internet. It is said that online games are more, in fact, it is harmful to youth's intelligence, I think it is also in front of the computer, and I'm not normal people's life, new metabolism, biological clock, heart rate, I still don't know if there is normal? How does intellectually low?
Still look at how people say how to quit this thing, it is simply more than the arppery.
"Internet addiction", learning is called Internet addiction syndrome, is a modern new form of psychological disease. Patients have lack social communication and interpersonal communication, the patient is regarded as a real life, out of the times, and there is no common language with others, there is no longer, emotional, slow thinking, self-evaluation, etc., severe and even suicide ideas behavior. Medicine this symptom is called "Internet Addiction Syndrome", referred to as IAD. There is a study showing that a long time online will increase some of the chemicals in the brain, which makes the patient with a short time of a short time, and the virtual world of indulging in the network cannot be self-extricted. For a long time, these effects will bring a series of complex physiological and biochemical changes. The initial period of the patient is only expressing the spirit of the network. It is easy to develop into the body's dependence. There is an appetite, anxious, and even trigger cardiovascular disease, gastrointestinal nerve function, tension head pain, anxiety, melancholy All kinds of diseases need to receive depth psychological counseling.
How to determine if "Internet addiction"?
1. Do you think that the Internet has occupied your body and mind? 2. Do you feel that only the increasing Internet time can be satisfied, so that the Internet time is often longer than the predetermined time? 3, is it unable to control the impulse of the Internet? 4. Whenever the Internet is cut off or because other reasons cannot be accepted, it will be irritated or emotional. 5. Is it the only way to go online as a painful? 6. Is there an extent to which the family or relatives conceal the inexpensive Internet? 7. Is it dangerous because of the danger of falling education, unemployment or losing friends? 8. Is there regret when paying a high income online fee, but the next day, but still can't help but go online?
If there are 4 or more of the above performance, and the duration has reached more than one year, then "Internet addiction syndrome" has been issued.
Recently, the Central Committee of the Central Committee awarded the title of "Youth Network Love Ambassador" Tao Hong said in an interview with his interviews: Ten do not. These points are mainly for their children, they are:
1, don't despair, I believe that the child's problem will solve, this is the premise and foundation for solving the problem. Never give up your child, there is no educational child, only incorrect methods. Many times, the child is innocent and is a victim.
2, don't be superstitious, just believe in him alone, and don't believe in volunteers, suspecting volunteers. Qiki children's Internet addiction should rely on the power of the whole society, including parents, teachers, volunteers, and all have knowledgeable people with social responsibility.
3, don't be eager to get ridiculous, ask the effect immediately, and immediately see the child from the Internet addiction, anything to solve it needs a process, let alone the child's Internet addiction is the result of a variety of factors.
4, don't look at the child as an adult, the child is a child, the child will experience a lot of twists and turns in the growth process, and Internet addiction is just one.
5, don't do always command ordered traditional parents, you have to communicate with your child, learn to be a child's friend, when the child meets the problem, he will tell you.
6, don't love children, love is too loved, anything will not let children worry, don't, let children know how to be a person, let him learn to worry about her own things, family things.
7. Don't discriminate against your child, your child has made mistakes, do something wrong, to help children analyze the reason for making mistakes, don't discriminate against children, hurt your child's self-respect. Children who make mistakes need to respect, rather than taking painting, ironic, is the most stupid approach.
8, don't everything to be centered on children, don't everything to be parental, principled things must insist, such as morality, such as respected elders, such as kind, these principles of people can not lose, even if children are not happy Also stick to. Similarly, parents can't do everything to be centered on themselves, such as work, overtime, just throw children, or always with their own things, think that children are small things, don't put it on your heart In this way, the child will have problems sooner or later. 9, don't use the old eyes to see the present child, you have to keep pace with the times, the core of keeping pace "time", the era is different, the concept of ideas will change, parents should actively learn new knowledge, new Concept, new way.
10, don't ignore the child's computer network education, prevent children's Internet addiction is the best saving measures, don't wait until the child is addicted, before you want to quit, save. Children have to make this education before contacting the computer network, so that the child understands the computer network as the tool we learn and work like a dictionary and dictionary, not toys. To properly use the latest most advanced tools in this humanity, not just as a senior toy. There is also the following website: About the quit network: http://wy.cnii.com.cn/zgwybrdlm15/ like a detoxification network: http://www.intosd.com/news/board49/2004- 12 / Saaozw_1102737132.html
