Three overcome inferiority
In life, we often encounter inferiority. Incompilement is unfavorable to their own growth and development, and it is also in normal communication with others. In the art of the world of Carnegie, it is more incisive to the inferiority of inferiority. Carnegie once went to the University of Chicago asked how to get a happy issue in the University of Roben Hainan Rogis. He replied: "I have been trying to follow a small advice. This is the late Sriz 's chairman of Rolias Roshan, Tell me. He said:' If there is a lemon, do lemon Water '. "This is a great educator's approach, and the fool is the opposite. If he discovered that life gave him just a lemons, he would say from the violently: "I am a fate, I have no chance." Then he began to curse this world, let your own indulge in self-pity. in. However, when a smart person got a lemons, he would say: "From this unfortunate incident, what can I learn? How can I improve my situation?
How can I make this lemon into a glass of lemonade? "After a whole life, the great psychologist, the great psychologist, said that one of the most wonderful characteristics of human beings is to" turn the negative power. " "Below is a very interesting, very meaningful story. The protagonist of the story is a woman who knows a card, she is doing. Her name is Sma Ton." At the time of war, "she said She has experienced her experience, "I am stationed in the Army Training Camp near California Mojiao Desert. I also moved there to live in order to close it. I hate that place, it is simply deep and bad. I have never worried, my husband was sent to the Desert of Mojia Buddha, and I stayed alone in a small housing. It's all that people can't stand it - even in the shadow of the big cactus, there is also a hundred and twenty-five degrees of high temperature. In addition to the Mexican and Indian, no one can talk to you, and those people will not speak English. The wind is not stopped, everywhere is sand! "I really had a mess, I wrote a letter to my parents, telling them that I can't stand it, I have to go home. I said that I can't wait for a minute. My father reply, only two lines, and these two The words have always returned in my memory, making the lives to change. "The two people look from the west of the prison, one to see the mud, and another see the stars'" "I read these two lines. Once again, I feel very embarrassed. I will make up your mind, you must find out what is good in the case of the situation at the time. I have to discover those stars. "I have made friends with the local people, and their reaction is very surprised. When I said when I was interested in the cloth and the pottery made, they will sell those who are not willing to sell, and The favorite thing gives me a gift. I carefully appreciate the shape of the cactus and Yans, I learned about the knowledge of the mouse, I looked at the sunset of the desert, I also went to the shell, in three million years. Before, the desert is still a seabed. "What makes me an amazing change? Mo Jia Buddha is not changed, and those Indian people have not changed, but I changed, I changed my attitude. Under this change, I turned some of the people who were the most exciting adventure in my life. The new world I have discovered made me touched me, and I was excited. I was happy to write a book for this. A novel called "Bright City" ... I have seen from my own prison. I found the stars. "Simma Thompson, she also learned a truth that Jesus Christ fell in the past five hundred years of Greeks:" The best things are the most difficult. "In the twentieth century, Harry Emerson Fusi Dick said this sentence again:" Most of the happiness is not enjoying, but victory. "This victory comes from a sense of accomplishment, a proud, also from we can make lemons into lemonade. Carnegie visited a happy farmer living in Florid, he even made a poisonous lemon into lemon Water. When he bought the farm, he felt very dejected. That place is never makes him nor a fruit, and can not raise pigs. It can grow only poplar trees and snakes. However, he thought of a good My idea, to turn what he can have into an asset - he wants to use those snakes. His practice makes everyone very surprised, because he began to do a canned snake meat. After a few years, visit his snake every year. There are almost 20,000 people in the farm. His business is very big, from the snake to the snake, transported from the snake to the major pharmacies to make the serum of the snake to poison; the snake skin sells women with a very high price Shoes and leather bags are sent to customers in the world. This village has now renamed the Florid Snake Village to commemorate the poisonous lemon made a sweet lemonade.
Carnegie said that because he came to travel throughout the country again and again, he had a lot of men and women, they all showed "the ability to turn forward." The late William Poriso, That is, the author of the "Twelve Human Sunday" book, once said: "The most important thing in life is not to make your income to make a capital. Any fool will do this. However, the real thing is to profit from your losses. This requires talents, and this is also a smart person and a fool. "Boris said this I just broke a leg in a train crash. However, Carnegie also knows a person who breaks the two legs, can also turn negative. His name is Class Tricks. Carnegie is in the elevator of the Atlantic City of Georgia. When Carnegie stepped into the elevator, it was noted that the two legs were broken, and the two legs were broken, sitting in a wheelchair placed in the elevator corner. When the elevator stopped in the floor he had to go, he was very happy to ask the card to let him let him turn his chair. "I am really sorry," he said, "I am trouble you." - he said this is a very warm smile on his face. When Carnegie leaves the elevator back to the room, in addition to thinking of this very happy lame, what else is not thinking. So I went to him, ask him to talk about his story. "Things happen in 192," he told Ka Niki, "I chopped a lot of walnut branches, ready to be a support of the beans in my vegetable garden. I put those walnut branches in me. On the Ford, drive home. Suddenly, a tree branch slipped to the car, and the card was in the engine. It happened to be in the car. The car rushed out of the road, hit me on the tree. My spine I wounded, the two legs were paralyzed. "I was twenty-four years old that year, I have never gone through a step. "It was only twenty-four years old, and he was sentenced to life in a wheelchair. Carnegie asked him how he can bravely accept this fact, he said:" I didn't like this before. "He said that he is full of resentment and sadness, complaining about his fate. But the time is still in the past, he finally discovered that the resentment made him nothing, will only produce the bad attitude towards others." I finally know, " He said, "Everyone is very good to me, very polite, so I should at least do it, and courtesy. "Carnegie asked him, after so many years, did he still feel that the accident he encounters is a terrible misfortune? He said very quickly:" Will n't, "he said," I am almost very fortunate now. " Have the thing. He told Carnegie. When he overcome the shock and remorse of the time, he began to live in a completely different world. He began reading, and he gave a favorite of good literary works. He said, at least in fourteen years, at least Read more than 1,400 books, these books bring him a new realm, making his life more abundant than he earlier. He began to listen to a lot of music, and he used to make him feel bored with great symphony. It can now make him very moved very much. But the biggest change is that he has time to go to think. "The first time since birth," he said, "I can make you carefully look at this world, with true value Concept. I have begun to understand that most of the things I pursue will not actually have a little value. "The results of reading, making him interest in politics. He studied public problems and sat on his wheelchair to express speeches, and there were many people who met many people, and many people also met him. Today, Class Trium-style - Still sitting in a wheelchair - is the Secretary General of the Georgia Government. In the past 30 years, Carnegie has been running adult education classes in New York City.
He found that many adults final regrets were that they never go to college, they seem to think that they did not accept college education is a big defect. Carnegie knows that this is not necessarily pair, because there are thousands of successful people, even middle schools have not graduated. So he often tells the story of these students, and that people have never graduated. His family is very poor. When his father passed away, he had to raise his father's friends, and he buried his father. After the father died, his mother did something in a factory in an umbrella. I had to work ten hours a day, and I also took some work to go home to do 11 o'clock. This boy grew up under this environment, participated in the local church held in an amateur drama performance. He felt very enjoyable, so he decided to go to the study. This ability guides him to enter the political world, when he is elected as a member of New York, but he is not prepared for this responsibility. In fact, he doesn't even know what is going on. He studied the lengthy and complicated bills that he had vote - but for him, these bills are like the same written by Indian text. When he was elected as a member of the Forest Committee, he felt that it was both surprised and worried, because he had never entered the forest; when he was elected as a member of the State Parliament Financial Committee, he was also very surprised, because he didn't even The bank opened in the bank. He was nervous at the time, he had almost wanted to resign from the parliament, but he was ashamed to admit his failure to his mother. In desperation, he is determined to read more than 16 hours a day, turning his ignorant lemons into a glass of lemonade. The result of this efforts make himself a local small politician into a well-known figures in the country, and the New York Times also called him "New York's most popular citizen." This is Al Smith. When Iel Smith started his self-education and political courses, he became the most authoritative people in the New York State Government. He has been elected as the governor of New York, which is an unprecedented record. In 1918, he became the presidential candidate of the Democratic Party, six universities - including Colombia and Harvard - given the reputation to this or even a person who has not graduated. Aer Smith told the Ka Niki, if he did not work sixteen hours in the year, all these things were unable to happen. Nietzsche's definition of superman is: "Not only is it necessary to endure everything, but also love this situation. The reason why people are successful because they have some shortcomings that will hinder their development, and promote them to get more compensation. As William James said: "Our defects have unexpected help." Maybe, Milton is because of the eyes, in order to write better poems, and Beethoven is because of deaf, Can make a better song. Helen Keller can have glorious achievements, which is because of her jokes and deaf. If Coochovsky is not so pain - and his tragic marriage almost makes him on the verge of suicide - if his own life is not so tragic, he may never write his immortal " Sorrowful symphony. If the Dostarviuski and Tolste's lives are not that is full of torture, they may never write those immortal novels. "If I don't have such a disability, I may not do so much work I have finished." Darwin frankly admitted his disability to his unexpected help. Darwin was born in the day of the United Kingdom, another child was born in a small wooden house in the Woods of Kentucky, His name is Lincoln - Abraham Lincoln.
If he is born in a noble family, he got a degree in the Harvard University Law School, and there is a happy marriage life. He may never write the immortal speech published in Gatesburg in his heart. Will have the sentence in his second political speech, such as a poetic saying - this is the most beautiful and most expensive in the US rulers: "Don't have malicious to anyone, but to each People love ... "Harry Emerson Fos said in his book" Cave and Everything "book," Scandinavian Peninsula has a saying, we can encourage yourself. : Northern wind causes Viking. Why do we think that there is a very sense of life, there is no difficulty, comfortable and unlicensed, these can make people become a good person or very happy? In contrast, those poor You will continue to pity themselves. Even when comfortable to lying on a big mat, it is no exception. But in history, a person's character and his happiness, from a variety of different environment, good , Bad, a variety of different environments, as long as they shoulder their personal responsibility. So let's say it again: North wind causing Viking. "Have we fell to the extreme, I feel that we can't make our lemon. Lemonade. . So, the following is why we should try two reasons - these two reasons tell us why we will only make money. The first article, we may succeed. The second article, even if we are not successful, only try to be a positive attempt, it will make us look forward and will not look back. So, use affirmative ideas to replace negative ideas, can inspire your creativity, stimulate us that we are busy, there is no time, there is no interest to worry about things that have been in the past and have completed. Once, the world's most famous violinist Ou Liber held a concert in Paris, and the a strings on his violin were suddenly broken. However, Oil Bul used the other three strings to play the song. "This is life," Harry Emerson Fos said, "If your A is broken, you will play the song on the other three strings." This is not only a life, which is more valuable than life. This is a lifeful victory. If we can do, we will put the words of William Bolissar on the copper plate, hanging in every school: "One of the most important things in life, don't take your income. Doing this capital, any fool will do this. But the real thing is to profit from your losses, which requires talents, and this is also a smart person and a fool difference. " Therefore, it is necessary to cultivate the psychology that can bring you peace and happiness. Please abide by this rule: "When the fate is given to us a lemons, let us try to make a glass of lemonade." Carnegie said that his other friend Luni Black, how to satisfy all of themselves, do not worry about her, not worried about her, and are almost on the verge of tragedy. Here is Black experience. "My life has always been very busy, studying the style in Arizona, open a language school in the city, still teaching music in the desert willow pasture, I have participated in many big banquets, dance I riding in the star. One morning, I got whole, my heart attack. "You have to lying on the bed, you will carefully care for a year, 'Doctor said to me. He actually encouraged me, let me believe I can still Get up. "Lying in bed for one year, be a waste, and there will be death, I am frightened. Why will I encounter such a thing? What did i do wrong? I cry again, my psychology is full of resentment and resistance. But I still follow the doctor's words lying on the bed. Mr. Luolf, a neighbor, is an artist.
He said to me: 'You now think that you want to lie on your bed for a big tragedy, but it is not actually. You can have time thought and can truly meet yourself. In the next few months, you will grow much more than you have been in the past half. 'I calm down and began to enrich the new value concept. I have seen many books that can hear people. One day, I heard a radio news commentator said: 'You can only talk about what you know. 'If this is, I didn't know how many times heard it, but now I really got into my heart. I am determined to think about those thoughts I hope to live with life - happiness and healthy thinking. Come every morning, I force myself to think about what I should be grateful: I have no pain, there is a very cute daughter, my eyes can see, the ear is listening, the radio plays a beautiful music, there is time to read the book , Eat very well, have a good friend, I am very happy, and there are many people. "From then on, I have been nine years, I am very rich and very vivid. I am very grateful to the year who is in bed, that is the most existing in Arizona. Value, the happier year. I still maintain the habit of doing how much I have a mistake every morning, this is my most precious property. I feel very embarrassed, because I am worried Before you die, I really learned how to live. "Luogen Pierce Schith used a very simple sentence to speaking. He said: "There should be two goals in life. First, you have to get what you want; then, you can enjoy it after getting it. Only the smartest people can do the second step." You don't want to Know how to use a rare experience in the sink in the kitchen sink? If you want, you can go to see a book that talks about incredible courage and is rich. The author is Wai Jer Dell, and the title is called "I hope to see". The author of this book is a woman who has almost fifty years. "I only have one eye", she wrote, "and the eyes are still scarred, only through a small hole on the left side of the eyes. Look. When reading the book, you must take the book very close to the face, and have to take my eyes to the left side. "But she refused to accept the mercy of others, and I don't want someone to think that she" different people ". When I was a child, she thought of playing with other children, but she saw the line drawn on the ground, so after another child went home, she kneel on the ground and launched the eyes on the line to aim. She keeps every point of the place where her friend is playing in mind, so she will soon become a good hand of playing games. She reads a book at home and puts the book with big characters close to her face. It is close to the eyelashes. She got two degrees: first got a bachelor's degree in Minnesota State University, and then got a master's degree in Columbia University. When she started teaching, she was a small village in Shuang Valley, Minnesota, and then gradually rose to Journalism and literary professors in the Algitana College of Nadco Tower. She taught three years, and also speaking speeches in many women's clubs, but also chaired on books and authors. "In my mind", she wrote, "often with fear of fear of full blindness, in order to overcome this fear, I have taken a very happy and almost playing attitude towards life." Then in one In nine four three years, it is a miracle happened when she was fifty-ord. She has a surgery in the famous plum-like clinic, making her four times more than before. A brand new, exciting, cute world showing in front of her. She now discovered that even before the dish was washed before the kitchen sink, she also made her feel very happy. "I started playing with the soapy foam in the dishwashing basin," she wrote, "I put it in, grab a big soap foam, I greet them in the light.
In every soap bubble, I can see a bright color flashing of a small rainbow. "You and I should feel embarrassing, we have lived in a beautiful fairy kingdom for so many years, but we are mixing the days, can't see the beauty of life, eat too much, do not enjoy. To get happiness, please remember This rule: "Calculate your proud thing - don't pay attention to your trouble". Carnegie received a letter from Erloshan, North Carolina. "I It is particularly sensitive from small, "she said in the letter," My body has been too fat, and my face makes me look much more fat than the actual. I have a very old mother. She thinks that it is very stupid to put her clothes. She always said to me: 'Wear is good, narrow clothes is easily. 'And she always takes this sentence to help me wear clothes. So I have never made an outdoor event with other children, and I don't even go to physical education. I am very shy, I think I'm not the same with others, "I don't discuss. "After growing up, I marry a man who is a big man than I am, but I didn't change. My husband is very good, it is full of confidence. They are what I should be instead of. I do. The biggest efforts are like them, but I can't do it. They are only a more retreat to my husk in order to make me cheerful. I have become nervous and avoided all. Friends, the situation is bad, I am even afraid to hear the doorbell. I know that I am a loser, I am afraid that my husband will find this. So every time we appear in public, I pretended very happy, the result is often I have to do it too much. I know that I have to do too much. I will have a difficult time for this. I am not happy to make me feel that there is no reason. I started to commit suicide. "What change this is not What about the life of a happy woman? Just say that I said. "One sentence that I said, I changed my whole life. One day, my mother-in-law is talking about how she has educated her children. She said: 'No matter what, I will always ask them to keep this color.' ... ... 'Keep the true color' ... is this sentence! In that moment, I found out that I was so distressed, because I have been trying to make myself suitable for one. "On night I have changed the whole change. I started to keep this color. I tried to study my own personality, my own advantages, do my best to go to learn color and clothing knowledge, try to wear clothes in the way. Actively go to my friends, I participated in a community organization - first a small community - they let me participate in the event, making me frightened. But every time I spoke, I added a little courage. All my happiness today is that I never thought possible. When I have eradicated my own child, I always teach them from the results you have learned from painful experience: "No matter what is good, always keep the true color." "Keep the true color problem, like history Ancient, "Dr. James Gordon, Jelgi said," It is also common like life. "Do not keep your true color, is a lot of spiritual and psychological problems. Anjiro Paspering In terms of early childhood education, he wrote 13 books and thousands of articles. He said: "No one is more painful than those who want to do with their own very colors." "This kind of hope can do the idea of people with different people, especially in Hollywood. Sam Wood is one of the most famous director of Hollywood. He said that when he inspired some young actors, the most headache encountered is one: Let them keep the color. They all want to do secondary Larna, or three-flow Clark Gaibo. Sam Wood said, "The safest practice is to give up the people who make up the dressing as soon as soon as possible." Carnegie Zeng Zeng Director of the Personnel Department of the Oil Company Paul Baodin asked, what is the biggest mistake of people who come to see help? .
He replied: "The biggest mistakes who come to see help do not maintain the true color. They don't have a true face, but I can't completely frank, but give you some answers you think." But this practice is not used. Because no one wants to be a false gentle, no one is willing to pay a banknote. There is a daughter of a tram, I want to be a singer, but her face is not good. Her mouth is very big, the teeth are very stunned, and when she publicly sangs, she always wanted to pull the lip to cover her teeth. She wants to perform "very beautiful", what? She made her own big out of the ocean and did not have the fate of failure. However, a person listening to this girl singing, but she thinks she is very talent. He said straightforward. "I have been watching your performance, I know what you want to hide, you think your teeth are hard to see." This girl is very embarrassed, but the man continues: "Is it Do you say that you have a big evil? Don't want to cover up, open your mouth, the audience see that you don't care about your teeth, they will like you. Those, those teeth you want to cover, maybe Will bring you good luck. "Kate Dali accepted his advice, did not pay attention to the teeth. At that time, she only thought of her spectators, she was happy, and she was happy, she finally became a first-length red star in the movie world and broadcast boundaries. The famous William James said that the average person only discovered a potential ability. He wrote, "We are equal to only half; for our body and mind, we only use a small part. Further, one is equal to a small part of the limited space in his body. Have a variety of capabilities, but I don't know how to use it. "You and I have this ability, so we should not waste any one second, and we will worry about this to others. You are new things in the world. I have never been seen before, I have been open to now, I have never been the same as you; and in the future, I will never be forever, and I can't have a person who is completely like you. New genetics tell us that you are for you, it is because your father's twenty-four chromosomes and your mother's twenty-four chromosome genetics are. "In every chromosome", according to Allen Shu En, "may have dozens of hundreds of genetic factors - in some cases, each genetic factor can change a person's life." We are "both terrible and wonderful". Even after your mother and father get married, this person is just your chance and is 300 million. In other words, even if you have 3 billion brothers, it may be completely different from you. This is a scientific fact. Keep your own very color, like Owen Berlin gives the late George's advice. When Berlin and Gaver met, Berlin had been famous, and the Wen is still a young composer who just shot, only 35 dollars in a week. Berlin appreciates the ability to cover the text, asking to cover the secretary who wants to be his secretary, the salary is probably three times that of his income. "But don't accept this job," Berlin advice, "If you accept it, you may become a second-run Berlin, but if you insist on keeping your own very color, one day you will become a first-class cover Wen. "The Gaver Ten Taken this warning, and later he slowly became one of the most important composers of this generation. Chaplin, Wil Ros, Mary Margaret Macbud, Golden Outre, and some other people have learned this lesson that keeps their own very colored. Very hard.
When Chaplin began to make a movie, the movie director insisted that Zuo Bo Lin was very famous for a very famous German comedian, but Juler Lin was started to become famous after creating a set of performance methods. Bob Hobbe also has the same experience. He has been singing in the song for many years, and the results have no results, and they have been named after he found that he has a joke. Will Rogis is in a juggling group, does not speak the light showing the rope technology. It has been doing a lot of years. Finally, we will find that he has a special talent in humorous jokes. When Mary Margaret Macbaugh, I just wanted to be an Irish comedian, and the result failed. Later, she played her very colored, and made a very ordinary country girl from Missouri, and became the most popular broadcast star in New York. Golden Otre just took a way, wanted to change the Township of Texas, wearing a gentleman in a city, claiming to be New Yirt, but everyone joke behind him. Later, he began to play the string of the topic, sing his western song, started a great performance career, became the western singers in the world in two ways of movies and broadcasts. Carnegie said to us, you are a new thing in this world, you should be fortunate for this, you should try to use nature to give you everything. In the final analysis, the achievements are related to the actual potential of myself. You can only sing your own songs, you can only draw your own painting, you can only make an experience from your experience, your environment and your family. Whether it is good, you have to create your own small garden; whether you are bad, you have to play your own small instruments in the symphony of life. Just like the prose of love in his "confidence": "In everyone's education process, he will find that in a certain period, envy is ignorant, imitation is suicide. No matter how bad He must maintain a true color. Although the vast universe is full of good things, he will never harm the harvest unless he cultivated the land to him, he will never harm it. All his ability is a new kind of nature Ability, in addition to him, no one knows what he can make and know, and this is what he must try to seek. "The above is an Emerson. The following is that the poetry Dao Glas Maro said: If you can't be a pine, a small tree is growing in the valley but if you can't be a big tree, you can't be a big tree. Doing a bush, if you can't be a bush, you can do a grass green to make the road also have a few more entertainment. If you can't be a musk deer, you can do a squid but must do the best fish in the lake. We can't do it. The captain, we have to make the world's things, you can't do it, there is a big, and there is a small we should do it. If you can't do a highway, you can't do the sun. Just do a star to determine your losing to make your losing. No matter what you do, you have to train you to bring you peace, eliminate the psychology of worry, please remember the following rules: "We don't imitate others We should find yourself, keep your own color. "Carnegie has admired the death of Furley Fuller, who has passed away. He has a talent, good at the truth of "old life talk", and uses new, especially attractive methods. He is the editor of Philadelphia "Notes". Once, he lectured at the graduated class in college, he suddenly asked: "How many people saw wood? Please raise your hand." Most students have saw the wood. Then, he asked: "How many people have sawed wood filings?" This time, the audience is stunned, and there is no player.
