Twenty Interpersonal Guidelines

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1. Don't believe those who are reporting who who is married by you.

2, don't believe in those who have praised you.

3, do not hate those people who have argued with you and criticize you.

4, absolutely do not arrange someone to search for someone behind you and say something.

5, absolutely not public, especially within the scope of their own power, that is, using his power or impact, some people talking about you, saying that you are equal to removing your own table.

6, don't answer any personal attacks for your personal personal attack, only discuss not only for you and your opponent, but also for more people, for social and national, there is a meaningful issue for some kind of academic construction and artistic creation . 7, generally do not do self-defense, but you can clarify some views, some choices, some are not. 8. It doesn't matter if you can't get it in order to make a black pot. You are still you, he is still him. A person who is not in a black pot can only be a weak.

9, don't just reject people, don't just agree. Do not wish, do not hang people's appetite, not in unnecessary things to show off their strength.

10, don't rush to express yourself, don't rush to correct others, listen to it, then look at it, and then ponder.

11. Don't talk about Zhang Chang Li short.

12. Remember that interpersonal relationship is always two-way, and the people of scholars have a constant school, helping people will constantly help, and people who are honored, and those who love people will love. At the same time, the people who speak people are constant, the people are constant, and those who are harmors are constant, and people who are playing, the hypocritical payable people are constant.

13. Never accept incitement, do not accept provocation, absolutely not because of the incitement of A is an enemy, and it is not rushing toward A because B is incited.

14. I will never consider what to get from it in interpersonal relationship.

15, never think that anyone you have touched is more than you than you than you than you.

16. When a person is accidentally accidentally, I think about it. Maybe he is doing this to help you, at least objective, not to do it, don't immediately envize others.

17. Never include anyone to include your most unfearstore. You engage in your interpersonal dispute, I am busy with my business. The result of your disputes may not be possible, how can I engage in business work, it is likely to have some achievements. All my achievements are the best answer to you, but also the greatest comfort of friends.

18, find a combination point, fit point, not only staring at contradictions. It is always safe, heart flat, and the difference is usually, regarding people with different opinions as a realistic friends or candidates, rather than the people who have seen different opinions, such as sitting in needle felts, face red a white.

19, never talk to the question from the perspective of personal interest, never arguing "I, I, I" and people, I would like to learn all the disputes, don't engage in the dog.

20. Treatment of interpersonal relationships as a special course, analyzing and further mastering our national conditions, our history, our social structure, our philosophical tradition and fashion trend, our logic science and civilization education mental health, etc. This is the meaning of the case mentioned in the previous.

21, you can use the air to learn, go to work, go to write, go to the renovation of the house and even go to the ball to play, but in interpersonal relationship, use in response to rubbing, use it on the same time Three-point force, most force for 30 seconds, then immediately returned to the state of learning and doing things, and spend more time and plenty of time, it is absolutely wasting energy, waste time, waste life.

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