To all my friends (regardless of marriage and unmarried)
If you have no time to taste, please seize your heart when you have time, look at your heart.
Single, sometimes it is not necessarot. Single may be free, but the freedom has a synonym, called loneliness. Because people don't like someone else; sometimes good things need to be shared with people, sometimes it is difficult to comfort. The reason for single aristocrats is due to economic independence, independence of personality and independence. Independence? Independence is required without relying, an independent person needs an opposite sex, not dependence.
Before doing the lover, she should be a friend first. After she became your friend, she appeared in your life, she may know you, know you, know your strengths and give you a good feeling, further develop emotions, become a lover, object. The color of the world is not only white and black, and there is a very long gray zone between black and white. As long as you have more, you can find the advantages of the other party, produce a good sense, this is the natural process of developing emotions. (Love at first love) and (from one and final) feelings are unrealistic, we need this unrealistic and illusory feelings. Some people describe with heterosexuality, as if they pick up the stone by the sea, everyone will like the one. Once you have a favorite stone, take it home, treat it, because it is your only stone. And remember, don't go to the seaside from now. (Always believe, I have found the biggest, most beautiful, best for me).
The most important thing to interact with the opposite sex is nothing, but what is how good he is for you. If a person is very good, there is a hundred points, but this is only three or forty points, or a twenty-one reverse, another person may only have seven or eighty points, but he It is treating you wholeheartedly, then you should choose that one? In fact, everyone's conditions are the same. No matter how good you are, someone is better than you. Although you can't do it (the best person), you do it (the best person to each other). Every boy can say: "Although I am not the best man in the world, I am the world's best man". " In contrast, the girl is also the same, this is what everyone is doing. The most important thing is that he is good for you, not what he himself. But if there is a person itself is already very good, I am sincerely sincere, I really love you, then you can really entrust his life to him. Now that women consider the only condition of marriage, it should be that you love him, he loves you, is it really true to you, will not have pressure with him, will not be happy, not what he is!
The true love in the world is very difficult. It's hard to find a person who really loves you, really can live with him for a lifetime. If you are expressing, or if you are afraid, there will only be a true love that may have once a lifetime, that is, it is a pity, so we must take the initiative, say the words in your heart. If a boy looks at him because the girl takes the initiative to take the initiative, then the boy is not a boys, but the stupid. What's more, happiness is important than the face. If you sacrifice for a long time, you can change your life, it is very worthless, bravely telling your heart, don't hide your own sincerity. Don't say that the fate is not until there is, but there is a fate everywhere, but it is slightly, if "edge" is not in time, there is no "share". Most women are biased with their feelings, and men are biased in substances. In addition to the affiliate of the girl, the boy must learn to be responsible for the girl. It is necessary to use all the girls in the world to be used for a girl. In addition, Junyi Munja can't ask the girl, so I have to learn to be sweet in the girl's sweet words. A relaxed, happy feelings are easy! A difficult and painful feelings are not easy, and you should have something to choose. We are all Fan Fu, as is ordinary and happy and happy love. For all emotions, the process is far more important than the results. why? Because all feelings are no results. What is the result? Married? Have a happy day after marriage? It can be seen that we don't have the results of emotional results, and it is not worthy of the value of time. For feelings, all there are existence, all have valuable. Every paragraph in the world, every minute, every second is worth cherishing. Marriage is the biggest gamble in life. In this unlimited time, we have to show each other to see each other. Different marriages and love are: love can spend two hours to dress themselves, and the spirit is attentive, considerate, and easily completed the task. However, marriage cannot maintain a state of high and oldest. So, marriage is a big bet, there is a need to prepare, a weekly plan, full letter, then go to it, even if it is like this, it is possible to lose. So if you are gambling, you know that you are not willing, don't love him, don't want to spend a lifetime with him, then this bet is destined to lose. Don't marry any reason outside of love. The preciousness is not that I can get anything from the other side, one aspect is a dependence, the feeling of being needed. Someone relies on me, I need me, I will get it.
In the face of emotions, what we have to take is the three non-policies: the first is not anxious: don't worry. Although marriage is a good thing, don't worry, it is yours. The second is not afraid: don't be afraid. It is necessary to work hard to work hard to maintain your feelings. You can't "get" a wonderful feelings, you can only find a person you love to work together, create a good feelings. If you are not determined to do a good job, then you can't get a good woman. There is no bad man in the world, there will be a good woman, the bad man will only have poor women; the same, no bad woman will have a good man. Moreover, there is a person who works with us and wants to do it well. The opportunity of this partnership success is very big, the key is whether you are willing to work hard and pay. The third is not to give up. When you have been hit, frustration, hurt, when you feel discouraged, there is a person unconditional, always stand on this side, support you, encourage you, comfort you, let you reappear to face this world It is no longer to give us another parent, and you can't give us another friend. Only by the beloved part of the journey of life can give us. In fact, love is the only life, truly precious; is also the only thing that is really pursuit. As long as you have a beloved person, you have original power, you can face the world. I hope everyone is happy.
---------------------------------------------- When you When the sun is, I will only see my shadow, I have to work hard to collect the light to make the future become Lang Lang sunny day.
