If you use "hard" to describe the 1960s, "hard" describe the 1970s, so much longer than the "80" of the material wealth, social open, and the economy take-off era, then there is less suffering, more sweet, it is called happy. At the same time, at the same time, the material desires, multi-diversity, etc., began to override these tender minds. They encountered the difficulties of the elders, and the concerns of their self-reliance, even the sound of the ear. For a while, the controversy of "80" has been ridiculous. A well-known portal has established the topic of "80s, selfishness, ugly new human", people are not in the above number 80. Even some people say that with the people born in the 1980s began to embark on the social stage, these students were in the red flag, and the generations of growing in the sweet water gradually exposed their eight flag-style weaknesses, "they are China's collapse" . In the face of many falls, the 80s gods have responded that there are protests, arguing, and calmly admitted that they are self-reported. As so than? Reporters conducted an investigation.
Interpersonal relationship is troubled at work "80"
"Do you have recently hopped?" The reporter found in an interview that this is the greeting of "80" after graduation. Self-confidence is a distinctive feature of many 80s, they believe in their ability, depending on the "job slot" is "self-got". " Therefore, to the unparalleled "central sense", leading to their lack of cooperative awareness and team spirit, interpersonal relationships and mental endurance relatively weak, which also makes them difficult to work.
Xing Yuan, a professor of Shanxi University, pointed out that "80" has been a "small sun", which is long, "4 2" family model, is used to the elders to turn around, and I hope to be centered on myself. They have hopped, mainly because it is not working hard, but it is difficult to work with colleagues. The questionnaire showed 50% of the difficulties in which people met in people. Most people born in the 1980s did not have too strong power, especially like simple interpersonal relationships.
The knowledge structure of "80" is more practical, so that their ability to work has been fully affirmed by the size of the employer. However, these lucky children did not understand the meaning. They frank, they can really feel their value in the moment of each time the job, and the more main reason is that they "can't get along with colleagues."
Zhao Ping, who was born in 1982, working in a bank after graduation, work is easy to work, and the relationship between comrades is always difficult. After a year of work, she resigned and found two jobs, and they were all disappeared because of the problem of interpersonal relationships. "I have a lot of work, but the good thing is not in my head. I am really difficult to balance." She said hard, she feels that she is always isolated. In the eyes of colleagues, her words are not suitable.
Last year, he graduated from Shanghai's famous university international economic law. It can handle interpersonal relationships to date her greatest trouble, especially and superior. "From small to big, from home to school, I am center, others are all pet me, let me. Everything is completely different. In addition to doing well, I have to conscientious people's feelings, so as to avoid sinners." In the years, she has changed 2 companies. A foreign man's resources told reporters that newcomers graduated in the 1980s were also their research topics. Tens of thousands of months will not stay them. For them, there is always no freshness in a unit, and it is also difficult to find A sense of accomplishment. Enterprises are studying the psychological characteristics of the 1980s to set up training courses to adapt to their training.
"I" wedd by marriage, parents "shawl, listening to polish"
A generation of births in the last century 80 is generally the only child, the food, food, food, food, no experience, hard work and hard, and enter the society from the ivory towers. Their face seems to be mature, and the behavior is still moving, but the inner and behavioral ability is still not "broken", and still can't leave the parents. After rapid spending a lot of wages, they were reluctant to receive their parents. When it is facing a problem, it should be solved after an adult independence of the company, they say that parents will help themselves, everything is sympathetic. more than this,
The reporter found that because many "80s" work after the university, many "80s" after work, although the salary is taken, it is often not possible. This is the case in 2003, Zhang Peng graduated from a college in Tianjin. He worked in a city of Taiyuan, a monthly salary of 1100 yuan. He is often playing a taxi during his college period, and now goes to squeeze the bus. For a constant visiting classmate, he will spend at least 300 yuan a month to welcome the guests; when the seniors have been married, he has to surveillance, and there is a hundred yuan; at the same time, the mobile phone fee of his and girlfriend , Meal, transportation, etc., at least 500 yuan; if he is holiday, the birthday gift to girlfriends is not capable. In this way, he often just arrived in the middle of the month, and the empty circulation was in the day of borrowing money.
Under the helplessness, "80" have to help parents. Two years ago, graduated from Xiachun, Shanxi University Mathematics, now called a family family, but in fact, the house is bought, his monthly 800 yuan salary, only a simple life of the girlfriend. When it comes to this, his eyes flashed a helpless, but soon recovered nature, and even proud. "The graduation salary is less, and I have to talk to love, I don't want to reach out to my parents." He told reporters that the students who have graduated, and life is still toned to the university.
With the "80" marriage life of 20 years, its "soft rib" is more like a mountain dew, but not only the newweds need to fund their parents, but these only children are still "housework". Despite complete adults, their daily life needs to reach out of their hands. The Harbin Municipal Committee has shown that 30% of the "only generation" tracking survey of the Married, the Harbin Municipal Committee shows that 30% of these families have time to do household, 20% regularly organize their rooms, 80% of their families The two-party parents' family "", 30% of their own dirty clothes should be washed in their parents, half of the family has already contradictory, the main reason for its contradiction is: the two sides complain that each other will not do housework, do not know care people . The new generation in the impact wave will make China more energetic
Many sociologists and educators believe that "80s" began to face the temptation and problems that were not facing the elder, but they had a shortcomings such as self, luxury, but called "China's collapse generation" That is not much worn. In their unconfident, we can clearly see the exciting flash points. "80" is in the transition period of values and behavioral ways. Under appropriate guidance, they will certainly be able to avoid damages, soaring to avoid weaknesses, strengthen their cooperative awareness and ability, to realize physical and mental reconstruction, pushing Chinese society, economic development A peak.
Xiaoya, born in 1981, now has two jobs: a reporter in a late newspaper, a radio station as DJ. She puts eight each other and time to work, and now it has become the main force of the Evening News and the radio. The university has been graduating for two years, and the Xiaoya Day is so, I have not take a vacation, because she will immediately fill in her position. Although it has always been a "panda eye", she still feels lucky. "Now the society is the least lacking is talent, I am still drifting outside, I can't find satisfied work."
"80" is under unprecedented social psychological stress. They still need to have a good medicine, but it also needs to be fully affirmed and enthusiastic. Wang Xianzhong, director of the Employment Guidance Center of Shanxi University Graduates, told reporters that compared with the past graduates, the children in which they stepped into society more realistic, more sensible, some graduates or even genericity. On the other hand, the self-positioning of graduates is gradually objective, and they have a strong sense of mission to their lives, eager to get out of the world, look forward to challenging work and superior treatment, and double effort.
The Ph.D. of Beijing Normal University is commended that as a generation of generations in the market economy environment, "80" is more dare to challenge the authority and traditional concepts. According to his observation and analysis, these young people adapt to social ability, which has a kernel experience and highly absorbentity of network, media and other information communication methods, and can be flexible in real work and life. Some old institutions, values are in their body, and new value concept is reshaped, constructed, and formed by them. It should also be seen that their survival methods and values have also caused a strong impact on society. For example, "there is no sense of loyalty to society", "dare to make traditional concepts, to the authority challenge". Therefore, China has only a number of very young successful people, wealth, knowledge and social status and age, also broken.
Not only that, Xing Yuan, a professor of Sociology, Shanxi University, believes that the environmental constraints of the "80" personality constitution also changes, and it is considered to be some factors in personality defects, but sometimes Transform into a personality advantage. If they have criticized "self-centered", it is because they have been nourished by reform and opening up, enjoy superior material conditions, they have begun to pay attention to maintaining their rights. Imagine, fully exercise and safeguard your own rights, more and more people who are "centered", one flap, and less and less people, to give the country not only the crisis, but also the right Equilibrium, vitality. The key is that from kindergarten to colleges should adjust education as soon as possible, enrich the curriculum content of increasing students' collaboration, and enhance new generation of cooperative awareness and ability. (Finish)
