If you want to have the achievements of the peak, you have to have the speed of emotional success depends on the speed of emotional adjustment. It is important to control the speed of your life. It is important to think how you understand the speed of success depends on the speed of emotional adjustment? Emotion refers to the physical and mental experience of the special sensing of a particularly objective thing in the environment. It is a non-intellectual potential quality that has a significant impact on life success activities. Emotional control, very helpful and change to life. If a person really wants to have achievements, there must be the ability of emotional regulation. Achievements have a certain relationship with emotions, here is the relevant idea: the first idea: If you want to have the achievements of the peak, the emotion of the peak is the best state of emotions, it is a positive Mentality. Leaders should always maintain the peak of emotions, communicate with positive images and positive languages to motivate him. [Example 3-1] US President Bush, at the 9.14 incident, is decentralized. Not only shows the future confidence, but also issued a call to the people of the country. This is the positive emotions that leaders should express, communicate with his positive positive language and everyone, affect his subordinates and nationals, and express his confidence in the country and future. When your emotions are very good, interpersonal relationships will become very good. When you are emotional, you will affect your interpersonal relationship. Emotions will cause a lot of changes in life. For example, one day, you returned home, and it is very urgent to ruin, saying that I am just lose confidence in this family, I feel that it is very bad. Bring this hurt of this hurt to the home, your family relationship will have a serious crisis. People are always willing to find negative things in their lives, which will directly affect emotions, which is very bad habit. To achieve success, we should learn to adjust your emotions. If you want to have the achievements of the peak, you must have the peak emotions. [Example 3-2] When I motivate Master Anthony Robin, I will let him go to a fire road when I am in class. What is the fire road? It is paved with red charcoal and poured on the oil, and then he let his students walked over from the fire road. Some people began to scream. Some people began to cry, some people started to shake, some people did not dare to go. Anton Robin began to motivate every student at the scene, and he told everyone to use the power of changing life. Some people are encouraging him, really walking. Why did you go, because his emotions have reached the peak state at that moment. The second idea: The speed of success depends on the speed of emotional adjustment, a very successful sales champion, and a business personnel who do not sell the product at all, who is more sales? Of course, it is a sales champion. Who is more setback challenge? Of course, it is also a sales champion. The setback challenges encountered by the winning champion, and the problems encountered by the leaders more. But to work normally, you should quickly adjust your emotions, and calmly face some challenges and problems. For example, you are a sales staff, in the face of the customer's refusal, you can have two options, one is refused by the customer, two months don't want to get up; you can say it, this is just a joke, he refuses me It is my sales method. He is not buying, but he is not enough to know, he is just quarreling with his wife today, so he has sent a little temper for me. This has no relationship. When I am in his mood, I maybe it will be transaction. Excellent people are not there there is no emotional problem, just a problem for how long your emotions stay. [Exercise] There is a kind of person, called to work is a worm, and it is a dragon. When you go to work, he is sluggish, it is not survive, and you can't ask for death. He stood in front of the company's card clock, and he had to get off work for two seconds.
When I arrived in two seconds, he began to rush out, you went to observe him, he went to the bowling course, took the ball and shot it. A stepping on the throttle, the car is open and stable. Is this people who have the ability? [Tip] He can take every bowling, he can also put everything in the job, the key is that he is not emotional to reach the peak state. If your emotions reach the peak state, you will easily make things that have the ability. There are no people with no abilities in the world, only people who have not reached the peak state. Emotions can help many people from themselves, can also change a lot of people, there are many people, but you know? Emotions can be grasped by yourself. Successists control their emotions, and the losers are controlled by their own emotions. [Example 3-3] German mathematician Gauss's life is tired, one of the important reasons, that is, he is very concerned about regulating emotions. During the peak of the business development, the wife was critical, and he inhibited grief, working with more effort to disperse the shadow. When his wife bid farewell, he told his wife that he also overcome a difficult relationship. Aqui Mide faces the sword of the foreign enemy, but also said: "Wait a minute, let me know the title of the hand." The so-called successful person is the most psychological obstacles to break through the people, because everyone is more or less, will have a variety of psychological obstacles. So many people are mentally disordered, indicating that the market in emotional control theory is very large. Some people with emotional problems were inspired. After learning the emotional control, they were more enthusiastic to accept these ideas and practices, and more actively made a decision for their own life, decided to be a person who controlled emotions, no longer be controlled . It is important to keep the peak state. Everyone will have emotional problems, including people who help others break their mental obstacles, and have emotional problems, but they have disappeared soon, and they continue to keep the peak state It is the key to solving the problem. So why people have a frustration? It is the original thing that it can be done well, but it is not good enough to have a frustration. But when you find a better way to make things better. Frustration can be converted into growth. What is the sense of growth, that is, you have a setback, but it also discovered a better way. Both life is not as good as eight nine, and it means that there is still two things in life. Anyway, your life should continue, then you have to pay attention, transform frustration into your strength, you feel that you have achieved growth. If you encounter the same thing, you will do it very well. This is a transformation. The so-called successful person is the most psychological obstacle breakthrough. From now on, give yourself a 10-day psychological challenge, let yourself keep a peak emotion within 10 days. When you have a negative and negative emotion, when you have a harmful emotion, you will be determined, turn it over, transform into your own emotions, conversion to make you more active emotions, transformation Become you can make your interpersonal relationship, transformation becomes you can get faster growth emotions, and transformation becomes an emotion that can reach results. You will find the emotional adjustment, you will indeed reach a peak state. [Practice] According to this lesson, give yourself a 10-day challenge, let your emotions maintain the peak condition within 10 days, and master the methods of emotional transformation through this experiment. There is an unable to record the emotional problem records below. Emotional control is very important to corporate employees and businesses, and peak emotions determine the peak achievement, and the speed of emotional adjustment determines the speed of success. Successists control their emotions, and the losers are controlled by emotion.