Success is a habit of making it (not advertising, just talking about the concept)
A number of famous foreign companies in China have a very interesting training course: The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People. This training course is derived from Dr. Stephen • R • Covey, the same name (Chinese translated name "and success"). Why is this book in such a psychological inspirational book that is selling well without failing, is a book that many people who pursue success?
---- A philosopher once said: Character decides to fate.
Dr. Kevi said that success is actually a habit. However, Dr. Kevi's book is not just simply telling you how to improve efficiency needs to success. The essence of this book is more in guiding you to build the belief of 'comprehensive success', and I'm trying to have successful success.
---- Pursuit of comprehensive success is true success.
'I have done a lot of goals for yourself, and it is also reached one by one. My career is very successful, but I sacrifically the happiness of individuals and families - Is this worth it? '' I have to do too much, time is always not enough, I feel very nervous every day, hurriedly. I can't live a full and comfortable life, I have no choice. I have a sense of wealth and accomplishment, and I can lose my heart. 'This is undoubtedly a portrayal of thousands of IT successful people. "With the success of success" tells us that only the success of the success is only half, only the successful harmony between the other levels of career, family, interpersonal relationship, personal growth, etc. is true success. The author advocates someone who is preparing for life, say goodbye to the old habits. And this is not easy, because the affairs of habits are in a sense of security, the habits always have great gravitational, like the Apollo spaceboat to moon, just a few minutes, the whole task starts a few kilometers It is the most difficult moment, and the energy consumed is often more than a few hundred thousand kilometers behind. At the same time, we also understand that people's behavior is always repeated, and excellence is not single, but habits. To enhance self, winning revolutionary effects, you must start from the concept, temporarily sacrifice the comfort and receivability of your eyes, and establish a belief that overcomes the 'inertia', ' 'Kevi believes that the concept is the fundamental, conceptual decision of the attitude, and the active formation habit, and the habit is about our success or failure.
---- The seven habits proposed by this book are complementary, the top 3 habits, that is, in me, establish the goal is full of efforts, master the focus, focus on how to practice themselves, independent, belonging to 'personal Success' category. Fourth, five, six habits, that is, establish a win-win, communication, brainstorming, is committed to team communication and cooperation, and pursue the success of 'interpersonal relationships. 'And seventh habits: comprehensive care of life, covering other 6, urge us to seek new, never end. With these habits, we can get a substantial change in progress.
---- Operation in my positive attitude, let you have 'choice of free'.
We have never controlled objective environment, but we can decide to react to objective reality. The author describes the encounter of Jewish psychologist Franco in World War II and its touching reaction. Flanges were trapped, and he was fully subject to people objectively, but he found that self-awareness is independent, super off from the body binding. It can determine the extent of the external stimulus to its own degree. That is, between the stimulation and the reaction, he also has the freedom and ability to react. This is what kind of education for us these 'free people': we can choose to take the initiative, choose a positive attitude, choose not to suffer, choose the career and life that meets your values!
---- Establish the goal and go all out, that is, what we said in the right time, and do things. Why is too many people feel lost when they succeed, they have to be expensive after the fame and fortune? The author believes that many people have not discovered the ultimate goal of life when they have worked hard, but they are busy, they have not visited their desires from their own hearts, and they have never reviewed their own life creed: What should you do? What is the most important thing in your life? What is your heart's focus? The author believes that only the goals of life meet the values, can also condense the willpower, direct the core, go all out to achieve the realization, and it is possible to achieve the satisfaction from the heart. ---- Master the focus and the balanced role is meaningful. The author explains this revolutionary time management concept. That is, it is divided into four categories and urgency, and we must pay attention to it is important and unsuspetent transactions. The importance is related to the goal, and all valuations are to achieve personal goals, and the matter is often important to others. When we are too many or forced to handle the urgent matter, those important and unsuspetent matters will become tested soon, so that we can't fall in the model of the 'firefighting player', it seems that there is no more than enough. realm. At the same time, everyone is a multi-role, we are the supervisor, employees, and children, parents, brothers and sisters, friends ... If we use the whole body to complete a single role mission, if you do an excellent supervisor or employee, Ignore other roles, then it is difficult to make life. We are not difficult to understand why the moon is the missionary collapse shortly after the task is completed, and some corporate elites have eared. Of course, the author believes that the key is values. If someone is willing to choose to enter, glorious, not so lengthy, and it is also good, as long as you meet your heart.
---- Individual independence does not mean that truly success, but also to pursue interpersonal relationships.
The author will establish an interpersonal relationship as a bank savings account, namely the emotional account, which can enhance emotional deposits is honest, credit, and power forces, loss of confidence, etc., will reduce the balance of emotional accounts until overdraft. The success of interpersonal relationship is a prerequisite for life. The basis of good interpersonal relationships is that self-control and self-knowledge, interpersonal relationships are more than just techniques but are nature. Whether it is life or work, we have 75% to 80% of the time to communicate with people, and many anxiety, inner is from invalid communication.
---- Intertwined by profits to create a harmonious win-win.
The world is big, everyone has a foothold, others don't have to be considered to be lost. Intertility of interest is based on character: integrity, mature, open-minded. The open-minded chest is from a thick personal value and security. Since I believe there is enough resources, I am not afraid that I have a common name, a total of trend, thus opening an unlimited possibility, give full play to the creation and wide selection space.
---- The 'changed' communication of the land is located. For the understanding of others, first understand the other party. Everyone wants to be understood and is eager to express, but often neglighted. As we all know, effective listening not only can obtain the correct information of Guangbo, but also helps the increase in emotional deposits. When we cultivate yourself, enjoy the strength of the inner calm and resistance to the external force, we will undoubtedly promote the ladder of the interpersonal relationship.
---- It is unbeatable. Many natural phenomena tell us that all the sum of the parties are greater than partial, and different plants grow together. The roots will be entangled with each other. Soil is improved, and plants are more lush than alone. The power that the two bricks can withstand is greater than the sum of individual endurance. This principle is equally applicable to human beings, but it is not unloraity. Only open your mind, respect the difference in the attitude of admitted to the city.
---- We are in the process of creating, motivating efficient teams, management conflicts, and stimulating team or organization's creativity and innovative awareness, all in the application of brainstorming, reaching full 'Listening', and all this is only The team's individual is reached based on the success of each member. ---- Comprehensive care of life, pursuing a complete life. Expressive health most of using 'lost or knowing valuable'. Kevi warns to balance from the body, spirit, mind, learning and growth, to balance itself, to put sports, cultivation, learning, meditation, reading, writing to the rush, and persevere, Getting more frustration. The job itself does not bring economic security, because everything is in changing, including people's expectations, with good learning, creativity, and adaptability, can stand in an invincible. With wealth, it does not represent economic independence, and has the ability to create wealth.
---- Shanding thoughtfully, the author believes that "there is a success" with success "not only the theory or teaching of our industry, but the heart of the action. Think of the four realms of learning: reading or listening, accepting, putting action, affecting others. Only staying at the second level, that is, accepting and no action will be not suppressed. 'Learning for time,' is a good way to make good use of this book, you will find that the growth caused by it is progressive, but the effect is substantial.
