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3. Tell yourself a real lie
I remember that my daughter Ma Jie was 12 years old. The school held a poem reading and asked each classmate to write a "lie", how great it is.
These children need to make their own imperative ideas and turn themselves into incredible greatness. When listening to them aloud the poems, the children did not intend to create the version of Arnold on creating an ideal image statement. By "lying" to yourself, they created the ideal image of their minds.
This is also worth it. Today, public schools are so lacking in individual achievements and individual success, and schools have to guide children to encourage them to express their great ways through "lying". (Agiminated by the movie alien: What does the school mean for high intellectual people?)
Most people can't see what kind of person we will become. My daughter's school has developed a solution that unintentionally solved the problem: if it is difficult to imagine its own potential, then you will express it through the fantasy, like the children write lie poetry. Think about something about what kind of person you will come, your subconscious doesn't know that you are in fantasy (it is just accepting or rejecting a picture).
Soon you will create the necessary blueprints, then develop in that direction. There is no high expectation value for your own, you will not struggle toward the goal. Before you don't have it, you will make it out, and the lie will become reality.
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4. Eye stare at the reward
Most people can't get angry. We often feel the heart, because we always think too much about things. There are always too many things in front of you face us.
There is an interesting story in this regard, which is a dialogue between the Darlas Deni Coach Jimmy John and his football player before the 1993 Super Cup:
"I told them that if I put a 2 × 4 springboard across the room, everyone can go and can't fall, because our attention is concentrated in the past. But if I put the same The 2 × 4 springboard is placed between the two 10-storey building, only a few people can go, because at this time, the attention will be concentrated. The attention is everything. Today, the team can win tomorrow. Team.
John Sheng told his team members, don't be subject to people, media and villion, but also focus on every game, regard it as a great training opportunity.
The denim won the game with a score of 52-17.
One thing in this story is beyond the football. Most people habitually change things that they live in their lives, because we have no endless possibilities. We are not focusing on the 2 × 4 springboard, but an anxiety of the consequences of falling down. We have failed to focus on our own goals, but are scored with anxiety and fear.
However, when you focus on what you want to do, you will harvest his results. When you focus on yourself is a happy life, you are the same person.
