We talked about our school education for our success, and the school almost never taught us how to deal with people, will not teach us how to face all kinds of troubles, and actually these two aspects Decide whether we can succeed key factors. After we walk into the society, our lack of lack is the people, and a major subject we have to face is how to build our interpersonal relationship network. Some common techniques and general guiding theories will be discussed below. Treatment of interpersonal relationship [1] 1, if you want to pick honey, you can't get risks - don't criticize, accusive, complain. Regarding criticism, accusation, complaining, we don't discuss here; all of our people are deeply harmed. What we have to do is to be alert to his words and deeds, completely ban criticism, accusation, complaining about the motivation of others from the inner heart. 2, don't force others to recognize the wrong; this will only lose a lot of friends. I have had a lot of stupid mistakes. 3, don't say too much, I want to let others say more. 4, often keep neutral and maintain objective. 5, tolerant other people's errors. 6, don't interruption, correct, and add other people's conversations. 7, try to cater to others' interest. 8. When you want to praise others, let's say loudly; when you want to criticize others, bite your tongue. 9, when others have difficulties, take the initiative to help, encouragement. 10, always care for others. 11, don't be too familiar, too, don't pay attention to etiquette. 12. If you want to catch the fish, you have to ask the fish to eat. The only way to affect others is to talk about him, teach him how to get what he wants. First, pick up the eager desire of the other person, you can do this, you can master the world; people who are unable to, will be alone. 13, one person as long as you are interested in others, within two months, what he got is much more than a friend who is interested in him in two years. 14, always taking a smile. 15, keep in mind the name of others. 16. Everyone you have encountered, I think he is excellent in some respects; and an absolutely winning method is: let him understand with the method without traces, he is an important person. 17. Respect others, let the other party think it is an important person to meet his sense of accomplishment. 18, do honest, honest people. 19. If you are wrong, you will admit it. 20. When you talk at the beginning, let the other party say: "Yes, yes", he will forget the dispute and will be happy to accept your opinion. 21. If you have to get enemies, you will make you more than your friends; if you have to get a friend, let your friend make your friend more superior. 22. If you have to win someone else's cooperation, we must consult some of the desires, need and ideas, let him feel it is voluntary. 23. Give others sympathy and understand, we have four-quarters of people who meet every day, they are eager to get sympathy, give them sympathy, they will love you. 24. If you want to criticize others, we have cleverly imply that the other party pays attention to your own mistake. If you want to point out the error, you must be specific. 25, let others keep the face. 26. Use "suggestions" instead of order, not only can we maintain the other's self-esteem, but also make others will make mistakes and cooperate with you. 27, let others be happy to do it, you must let him understand, how important he is for you, and how important him will think about him. We can simply summarize: respecting others, listening carefully, thinking about the problem from the other party, talking about what the other party wants, and seeking to deposit. The interpersonal structure we discussed some specific some of the skills of communication. Here we discuss the inherent law hidden in complicated interpersonal relationships. Success.
Interpersonal relationships are generally consisting of below: 1, blood relationship, natural, can't change, is a treasure that we should cherish every person. 2, relativeship, half is congenital, half of the day after tomorrow. For example, Liu Bei married Sun Quan's little girl formed a relative relationship with Liu Bei. The Qing Yellow family engages in the relationship between Han, Full and Mongolia through marriage, and then stabilizes their regimes to use this way. 3, students' relationship. Students have become an important aspect of modern interpersonal relationships, especially for high-education. The quality of classmates has a significant impact on our future development. Many small companies are started by the partnership, and the well-known Microsoft is an excellent example. 4, friends who have fun. This relationship is relatively firm, it is worth spending hard to maintain, cultivating, treating sincere; caring is the key to doing a good relationship. 5, confidant. This kind of friend is the most rare, no matter how it emphasizes its importance; tolerance, honest, friendship is the elements. 6, partner. This is an interpersonal relationship between each of us. We need to strictly pick our partner, a good partner can make our power more than three people, an inappropriate partner will make our two people's power less than half personal power. 7, different friends. This kind of friend has certain difficulties during the handover process, but it is very important to the development of individuals. We need to learn new things from our different friends. The so-called "three people, there must be my teacher, choosing good people, there is a bad person," the same friend is changing. "The same friend is easy to resonate, but because this resonance will make us think about the problem It is a wise choice to maintain a certain number of friends different from our personality. 8, partner. If we work with others, our partners is crucial, we need to consider our goals and character to determine our partners. 9. Successful people. As the saying goes: "Nearmers are black, near Zhu bare." There is a large number of successful people around us, we will succeed sooner or later; because of their successful experience, failure lessons, funds, technology is our successful valuable wealth. 10, business friends. This is a friend who faces directly in our work. Don't look at any of the people around; don't treat them as simple product service objects. Adhering to and as many business people as possible, making us more easily mastered market messages, making it easier to handle complaints, services. 11, professional friends. This includes friends with our level, and the level of technologies than our higher and lower friends. A major part of our knowledge is our expertise, maintaining a considerable number of professional friends will make us find a good helper when we encounter a professional issue, will make us invite us to publish an article, assess the title, and improve the influence. the benefits of. 12, have a major influence friend. These people may be our elders, superiors, may have no direct association with us, but they have a significant impact on our success. If a friend, a friend of a government, a friend, a friend who doesn't have a direct relationship, as long as you get their help, will greatly add our success; if they make bad, it will make our losses are unpredictable. 13, disposable friends. One of the sex friends saying here generally refers short in contact time, but always wants to contact. For example, from your company bought a small thing, a friend's friend, a government staff that you often have to deal, dealing with the relationship with these friends, will make our work efficiency. 14, entertainment circle friends. This kind of friend is generally a friend who knows in the entertainment venue. For example, basketball friends, football friends, table tennis friends, badminton friends, chess friends, dancers, etc. This kind of friend is generally easier to meet; there is no scruple in everyone in communication, usually in the true face. Funcing such friends can make us have sustainable interest in our entertainment, as long as our entertainment project is good for physical and mental health, we can benefit shallowness.
