The career is here ----- We often say: there is no absolute thing in the world, only relative things. How is it? Is it a career?
This seems not good to discuss. "The book said:" There is no need to represent success, but there is no money must not be successful. I self-study << Aesthetic Principles >>, said in the book, when a life is rich, the warm sun is a beauty for him, but when a person even has a basic warm problem, when When he only thinks how to solve the problem, he will not pay attention to the beauty of the sun. The sun is not just right. Similarly, many people hope to see the vast sea, when he stands by the sea. When the sea, his mood is pleasant. The sea is beautiful, but when he played in the sea, the big waves came over, he would be afraid, because the big sea at this time is so close, His a threat to his life is safe. He should have already made a career, and it has the ability to build a home, can give home security, and give others sense, trust and feelings and Reliable.
Shaping yourself ----- people, is living to the old, learning to be old. No one dares to say that you have no things. The world is so
Everyone, he will grow up, it will mature. And the so-called mature people, he should give a sense of words and deeds, and others can give people sense and trust, let others feel very good, he has good Self-cultivation, he is self-reliant, self-reliant, self-love. Independence, consider the problem will look at the long-term, comprehensive angle..
Knowledge is never end, the world is so big, knowledge is also, one person, for a few decades, it is impossible to learn all the knowledge on the world, but he can constantly learn, keep learning. When a learned When there is more and more wide, he will find that there is still a lot to find it. We often say: We can't change the length of life, but we can change its width.
A person's cultivation is very important, and people who have cultivated people will have the power, and they are in the world. It is advisable to outside, because people have feelings, and interpersonal relationship is very important in today's society.
In China, when a woman gave up some things because she married a person she loved, she liked: For you, I give up .... "
If it is the same situation, the Americans will say: "This is your own choice. It is your own choice." Yes, in fact, everything is your own choice, everyone's life can only be able to master himself Others can't interfere, and don't do it. When you lose a car, you can choose the injury to cry, you can also choose to take a smile. When you face difficulties, you can choose bravely, You can also choose to escape. The way life is your own choice, don't blame what "fate", other, the same.
In fact, self-cultivation is everyone's own business. You can choose to make yourself a noble person can also become a despicable person, you can choose to be a good person, you can choose to become a charity. In short, Everything is your own choice. Remember this sentence.
Sincere, optimistic, strong, independent, self-esteem, self-reliance, self-reliance, self-love, self-confidence, perseverance, personality, the day after the day, actually change - as long as you change.
In fact, a person wants to change another person is very difficult. The so-called "Jiangshan is easy to change, it is difficult to move", and if he is determined to change some aspects, as long as he has perseverance, you can do it. " Things, I am afraid that I have a heart. "
Cecil:
I think you know yourself than anyone.
In fact, it is difficult to rely on others to change yourself. I have never thought about changing one person.
I used to think that if one day, there is a person who really loves me, I think he will work hard to work hard to create his prospects, because he will think of making me happiness. I can become his motivation, let him constantly Go forward. I can become a strong backing, let him have no worries.
I have never thought about changing myself for someone, I always think that if the person really loves me, he likes my person itself. He should be tolerant, understand me, to be able to include me If he wants me to make me like him, then I am no longer me, but another person, he likes it is not true, but he imagined the person.
And your own goal should be determined by you, I am just me, not you, you are the only thing - in this world, everyone is unique. And you want to reach your own goal, Need yourself have a good self-made force, perseverance, perseverance, and never give up.
In fact, you also understand, of course, everyone understands that everyone understands, some people have done, and some people will only sigh themselves, but they can't surpass themselves, stagnant forever.
Said so much, just hope that you understand --- You you can master your own destiny, only you can change yourself. Everything is your own choice.
I hope that in the future life, no matter what setbacks and difficulties, you can face it bravely.
Remember: Sunshine is always in the storm! Celia
2004.12.30
Postscript: There is not much content, just, I also have been in the intermittent to write a few days. It seems to be written to you. In fact, it is also feeling life. I haven't been written for a long time. I always feel that I can express it. Just hope Inspired you, I think there is a value for nearly one thousand words.
