Although men are self-confident, even though they are not willing to admit, many men don't know how to get close to women. It is no longer something new. I only take me personal as an example, I don't know how many people who have an attempt to listen to my phone number; they get it usually a white eye and a backhon that quickly disappears.
In fact, women are not natural and cold, and their refusal to men is entirely because men pursue strange women's most common cause (or said, the most unfolded reasons) is "playing time, timely fun." Since he doesn't really want to be friends with me, what can I do if I am in listening, how can I get my phone number? We are all clear that men are near strange women almost impossible because she looks very wisdom, or because he seriously wants to fall in love with her. In fact, if a man is close to a woman, it is not a heart to win her favor. If you don't want to get her bed, women often talk about chatting together.
Perhaps the movie is too much, the old set of men and strange beauty "a little" has a profound impact on men or to women: men do not consciously act in this way This makes women can't feel that this man "is not wellness". Therefore, the key to the success of men is to break the old customs. Don't express it like "I want to fight", I will see the women as a huge challenge, and the boxing wants to get her.
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Change attitude: No matter where it is, don't "find a woman". This may make you feel pressure and inexplicable nervous. You should only be happy with your friends.
Participate in the event: Do not put a pair of attitude towards performing tasks. Dancing, chat with friends. Maybe the woman you look at will notice your friendly attitude you wait for people. The most unaraciible is to hide in a certain corner, only speaking a few words with occasional friends. Once you see your favorite woman, you will go forward.
On the other hand, on the other hand, one side may provide you with an opportunity to enter the other party circle; on the other hand, it can make you look more like a friend, not looking for a woman to go to bed.
Opportunity
Use your eyes: your eyes is the key. However, don't lose your woman or try to take it up and down - it seems that she did not wear clothes. Maybe men think this is a complimentary move, and it does not really can't help your eyes, but in any case, it is better to look at it. The communication is an important way to arouse the opponent's interest, not only help you express confidence, but also make her feel compliment - but must be used. Through her eyes, you can also observe if she is interested in you.
Easy and enjoyable: Close to her, close to her, not to treat her as struggle. Don't apply too much pressure to yourself. Use your judgment in the conversation. Maybe you can comment on a recent news or a film, make a joke, etc. If she is also a humorous person, this method must break the silence between you. Try to find the topic you may have a common place; don't forget to praise the bag in her hand, let your sister want to be crazy. If these make you feel unnatural, self-introduction is also a good way, although it is not very creative. If you use it, tell her that it looks very familiar, and I have seen it. However, this trick is sometimes not too spiritual.
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Ask for "female", if you are, the more urgent, the more likely, it is possible to cause each other's disgust. For a woman who doesn't understand, the only possible reason is that you have not seen a woman for hundreds of years.
Sell smart: Don't install a sleek world, eight slices. This is instead that you are eager to hide your lack of confidence and individuality.
Pride and self-proportion: If you show a look, any woman will not be able to. It is best to show your own face. To know that women can see if you are fake in every action - the sixth feeling of women is famous. If you really want to talk to her sincerely, she may be a heart. Unfortunately, near the woman does not actually have a practical trick. You can only decide yourself on how to act according to a particular situation. It is important to calm. As long as you don't see it, you will not be afraid to be refused. If she is very rude to you at first, she is afraid not worth your pursuit. Remember, flirting is a taste, so you should take a happy mood to take the woman who makes your heart.