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There is a type of folk story, about two brothers. The beginning of the story is always like this: "There have been two brothers, brothers are loyal, and the brothers are lazy. After the death of the parents, the brothers have divided into a home." The result of the family is not used, the brother is halfway, and brother Take it half of the difference. Later, the younger brother who had a delayed lazy, also used all kinds of opportunities, to take advantage of the cheap, kindly brother of my brother, and always let your brother have to succeed. Of course, the story is finally, with the help of a smart wife, kind fairy, or the help of the Golden Silk bird, my brother always lives a happy life, and the brother gets the end of the descendant.
This story reflects people's general impression: Big brother is very moral sense, and the younger girl is very careful, my brother's sister is always worried about others, and your brother sister will only calculate itself. According to the personality of a person, it is only determined in the genetic and environment. A milky compatriot, the genetic gene is similar, the growth environment is similar, why are we impressed, a family of people, his character is often more like another family, rather than a brother sister. ?
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Great scientists can make great discovery, rarely because they have mastered unique evidence. The species examples cited in "Species Origin" have not exceeded the knowledge category of general museums. However, these species evidence that in most experts, it is the best support for God created everything, and the best refuteed to evil evolution. They are indifferent to the sample, and they don't consider the possibility of evidence. In 1871, after 12 years, Darwin said in a letter: "I have been thinking last night, what exactly, what is the discovery of a unknown, this is a very confusing problem. Many People are smart, but much more smart than those finders, but they have never had any innovation. "
Dr. Frank J. Salovir, Harvard University, was attacked by the Darwin issue. Why did you face the same evidence? Some people are willing to find a new elaboration, and someone is only satisfied with the evidence to the ready-made frame. ? He guessing some differences between scientists and scientists, some scientists are fascinated by the buildings that have been built, sincerely worshiped to its grandeur, willing to pay for a lifetime to continue to add bricks, and ready to kill all the strange words; Some scientists are always ready to move. Suspected that everything is existing authority, once there is new evidence, I will prepare a theoretical revolution. Later, during the teaching of the Human Corrition and Cognitive Science Department of MIT, Salovay's focus on the scientific community in Darwin, according to the attitude toward the evolution, and he invited a group of scientific history. For more than 200 scientists at that time, the support and opposition two camps were set. Then arrange the background of scientists, one by one, the nationality, religion, age, property, social status, Oedipus conflict (relationship with parents), sequential sequence, etc., research scores and background factors.
The results found that the most significant difference between the two camps is that the proportion of support and opposition is 9: 1. In the child, this proportion is close to 1: 1, that is, the child's tendency to receive evolution is a whole nine times ahead; "the origin of the species" is published, many of the people who oppose evolution Strive to come over, but the child's support tend to support evolution, still 4.4 times the child of the child. Salovir has further studied 28 scientific arguments in history. In the direct challenge of the traditional scientific revolution, such as Coperni theory, the child has a tendency to accept the tendency of helicicology, and it is 5 to 15 times the child of the child. For a slightly mild new theory, like mainland drift, support for children The tendency is also 2 to 3 times the child of the child. Even the theory of the child, like Newton, Einstein, Freud et al., Support the new theory, and greatly exceeded their proportion in the population. Salovir finally concluded that the child of the child tends to maintain the status quo, and the child will prefer to challenge authority.
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Salovir put Darwin's survival of the survival, introduced the warmth of the warmth, and launched a huge picture of family politics. Like animal competition natural resources, children must also compete for family resources: parents' concerns and investment. The results of competition are not only related to their future, but also in a family in life, this even directly determines the life and death of the children. If the child is born, it is necessary to go all out to participate in a survival competition of animal instinct.
Different birth sequences determine different competitive strategies. The advantages of the boss are very obvious, the biggest knowledge, the most knowledge, can easily suppress the rebellion of your younger brothers, in many societies, the eldest son / long-lasting girl naturally has the status of the heirs. Due to the earliest, the boss has accumulated the most concerned and investment, the best strategy of boss is to strengthen their own successors, and ensure that the best resources are spent on themselves. One of the hands of the Ming, is the value standard of parents, and the life of the parents, and imitates the family character of their parents, do some housework, manage smaller children, and strive to shape the brilliance of successors. The dark hand, nature is the status of the body advantage and "agent parents", which gives all the dangers in the sprouting of all dangers.
Under the boss of the absolute advantage, although the children were dissatisfied, they could not knew the knife, and they could only take the flexible mobility strategy. The emotional reaction is obviously spoiled, using his own weak position, and when you encounter bullying, you will cry, seek protection. Some of them, pay attention to the development of themselves multi-art, to the strength of my brother's sister, looking for the area where I have not occupied it, attracting my parents, showing myself worth investing. Since then, let a diplomatic means of diplomatic means. It's really fighting, they sometimes give up training, go to the family to seek your value.
The result of the competition of the compatriots, due to the advantages of the boss, they are generally more confident, more aggressive, more arbitrary and dominant; because they imitate their parents, they agree with the mainstream value, and willing to accept other authority, with more There is a lot of responsibility, so in the US President and the Prime Minister of the United Kingdom, the proportion of children's children exceeds their proportion of their population. But they are more sensitive, easier to jealous, because with the birth of the younger brothers, they have lost their hormuals from the monopoly, they have to participate in the group of groups; and after the children live, they are already in one The market era, I have been used to the competition of family resources, and I will regenerate a few children, they don't have the pain of the boss. The strategy of the child, also shaped its own character. They are generally characterful, like communication, good at compromise, and love, willing to consider others. More importantly, because learned from a child, I learned to find new family positions, they like to experience new things, dare to doubt, dare to adventure, not afraid to become a very few, from small rebellion tendency. Salovir pointed out that the scientific creativity of the child's children, generally manifest as a good to improve the theoretical building, solve the problem left by the pioneer; then the child, like Darwin, which is ranked, more likely to set off a storm, launch a subversion The theoretical revolution, - of course, their success is much less than the child.
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Two bodies, the old, the family has a bad old three.
Assume a general Chinese family, there are three sons below their parents. Boss, we know that he will imitate his parents, worry about the people, and the small age is particularly sensible, and it will become a "little adult" in ten years old. It has been well developed, he will be confident, can do, a sense of morality, responsibility, a social pillar. But in the Chinese society, it is always a very small number. If there is no interest, self-confidence will become a southern wall and don't look back. The responsibility has become a resentment of the old yellow cattle, and morality is more than being smiled. "Stupid Song Yonggong of pig style. Painting the tiger does not become a deaf dog, "stay" where the word hat is escaping.
Old two. After eating a few times, the second will know that in the front battlefield, it is a strong brother. The second can only wear a brother, secretly saving the country. The boss made a mistake, the basic attitude of the second second is a gloating, if there is no secret trouble beforehand, and then go to the parents to actively expose, thoroughly criticize. The little brother is a natural tool, and it is a few times, it will be pushed against the forefront against the big brother. After a loss, I was playing on the little brother's ass, and I arrived in my parents, this has become a boss's bullish brother's ready-made crime. A set of Mingli, a set of secrets, and the second is the natural master of the hidden rules. Parents and Big Brothers have long seen this guy, but they can't catch any handles, but they can only shake their heads: "Hey, there is a small age, how to do it!"
When I arrived at the old three, I have to face a grim situation: I have a hard, but my big brother, play soft, but also played. The black road is blocked, how do I compete with my brother? These two people have a big benevolence, a falsehood, I, I ... right, my mother simply came to a bad! I finally found my home position: rebellion. In order to compete for the parents 'recognition, the old boy from the Ming of the family, the second developed a sustained rules, and the old three simply denied all rules, and he publicly deviated from the parents' education expectations. Trick or oriented, escaped, write poetry, fight, talk about love, play guitar, parents do what he will do. Every family has a bad old, when the parents have broken their hearts, this family competition that competes for their parents, the third occasion is great. Fives,
Copy a few words.
"In terms of most personal characteristics, the only child is often between the children and the children and the children, but they are usually closer to the children of the child, because The only child is like other children, tend to identify parents and authority. "
"In 1859, French scientists had only 1.1 brothers and sisters, compared to the average of 2.8 brothers and sisters per person compared to other countries. In the last year of the 19th century, Darwinism has never truly National foot; I have been waiting until the 1950s, natural choice theory is really adopted in this country, and the publishing of "species origin" has been separated by nearly a century. After this unusual latency, it is not a residence (French scientific authority, objection theory) sent, but contraception and family planning. "
Frank J. Salovir, "Natural Rebel", Jiangsu People's Publishing House, October 1998. The last two words copied, from the book 25 and 40, respectively
