Sheng: can't wait!
The 25-year-old professional male can maintain high combat power in the workplace if they are lazy, and are self-confident. A ordinary staff is eager to be recognized by the team and boss; if he is leading this team, he is eager to be recognized by peers and society.
Suitable self-esteem and self-supporting professional male ambitions - hard work, and win more praise and applause.
The 28-year-old Xiao Xu is a work-duty advertising designer. He spends most of the time in his work. Some large design that gradually took over most of last year reminds him. He complained: "I have stayed here for two years, and many people who come into the company together have been promoted. I don't want to be bad."
The high talent of this graduated from a college design of a university in Beijing has gone through three companies, and eventually choose to leave because of her hardships. "Now I still face this kind of dilemma, I think the company seems to see the results of my work."
This trouble is universally significant in the circle of professional men: talent is not valued, ambition is unable to show, the results have been repeatedly ignored, a person's talent, passion and fighting spirit are taken a little bit of light.
If a man has not "not" before the age of 40, it may mean that it is completely failing. This kind of artificial definition has become a strong psychological implies, making professional men to lose resistance in front of setbacks.
According to expert analysis, young people generally impetuous and eager psychology are important factors that cause serious imbalance in their mentality. At the same time, some of the rules of the game rules in my country are not perfect, generally lacking scientific employers, causing young people lacking full space.
Chen Jun, Secretary-General of the National Talent Mobile Center, believes that brutal social competition has urged young people to prove that they have not tasted not good things, this is actively driving for work and society. But how young people keep a natural and tolerant mentality, and everything is not demanding.
"Men who only bury their heads or only the eye-catching men are impossible to truly succeed, should learn how to find subtle balances between the two, so that all efforts are too hard."
Shady: Can't take care!
Workplace, such as battlefield, unprecedented fierce modern competition forced men to bow forward, any success is at the expense of damage to the body and consume energy. In the face of health and career, the inherent conquest of men can often ignore the former, thus suffering from "collective disease."
Mr. Sun, Mr. Sun, "like" and herself, just 30 years old, he has already begun. He describes his work: 11 months in the office development software, another month is basically consumed in a variety of IT exhibitions and business negotiations. The way of playing has made him a person in charge of the company's project, but his body also issued a warning. "This year, my stomach disease is relapsed, very serious, but I don't have time to hospitalization, mainly to lose work."
Life is working, now I don't play, I am definitely eliminated in a few years. "I only have to support it, support it to 40 years old, retiring money." Mr. Sun's fantasy is also the dream of most IT industry elite characters. Today, he is still in Zhongguancun, like a gyro never stopped, in order to win, must be more faster than other gyro.
With the development of the market economy, the use of human mechanism is more flexible and flexible. The requirements for professional skills are also rapidly improved, making professional men must carry increasing survival pressures, especially in industries with the market, such as IT, such as IT, such as IT , Marketing, media, real estate, investment, information, etc., more than 90% of the 40 years old are all inherited. "40 years old, earning money, 40 years old, spend money," became some famous sayings of some males.
Sub-health is no longer unable to, and even the physical problems have long been beyond the sub-health of the medical community. The diet is irregularly caused gastric ulcer, gallstones, migraine, hypertension ... Many real diseases have been wrapped in those years of age.
Psychologists suggest that in a competitive age full of fireproof, it is imperative to be unable to think about it. The best way is to arrange your own time and make work and rest. After all, there is no health, everything will not exist. Unemployment: Cell!
Unemployment, a word that makes the middle-aged professional male smelling the wind, once it transitions to the completion of the time, you can easily deprive all the happiness of a person.
In some big companies or big companies, if your position has been hard, you can catch your hands. So, unemployment is a bullet, enough to crush your overwhelmed backbone in an instant.
Wang Dong, who has worked in a pharmaceutical company for more than 5 years, tasted unemployment in August this year, 35 years old, he said that he is desperate to cry every night. "I have a home, have a wife, have a child, I used to be an excellent technician. When the newspaper news came, I felt that the sky collapsed." Wang Dong has frequently traveling in the talent market, but to find more than the previous condition. Good or quite work is quite difficult. Frustration and loss of loss are getting stronger.
The Japanese man who has consistently implemented lifelong employment is the most fear of unemployment. Now this unemployment phobia is infiltrating to Chinese men. It is better in my country. The company's employment mechanism has become more and more flexible, and the employment concept of the industry is also It is no longer a human capacity and quality measurement in a huge change.
Occupational men over the age of 35 have not accepted unemployment and hopping, but it is huge hidden dangers. According to Wang Dong's statement, the man of this age is very energy, and the physical strength may be more than the young people, and the opportunity to re-employment is not as good as before, and after paying the skills to strengthen the cost, it can be used to use the field; general This old man has a home room, and unemployment will make them feel suddenly two feet.
In this regard, the Secretary-General of the National Talent Flow Center, Chen Jun, believes that the professional male of this age should establish a crisis awareness in the work, and facing unemployment in their active mentality, even if it suffers from hitting, it is necessary to strive to strive for various opportunities, all-round. Self-knowledge and skills.
Buddy: I can't touch it!
Men tend to be unpredictable to come, and the buddies can be very heavy. But in the competition of the fierce workplace, worry that the deletion of friendship or is being distressed in the loss of friendship, has become a common problem for professional men.
Madrid who is engaged in drug sales will therefore intended to integrate. His loved hands with the high school era has not contacted it almost a year. When you see you, both parties have a considerable diaphragm.
Many professional men have such a desirable depression. Friendship is always closely related to a beautiful childhood and a simple student era, and a man who has not been tarnished before the tragic workplace, which touches the most soft part of the man. To some extent, the mutual support between friends is often an important driving force for men to continue to fight. Once they lose, they always make people suffer from the heart.
Psychologists believe that if heavy work stresses make you ignore the various emotions that you should get in your life, you should reflect on yourself. Experts suggest that no matter how busy is tired, you have to take the time to call your friends and family, strengthen communication and contact, such friendship and family not easily lose.
Wife: Run with people!
Worried that the backyard is fire, this mentality does not necessarily have enough representation, but still some of the reality of professional men between ages 30 to 40. The too busy professional men have to face the age of the big bouting or in the end of the marriage but cannot hold the wife's double threat.
A frequent marketing director told reporters that he is easy to get married at the age of 28, but marriage continued for 3 years: "She ran with a little man with a little power, I was really awkward. I can't accept it for a while. I am too busy, so I inevitably ignore her. "
Many difficulties of many difficulties have been facing the threat of "collapse", some men are only helpless. They feel that they are desperate and earn money outside for this home. Women have no reason to defend, so the big men's choices will pass some men and the opportunity to recover their feelings. Zhu Zhengyu, director of the Beijing Psychology Research Institute, said, "In fact, women are more and more careful to protect their care and care. This is a woman who is increasingly paying attention to self-hearted feelings. But the contradictions of occupations and families often cause emotions to women. Hard injury. "
I wish Zhengyu suggestion, married career male squares family, work, and work is impossible should not be all living. If the professional male is not to choose a career, it is better to take the marriage.
From: World Business Review
