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One, talking out
Especially frankly, you have the feelings, feelings, pain, ideas and expectations, but it is definitely not criticism, blaming, complaining, attack.
two, do not criticize, no blame, do not complain, do not attack, do not teach
criticism, blame, complaints, attacking these are all communication, only make things deteriorate.
Third, respect each other
Only if you respect the other party respect, if you don't respect you, you should ask the other party's respect, otherwise it is difficult to communicate.
Four, never give up
5. If you don't say it?
If you don't say anything, you often take great costs to make up for it. It is the so-called "one words, the horse is difficult to chase", "the disease from mouth, the disaster," or even possibly Resulting in an indispensable life regret! Therefore, communication is not capable of embarrassed, there is no obscurity; but don't talk at all, sometimes it will become more bad.
6, do not communicate in emotions, especially if you can make decisions
The subordinate, especially the "decision" of emotional and impulsiveness can be made in emotions, which is easy to make things unreliable, regret!
seven, rational communication, inextricity do not communicate
不 性 性 只 只 只,,,,..........................
eight, awareness
What is the best way? If you do something wrong, do something wrong, if you don't want to cause unpaid damage? "I am wrong", this is a kind of awareness.
nine, admitted that I was wrong
I acknowledge that I am wrongly the disinfectant, the problem of thawing, improving and transforming communication. Just a sentence: I am wrong! Swakling how many people's new hatred, resolve how many years of death, let people suddenly open, put down the weapons, reopeically think about life, and even who I am? In this vast universe, people care is "I", if someone doesn't respect me, suppress me, bully me or insult me, even if it is a friend, I may be regenerated, and I am a little bit. What is going on? If you die, you will see the examples that you look at it!
Ten, say sorry!
When you really have a big mistake, death is not mistaken is a big mistake.
Eleven, let miracle happen
now I am willing to recognize each other, it is to create paradise and miracles for yourself and their families; it is impossible to be possible.
Twelve, love
Everything is love, "Love is the greatest therapist".
Thirteen, waiting to turn
If you don't turn it, you must wait; if you are in a hurry, you will only treat the silk; Strike, you will not work if you don't work hard.
Fourteen, patience
Waiting for the only thing is patience, and the people have actually become.
Fifteenth, wisdom
wisdom makes people don't persist, and bless to the soul.
Find a good day, no matter what happens, you have to "talk out", "express opinions", "communicate with him", such a week, you will not intentionally harvest.
pure, not necessarily understand, not necessarily stupid, but the degree of transientness between people. When we have a little bit, there are some temper, gradually, some things can be understood for a lifetime, some things should be understood in a lifetime. Perhaps, the world is too big, too much people, the heart is too messy, it is easy to see, I can't think about it, I don't understand. In the colorful interpersonal packaging age, emotional external placement, feeling of feelings, we need more pure, more transparent sense.
