Carnegie interpersonal relationship
Welcome method everywhere
Everyone wants to be welcomed by others, but it is not easy to do this. Carnegie
In your own experience, our opinion is made for us.
Carnegie pointed out that if we just want to express yourself in the face of others, let others interested in us, I
They will never have many real and sincere friends. Friends, real friends, not in this way.
Napoleon tried this method, when he met with Josephin, he said: "Josephine, I am
The world's most fortunate people in history; however, at this moment, you are the only person in the world that can rely on. "
Suspected whether he really relies on her.
The famous Vienna Famous Psychologist Yard Adler, wrote a book called "Life's awareness of your life".
In the book, he said: "People who are interested in others, the difficulty of his life is the most, the damage to others is also the most
Big. All human failures are all in this person. "
You may have read dozens of books about psychology, haven't seen a sentence, I have more meaningful words to you, Ya
Deller This sentence is too deep.
One Carnegie has elected a short novel writing course in the New York University. In the course, the Lord of Coril Magazine
Edate the class. He said that he picked up dozens of novels on his table every day, as long as you read a few paragraphs, you can feel it.
Does the author like others. "If the author doesn't like others," he said, "others will not like his novel."
The excited editor, said in the process of teaching the novel writing, "I will tell you now, with you
The priest told you that it is exactly the same thing. However, please remember, you must be interested in others if you
To become a successful novelist. "
If the novel writing is true, you can affirm that it is especially true for people.
Luxury · Zheston last time in Broadway, Carnegie spent a night stay in his makeup room.
in. Zheston, is recognized as a magician in the magician, four decades before and after, he went to the world, repeatedly created the fantasy
Like, confuse the audience, make everyone breathed angry. Take 60 million people to buy a ticket to have seen his performance, and he earned
Almost two million profits.
Carnegie asked Mr. Zheston to tell him the secret of success. Zheston's success is nothing to do with school education.
Because he is very small, he will leave home, be a wanderer, truck, sleep, walk along the door, sit in the car
Looking outside the railway logo along the line along the railway, I know the word.
Is his magic knowledge specially superior? He told Ka Niki, and there is a hundred books about the magic technique.
And there are dozens of people who know more than him.
But he has two things, and others don't. First, he can show his personality on the stage. he is
A performance master understanding human nature. His what is doing, every gesture, every tone, every eyebrow
The movement of the rising is very careful in advance, and his movements are also brought together. In addition, philosophy
Stun is integrin to others. He told Carnegie, many magicians will look at the audience, say to themselves, "sitting
Those people under the bottom are a group of fools, a group of idiot; I can deceive them to the group turn. "But Zheston's way
Different. Every time he walked up, he said to himself: "I am very grateful, because these people come to see my performance, they make
I have a very comfortable life.
I want to show me the most high-minded technique and show them. "
He declared that he didn't have to go to the stage, not repeatedly said to himself: "I love my audience, I love my audience." Carnegie believes that the Secretary of Phosnton is so simple,
That is interested in others, this is a secret recipe used in history.
Mrs. Schuman Hai Enke has said something like Carnegie. Even if you are hungry and sad, even if you are full of life
Many tragedy have made her almost killing themselves and her baby - even if she is so unfortunate, she has been singing,
Finally became the most excellent Hagne singer ever. She frankly said that one of her success is that for others
Interested in unlimited.
If we have to make friends, we must welcome others with happy and sincere mood. When others call you
Waiting, you can also use the same psychology. The voice of the speech, I have to show you how happy him call you. New York Phone
The company opened a class, and trained their launch student. When you want to all, you have to make a few ", you will show" Good Morning,
I am very pleased to serve you. "We don't forget this when we answer the phone tomorrow.
Show your interest in others, not only let you make many friends, but also add customers for your company.
sense of trust. In New York, a publication published by a North American National Bank, a letter from a depositary Merdone Roqui.
"I really hope that you know how much I appreciate your master. Everyone is so greeted, enthusiastic. In the row
After a long time, an operator greeted you cordially, it was a pleasant.
"Last year, my mother stayed for five months. I often encounter a master Ma Yi, and she is very concerned about me.
Mother, I also asked her. "
Will Rosa will continue to have exchanged with this bank, really don't have to doubt.
Charles Walsell belongs to a big bank in New York City, which is dedicated to write a confidential report about a company.
He knows that a person has information he needs. So, Mr. Waltel saw that person, he is a big worker.
Chairman of the industry. When Mr. War Tale was welcomed by the chairman, a young woman probes from the door.
Come out, tell the chairman, she has no stamps this day can give him.
"I am collecting stamps for my twelve-year-old son," chairman explained to Wartel.
Mr. Waltel stated his intention and started to ask questions. The chairman is vague, summarized, and ambiguous.
He doesn't want to say the words in his heart, no matter how it is good to persuade it. This time I met very short, no
actual effect.
"Frankly said, I didn't know what to do," Mr. War Tatle said that he put this matter in Carneglass.
Come. "Then, I remembered that his secretary said to him - stamp, twelve-year-old son ... I also think of our silver
The foreign department of the line collects stamps - from the stamps from the letters around the world.
"The next morning, I will go to him again, I will pass it, I have some stamps to give him a child. Will I am very?
Since the enthusiasm? Yes it is. He is full of smile and is very polite. 'My George will like these,'
He said that he said with those stamps. "Hey this! This is a priceless treasure. '" We spent a
Times talk about the stamp, licking the photos of his son, then spend more than an hour, putting the information I want to know
All told me - I didn't even propose him to do so, he told me what he knowd, and then called him.
The subordinates come in and ask them some questions. He also called some of his peers, put some facts, numbers, reports
And letters, all tell me. With a news reporter's discourse, I have won. "
To represent your concerns, this is the same as other interpersonal relationships, must be sincere. This not only makes concern
Some people have some achievements, and those who receive this concern are the same. It is a bidirection, and both parties will benefit. There is a Valtin Jinsbia, who participates in the Ka Niki course in New York, said that a nurse gave him a deep concern.
Deeply affected his life:
"That day is Thanksgiving, I am only ten years old, who lives in a municipal hospital because of social welfare system, booking tomorrow
It is necessary to move a large plastic surgery. I know some limitations and pains in the next few months. My father has died, I
And my mom lived in a small apartment, relying on social welfare. I can't come to see me.
"That day, I was completely lonely, disappointed, fear. I know that my mother is worried about me at home.
And it is a person who is alone, no one has a dinner with her, and even has no money to eat Thanksgiving dinner.
"Tears in my eyes, I buried my head into the pillow, secretly crying, but the whole body is suffering
Tremble.
"A young internship nurses heard my cry, and she took the pillow from my head and wipe it.
My tears. She told me that she was very lonely, because she must work with her family on this day. she was
I would like to ask me to get dinner with her. She took two things. I came in: I have turkey, potato, strawberry jam and ice.
Dessert. She chats with me and try to eliminate my fear. Although she should get off work at four o'clock, she always accompany me.
Go to nearly eleven points. She has been playing with me, chatting, waiting until I have slept.
"Before ten years old, I have lived a lot of Thanksgiving, but this Thanksgiving will never disappear, I still remember the depression,
Fear, lonely feelings, suddenly a stranger's warmth makes those feelings disappear. "
Carnegie pointed out that if you want others like you, or cultivate true friendship, or both to help others again
Help you, remember this principle in your heart.
"I sincerely show sincerely."
A person's facial expression is more important than wearing. The smile can illuminate all people who see it, like crossing the dark clouds.
Yang, bringing people to warm.
Carnegie participated in a banquet in New York, one of the guests - a woman who got the heritage, eager to leave it
Everyone is a good impression. She wasted a lot of money in the black mortal coat, diamond and pearl. but,
She is nothing to do with her face. Her expression is born, selfish. She did not find every man
Heavy is: the expression of a woman face, more important than the clothes wearing it.
Charles Shikos said to Carnegie, his smile value is worth one million dollars. He may just look at it
Has, because of the character of history, his charm, he makes others like his talent, almost all he has achieved excellence
The reason for work. Among his character, the favorite factor is his moving smile.
Some afternoon cards with Morris Chevrolet. Carnegie is disappointed, he is unhappy, silent
Words, completely different from Carnegie, until he smiles, Carnegie's view is changed, just like
The sun broke through the cloud. If it is not because of smiling, Morris Chevrolet may still be a furniture manufacturing in Paris.
Like his father and brother.
Carnegie believes that action is more power than words, and smile is said, "I like you. You make me happy.
glad to meet you. "
That's why dogs are welcomed by people. How happy it meets us, so we will
I am glad to see them.
A baby's smile has the same effect.
Are you waiting in the hospital waiting room? Looking at the patients around and their faces. Turden, Missouri
Dr. Stephen Shi Boer mentioned that there is a spring, and his waiting room is full of customers, bringing their pets.
Prepare the injection of vaccines. No one is chatting, perhaps everyone thinks about something that should be done, not sitting there waste time. About six, seven customers are waiting, after another, there is a female customer coming in, bringing her nine
Monthly child and a kitten. Fortunately, she is sitting next to a gentleman, and this gentleman has been impatient.
. But he found that the child was looked at him and smiled without evil. What is this gentleman?
Like you, of course, he laughed with the child. Then he talked to her child and his
Grandson came. After a while, people in the waiting room talked, the whole atmosphere became a boring, stiff and turned into one.
A pleasant.
An unexpected smile can't lie anyone. We know that laugh is mechanical, most annoying. card
The Base is talking about a real smile, a warm smile, a smile from the heart, this
Smile can sell well on the market. Professor James McNer, a psychologist at the University of Michigan, talked about him
When the laugh is said: There will be more efficient in management, teaching, and sales, more enjoyable next.
generation. Smiles can also convey your heart than frown. This is the reason why you must encourage the replacement of punishment.
The personnel manager of a New York University Store told Ka Niki, he would rather hire a cute smile and there is no read
The girl learned, and I didn't want to hire a Philosophic doctor with a poker face.
The impact of laugh is very big, even if it is itself unable to see. Telephone company is called "sound"
"The power", in this project, the telephone company suggests you, keep a smile when answering the phone, and your "smile"
It is conveyed by sound.
Cincinnati, Ohio, a manager of a computer company, tells us how he finds a shortcomings that it is difficult to fill
A suitable candidate.
"I almost hurt myself in order to find a computer for the company. Finally, I found a very good candidate, just
I have to graduate from Purdue University. After a few calls, I know that there are still several companies, I hope he, and it is better than me.
The company is big and famous. I am really happy when he accepts this job. When he started working, I asked him,
Why do you give up other opportunities to choose our company?
He stopped and said: I think it is because other company managers are cold ice in the phone, the business taste is very heavy.
That makes me feel that it is just another business. But your voice, it seems that you really want me.
Can be a member of your company. You can believe that I laughed when I was listening to the phone. "
A chairman of a largest rubber company in the United States said to Carnegie, according to his observation, unless
Your own career is very interested, otherwise it will be difficult to succeed. The leader of the industry is in the cold window for the ten years.
Fammed ancient language does not have much confidence. "I know some people, they succeed because they started
Allowed to be happy. Later, I saw the slaves that these people became work, bored. They have not been interested.
So failed. "
When you see someone else, you must be very enjoyable, if you also expect them to see you very much happily.
Carnegie encourages thousands of businessmen, spend a week, twenty-four hours a day,
Laugh, and then return to the class, talk about the results. What is the situation? This is the one written by William Standha.
Safe, he is a member of the New York Stock Overseas Market. His example is not unique. In fact, he is
Typical examples of hundreds of people.
"I have been married for more than 18 years." Stanha said in the letter. "In this time, from me in the morning,
When I am going to work, I rarely smile my wife, or say a few words to him. I am the most daughter of Broadway.
"Since you want me to spend a conversation with a smile experience, I decided to try a week. Therefore, the second
When I comb it in the morning, I will look at my face in the mirror. I said to myself, 'You have to take your face today.
A swept air.
You have to smile. You start smiling now. 'When I sat down to eat breakfast, I used my good morning, dear.
'' He said with my wife, and smiling her.
"You have said that she may be shocked. You underestimate her reaction. She was confused, she was shocked. I
To her, she later regarded my attitude as a common thing. And I do this every morning, there are two
Month.
"This practice changed my attitude. In these two months, the happiness of our family is more than last year.
"Now, when I go to work, I will smile on the elevator administrator of the building, say 'good morning' I
Say hello to the guards at the door of the building; I smile to the sister of the underground train, when I change money with her change.
Waiting; when I stand in the exchange, I have never seen my smiling people before smiling.
"I quickly discovered that everyone was also smiling at me. I have a pleasant attitude to treat those full.
People who are complaining. I listened to their grievances, and I smiled, so I was easily solved. I have found
Smiling brings me more income, bringing more banknotes every day.
"I will use another agent in a office. One of his staff is a very popular young man, I
Tell him that I have learned the philosophy of people I have learned, I am very happy for the results you have got. He then admitted that when
When I first used his office, he thought that I was a very stuffy person - until recently, he changed
Viewing view. He said that when I smiled, I was full of kindness.
"I also changed to criticize his habits. I only appreciate and praise others, but don't despise others. I have stopped
Talk about what I want. I am now trying to see things from others, and this is really changing my life. I become
A completely different person, a happier person, a richer person, is very rich in friendship and happiness -
These are also truly important things. "
Remember, write this letter is an old, footprint, shacklers all over the world, he is in New York
Sales and purchase of securities trading market - this line is too hard, and there are ninety-nine failures per 100.
What if you don't like a smile? There are two ways: first, forcing yourself smiling. What if you are
Alone alone, forcing you to whistle, or screaming, showing that you seem happily, this is easy to make you
Happy. Here is the late Harvard University William James:
"Action seems to be followed by it, but actually acts and feels side by side. Action is in will
Direct control, and we can indirectly control the feeling of directly controlling the will.
"So, if we are unhappy, it is a pleasant way to laugh happily, and
It is already a pleasant way to it. "
Everyone in the world is pursuing happiness. There is a reliable method that can get a happiness is to control
Your thoughts come. Happiness is not to rely on external situation, but relies on the inner situation.
Decide that you are happy or unhappy, not what you have, or who you are, or where you are, or you are
What to do, but what do you think. For example, two people may do the same thing in the same place; both sides may have
Isometric money and reputation - but one of them may be very sad, another happiness. why? Because the ideas of each person are different.
In the hot tropics, those poor servants cultivated with their original farms, I am on them.
They saw many happy faces. And these happy faces are tantamount to our in New York, Chicago, Los Angeles
I have seen in the air offline office.
"There is nothing, it is good or bad," Shakespeare said, "but thoughts make it different."
Reading the sages of the Aboro Habad:
"When you go out, put the chin into the chin, the head is tall, the lungs are full of air; bathing in the yang
Zhong; smile and greet your friends, every time you have a power. Don't worry about being misunderstood, don't waste one point
I want your enemies. Try to definite in your heart what you like to do; then, under the clear direction, you
It will reach the target straight. I think about the great and beautiful thing you like, and then when the years have passed away
Waiting, you will find yourself to master the opportunity you need to achieve your hopes. Just as corals learned from tides
The same thing as the material. Imagine that you want to have a way, sincere, useful person, and your heart
Thoughts, every hour will convert you to that special person ... Thought is so high.
Maintain a correct outlook on life - a brave, frank, pleasant attitude. The idea is correct, it is equal to
It is created. Everything comes from hope, and every sincere prayer will be achieved. We are in our hearts
If you want, what will become something. The chin is turned in and the head is high. We are the gods tomorrow. "
The ancient Chinese, is really smart - it is very thorough to things in the world; they have a motto,
We should don't put it in the hat. Then the Motto said: "And gas." (A person without a smile face,
Can't do business. )
Your smile is your good melody. Your smile can illuminate all people who see it. See you all day
I frown, I am full, regardless of people who are witnessed, your smile is like the sun through the dark cloud; especially for those
A smile can help them understand that everything is greeted by a smile.
Hope, that is, the world is joy.
Speaking of doing business, Flek Erwin Fletch, a wide range in his for Hohimo and Carlin
In the note, we have a practical philosophy. This is a smile.
Smiling at Christmas value is nothing, but has created a lot of results.
It has summed those people who are accepted, but will not make those people gave poor.
It produces between a flash, but sometimes gives people a forever memory.
No one is rich, no one is poor, because it is rich.
It has created happiness at home, has established a good sense in the business community, and is a password between friends.
It is a tired rest, depressed people's day, sad people's sunshine, is the best medicine for nature.
But it is nowhere to buy, there is nowhere to ask, there is nowhere to borrow, everywhere, because you give it to others before you
There is no practical value.
If the last minute of Christmas is in a hurry, our clerk is tired to give you a smile,
Can we ask you to leave a smile?
Because people who can't give a smile, I need to smile now! So if you want others like you, please observe
This rule:
"smile".
Carnegie emphasizes the importance of remembering the name of others. Remember the name of the other party and call it out, equal to the other party
A very clever praise. If you forget his name, or write wrong, it will be very disadvantageous. Sometimes I have to remember that a person's name is really difficult, especially when it is not good.
The average person is not willing to remember it, thinking: count! Just called his little name, and it is easy to remember. Tin Lee
Vetals to visit a very difficult customer. His name is Niconmas Papparas, others only call him "Ni
"Li Wei told us:" Before I visited him, I read a few times with his name. I use
The full name called him: 'Good morning, Nicomas Papa 22, he stayed. After a few minutes, he
There is no answer. Finally, tears roll down his cheeks, he said: 'Li Wei, I am in this country,
From no one will try to call me with my true name. '"What is the reason for the success of Anzu · Carnegie?
He is called the steel king, but he knows very little to the manufacturing of steel. His hands have hundreds of people, compared
He understands steel.
But he knows how to be a world, this is why he issued a big fortune. When he was a child, he showed the talent.
And leadership genius. When he was ten years old, he also found that people can see more important to their names. He uses
This discovery will win someone else 's cooperation. For example: he has a child in Scotland in the era, once
Only a rabbit, it is a female rabbit. He quickly discovered a small bunny, but there was no thing to feed them. But he has
A very wonderful idea, he said to nearby children, if they find enough 苜 and dandelion, feeding
Some rabbits, he will name the rabbit with their name.
This method is too well checked, and Carnegie can't forget.
After several years, he used this the same human weakness in the business community, earned several million yuan. For example, he hopes
Sell the steel orbit to Pennsylvania Railway Company, and Egg Thomson is serving as the chairman of the company. therefore,
Anzu Carnegie has established a huge steel plant in Pittsburgh, named "Agge Tomson Steel Plant."
Anzu Carnegie remembers and pays attention to his friends and business people's names, is the secret of his leadership
One, he can call him many of his employees. He said very much, when he personally served, he
The steel plant has not taken a strike incident.
Boatslav Bolav, Chairman of Texas Commercial Co., Ltd., believes that the more cool of the company. He believes that the only thing
Make it a little way, remember the name of the people. He said that if there is a manager, he can't remember someone else.
The name is equal to telling me that he can't remember a very important job, and it is doing his work on the sand.
Caolo Kohi, Californi Pai, is a space service, and she often practice.
Remember the names of passengers in the cabin and call them when they serve them. This makes her a thumbs up, there is a direct telling
Her, there is also a company. A passenger wrote to the airline: "I haven't taken a long time."
The plane is, but from now on, I must take a global air plane. You make me feel your airline
It seems to be exclusive, and this is very important to me. "
On the other hand, Petsky made it very important to make the black chef on the Porkmen train, because he always called
He "Mr. Ancient Bo". Fifteen times, Padski Travel US, playing performances before the enthusiastic audience; each
Once he accounted for a private car, after the concert, the chef was ready for him. In all the
In some years, Petski never called him "George" in the traditional manner of the United States. Prescher always take him.
The ancient official way, called him "Mr. Gu Cai", made Mr. Gu Ca. People are very proud of their names, and they will make their names perillite with any cost. Ample
The temper violent RT · Bannan, I was disappointed because there was no child inherited the surname of Banan. I would like to give him a grandson.
CH. Western Salt is 20,000 US dollars, if the latter is willing to claim to be "Banan" Western Sichuan.
Since the century, the aristocrats and entrepreneurs have funded artists, musicians and writers to ask their works.
Dedicate them.
The most valuable collection of libraries and museums comes from those who are worried about their names.
People who disappear in history. New York Public Library has a collection of Yasu and Li Kexus; Metropolitan Museum
The name of Ban Jimming, Atman and JP · Morgan; almost every church, all put a stained glass window to commemorate
The name of the donor.
Most people don't remember the names of others, just because they are not willing to spend the necessary time and energy to concentrate, repeat, no
Soundly cultivated the name in their hearts, they made excuses for themselves: they are too busy.
But they may not be more busy than Fo Lan Roosevelt, but he spends time to remember, and it is said that each
The name of the person, even if he has seen a car mechanic.
Flelin Roosevelt knows a way to get the most simple, most obvious, most important way to remember
The name of others makes others feel important -
But how many people do we do?
When we are introduced to a stranger, talk to a few minutes, when you say goodbye, we can't remember
The name of the party.
The first lesson for a politician to learn is: "Remember the name of the voter is the political talent, can't remember is the heart.
Not here. "
Remember the names of others, the importance of business and social, almost followed by politics.
The French emperor is also the nephew of Napoleon - Napoleon three, even if he is still a machine, still
Remember everyone he knows.
His skill is very simple. If he didn't understand the name of the other party, he said, "Her Qian. I have no
listen clearly. "If you encounter an unusual name, he said," How to write? "
In the conversation, he will repeat the name a few times, try to take it to the character of that person in his heart.
Expression and appearance Lenovo together.
If the other party is an important person, Napoleon is going further. When he came to him, he put it.
The personal name is written on a piece of paper, take a closer look, the gods are deeply remembered in his heart, then tear the paper.
In this way, he is not just the impression of the name, and there is an impression of the ear.
All this takes time, but "courtesy", Emerson said, "is made up of some small sacrifices."
Remember the importance of others and use it, is not the privilege of king or company manager, it's every one of us.
It's so. Ken Nottingham is an employee of the Indian General Motor Factory, and he usually at the company's restaurant.
meal. He found the lady who worked after the counter always frowned. She has made a sandwich has been done for two hours.
He is another sandwich for her. He said what he wants, she said on the label, I called the legs, then give
A few lettuce, a few potato chips.
After a day, he went to queue again. The same person, the same face; difference is, he saw her brand name. he
Laughing her: Yuns, then tell her what is going. She really forgot what scales didn't scalane, she gave him a bunch of ham,
Three lettuce, and a large pile of potato chips, it is going to drop the tray.
We should pay attention to a miracle that can be included in a name, and to understand the names that are completely associated with us, no one can replace. The name can make people outstanding, it makes him independent in many people. We
Do the requirements and the information we have to pass, as long as we start from the name, it will be particularly important. Regardless of
It is a female service or general manager, when we interact with others, the name shows its magical role.
So if you want others like you, please remember this rule:
"A person's name, for him, is the sweetest, most important voice in any language."
Carnegie believes that the best way to touch people is to talk to him the most precious thing. When you do this,
Not only will be welcomed, and life will be expanded.
As long as people who have visited Roosevelt, they will be amazed at his enforcement. Whether you are a small cowboy, politician or
Diplomat, he can talk about your specialty. In fact, this truth is simple, when Roosevelt knows the special fashion of visitors.
After interest, he will study this information as a topic.
Because Roosevelt knows that the best way to grasp people is to talk about things interested in each other.
The New York Banking Giant Duweuo said: "I carefully studied the series of interpersonal relationships and found that it must
If you need to change the strategy, I decided to find out the interests of this person, I want to give a way to provoke his sincerity. "
So, if you want someone to like you, you have to grab it.
Understand the interests of each other, chat with him for his favorite topics.
Carnegie pointed out that everyone you have encountered, think he is excellent in some ways; and one absolutely win
What is his favorite method is that he understands that he doesn't matter, he is an important person.
Human behavior has an important principle. If you follow it, you will bring happiness to yourself, if you violate it
It will fall into an endless setback, this law is: "Respect others, meet the sense of self-satisfaction."
For example, Professor Dewey has said: people the most urgent desire, I hope I can pay attention.
Carnegie has repeatedly emphasized that this force has prompted humans to create civilization.
After the philosopher, after the Millennium Pens, I realized the mystery of human behavior. In fact, this is not a new invention,
The ancient sages, the Chinese and foreign philosophers repeatedly taught us that they don't want to do it. The desires are also applauded.
You want people around you like you, you want your own point of view, you are eager to hear the real praise, you
I hope that others will pay attention to you ...
Then let us first comply with this command: You want others how to treat you, how do you treat others?
Don't wait for you to do a big official, I have begun to pursue this rule after I have a big career. As long as you follow it anytime, anywhere.
It will bring you a magical effect.
In fact, everyone has his advantages, all have the strengths of others to learn, recognize the importance of each other.
And express the sincere praise, you can resolve many conflicts and tensions.
If you want to get happiness every day, you can't blame your lady's cure, you can't take her and your mother.
Comparative comparison. Instead, you have to praise that she has a strip of the well, and it is very fortunate to say that you are fortunate.
A woman who has an inner beauty and external beauty, even when the cow has an eope, and if the bread is black charcoal, don't complain.
Just say that these things don't have her usually, she will work hard in the kitchen to achieve what you expect.
Degree.
Of course, don't suddenly start this - otherwise she will suspect.
You can start this evening or tomorrow night, buy a bunch of flowers or a box of sugar, how to say some concern, more to her gently smile ... If each for the couple can do this, there is so much in the world. Divorter happened?
So, if you want others like you, then another decision is:
Respect others, let the other party think that he is an important person to meet his sense of accomplishment.
Harvard University Principal, Dr. Charles Irite, can become an outstanding university principal, because he is not
Responsible for others, interested. One day, a college student named Campon to apply for a student loan in the principal room.
The payment is approved, and Clanton is very grateful to Irite. When you want to quit, Irit said: "Is there a time?
Please take a while. "Then, the students were very surprised to hear the principal's saying:" You have a meal in your own room.
is it? I have done it at home. I have done a beef lion head, have you done? If you are cooked, this is one
Tao is very delicious! "Next, he tells the students in detail how to pick beef, how to use it, how
Sliced, then let it eat.
"What you eat must have enough parts." The principal finally said.
Great Harvard University President! Who does anyone like this?
Anyone, butcher, baker, king, like those who appreciate and care about them. First World War
At the end, the William Emperor in Germany fled to the Netherlands in order to protect their lives. The people hated him, not
A few people want to smash him, or burn, but there is a little boy written a simple and sincere letter.
This Dehuang. This little boy said: "No matter what others, I will always like William to be my emperor."
Letter truncated Dehuang, and he invited a little boy to see him with his mother. Soon, Germany even with little male
The child is married. This is a true thing that is rich. We can not understand a way.
Is it? People need others to be interested in him.
Efforts to learn to make things for others, do things that don't have to spend time, energy, and sincerely doing things for others, this
Can get real friends.
