Leave "Strict" to yourself, give "wide" to others is the right way to people. Always thinking is that people who blame others will often be boring. In fact, anyone is inevitable to have shortcomings or negligence, maybe because it is not perfect, it will become "people" rather than God. If we ask others to be perfect, just as you ask yourself absolutely perfect. Selfish people tend to give us some so-called "advice", for example: "You are because of this, will always make mistakes". They usually use a scene of the tone, sometimes it is still modeled, a pair "see me" this attitude. They have always told the other party to the matter that I have invited to the other party. Of course, some "advice" may be true kindness, but this self-righteousness is absolutely correct, may not bring a positive impact on the other party. In addition, some kinds of goodwill will recruit misunderstandings, and those who love to provide advice have to pay attention to this possibility. In addition, you must specially remind you that even if you are a good faith, you must absolutely take care of the other party's position or face, otherwise it is very likely to cause a counter-effect. At the same time, it is absolutely not to mention the lack of other personality. The original kind of advice is out of mouth without considering, and repeatedly reminds each other in front of the third party, first, he will make him psychologically unreasonable, think it is that you let him fall into such a situation, no matter how you, Will be solved by the other party. Even if there are two alone, it is too single to say that others are shortcoming. The other party will feel that "this man is very great appearance!" This misunderstanding will have a dislike, and even from this to you.
