At the age of 4, you will be happy to get a candy; 14 years old, you will be excited for an examination; when you are 24 years old, you will be ecstatic to get a girl's heart At the age of 34, you will be proud of you have a four-wheeled off-road vehicle ..., after this, a human vital watershed has begun to be faint, and it is more difficult to experience the feeling of happiness. . "Get or possess" toxic addiction is bigger, you are no longer a child who will satisfy. In order to save or make up for the decline of vitality, there is often a larger dose of causing substances. But even so, you can experience the happiness is also thinner as hair.
What do we use to measure happiness? Where can I find a happy formula?
People are always used to hoping to be hoped in a snapping action: more wealth, more sex, better houses, higher status, and greater reputation. It seems that only these to witness the value of ourselves, in order to make you feel safer and more powerful. But the desire to occupy is not exhaustive, possession of themselves in stimulation and giving birth to new desires, as well as the desire to desire. Therefore, people who will only use foreign objects to measure happiness often trapped in a paradox, the more free, the more free, the narrower the voids, the heavier, the more you are in happiness. In the words of a philosopher, people have to experience "the disappointment and ridiculous" in the forest in the jungle of the material.
How long have you not experienced happiness? Since the last time you have given a fresh morning dream, it is happy to meet the beautiful meeting, which is fast about the evolution of the tour, intoxicating the creative rush? Of course, there is also aesthetic movement that is reading or facing nature that day. What is gradually exhausted in your life, so that you feel helpless and exhausted, life begins to show uglie faces?
It is not that you are trying to catch up with the target, but the target ghost-like blinking shadow is tempting you, some external power is driving you, you are just a chased, whipped person. You are dissatisfied with you, you can't have it to have an upset. I can't help but quote Liu Xiaofeng said in the book in "heavy flesh". If I don't think that a kind of life can't bear, I feel that another kind of life is not enough, it is a person's imagination of happiness. It's too much. "This" imaging "torture you, so that you feel burnout and no one, taste the pain similar to Zeus Tamatos, he was fined to stand in the water, water depth and chin, There are fruit trees, when he wants to drink water, the water will be returned, and the branches are raised when you want to eat fruit. This is a terrible sinking and imprisonment, causing virtual, prison for desire.
The arrogant people will not refuse happiness. The reality of the smart person should also calculate happiness, they can abandon everything, but still respect and even worship the value of happiness. Only they put hopped in the wrong place. They became a Baway, and they would also be a victim of illusion. Their imagination of happiness is always too much. Inflating, "size" is always, the better, so it is always in the dilemma that cannot be met. They "calculate happiness in seconds seconds", but unfortunately with the road to the road. Borrowing a female scholar, these people say that they can't find their true starting point, find can't have their own horizon, find you don't have the appropriate proportion of yourself as a person, they grafted themselves on a variety of external power ".
Happiness is not measured, and there is no ready-made formula. No formula or program can calculate the total value of happiness. The superposition and accumulation of things is sometimes not meaningful, and even a negative number of happiness. You can say that people who drive the BMW are more intimate than a bicycle, but you can't say that the former is more happy than the latter. The BMW car can have a faster speed and greater mechanical power, but the driving person may not have a practicality of life. Almost everyone is talking about performance, talking about Power, but from the most fundamental sense, the power of the external object is illusory, the power is unreliable and even departing from life itself, its source is very suspicious Just like the stimulant on the sports field, or the product of Pfizer, or, similar to a bluff in a bluff. But some people are superstitious in the calculation of happiness. Among the movie "Along Came Rolly" ("Meet Luoli"), a guy is a risk assessor, he has become used to analyzing a lot of things in life with computer software. When he faces a question of how to make a choice in two women, he helps a very high computer program. After entering the advantages and disadvantages of the two people, the computer will give which risk is lower, so it may be a more happier percentage. However, the selected woman can't stand, because of the real, people with body temperature and heartbeat disappeared. Who is willing to be anatched into a bunch of numbers? This is not a choice of listening from the soul, nor a decision related to love.
If you need to find what "Happiness Index", then the only possible answer is: love, freedom, creation. Only these essential keywords can measure happiness and can take true happiness. For me, they also means that feelings: meeting, flying fast, aesthetic intoxication.
The size of happiness is that it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter small. This is just like the shoes on your feet, you can wear it. The childhood size is a sweetness of a candy. The size of the teenager is an encouraging of the eyes, the youth size is a kiss, a free, a created heart. After that, your feet are no longer growing, your size of your shoes is fixed, so please stay in love, freedom, create the enhanced intoxication, there is no need to pursue the amount of expansion. Because, "people can't grasp their happiness, because of the ground size of their own feet."
