5. Learn to sweat
The more you want to ask yourself, the more you return to you. As mentioned in the Naval Declaration: When peace is sweating, there is less blood during war.
I have a child in the era of Tit Nikola, the first person to demonstrate this truth with practical actions. When we play the squad game, we have been troubled, and the speed of the fight is so fast. We are in a particularly good team, but those ages than our big pitch (we have always requested to test their real age) always take the ball to us in our side with a fast speed.
We started to feel afraid when they were ball on the batting table, and the game was not intended. Playing with a softball becomes we try to overcome your own embarrassment.
Later, Ritter came up with a way.
He asked: "If we feel that the other party is slower than the actual speed, what will happen?"
I said: "The problem is here, we don't know who will take the ball with so fast, this is the reason why we feel so tough. When the ball comes, it is like a Aspolin Pill at every hour 200 The mile fly over. "
Ruite said: "I know that we can't judge who will take the ball with so fast, but if he is not a softball?"
I said: "I don't understand what you mean."
At that time, Ritt took out a plastic golf ball from the pocket, which is a ball that our father practicing golf in the backyard.
Ruite said: "Take a club."
I took a baseball lever and walked to a park near Ritter. Ruite walked to the pitch, but it was approached three feet more than the normal position. I stood in the hitting station, a small golf ball that took one by one hit Ruite.
Ruite shouted: "Haha, now we can have a fastball that will come to anyone. Go!"
We use the wonderful ball practice, the ball is fast whistling, not only speed is fast, but also from different angles, falling in a hurry, better than a slogan. Softball.
When I was in the next game with Rit, we were already ready. The goal of the other party seems to be a big white air ball that slowly runs!
After Ruite finished his section, I called the first one and the only home run. That ball is a left-handed man. After his ball is coming out, it is like hanging in the air, and I am easily defeated him.
I will never forget the lesson of Rit. Whenever I encounter difficulties, I will always try to find something difficult or more fearful. If I can even do it even more difficult, the original thing is to solve.
Great boxer Muhammad Ali follows a principle when choosing boxing sparring. He always chooses a lot of sparring than his competition against his competition. These sparring don't necessarily have strong opponents than his competition, but everyone is always stronger than his competition in a certain area. When he really face the game opponent, he knows that he has received full training in various skills in the competition, so he can win.
A person can always face a greater battle than he has participated in the battle. If you want to make a speech in front of a person you are afraid, you can first rehearse in front of a person you are more fearful. If you have to do a thing, you feel difficult and uncertain, you should first do more things than that.
I have to pay attention to how your self-motivation ability is gradually improved in accepting challenges.