Some people have done such an experiment: he put into a flea into a glass and found that the flea jumped out easily. Repeat several times, the result is still the same. According to the test, the height of the flea jump is generally up to 400 times the height of its body, so the flea can be called the jump champion of the animal industry.
Next, the experimenter placed this flea again into the quilt, but this time, it immediately adds a glass cover on the cup, "嘣", the flea is heavy hit on the glass cover. The flea is very confused, but it will not stop, because the life of flea is "jumping". I was hit at a time, the flea began to be smart, it started to adjust the height of the hero according to the height of the cover. After a while, it was found that this flea has never hit this cover, but is freely jumped below the cover. One day, the experimenter began to take this cover and didn't know that the cover had been removed, it was still in the original height of the original.
Three days later, he found that this flea also jumped there.
After a week, this poor flea also hopped in this glass - in fact it can't jump out of this glass.
In real life, have many people have such a "flea life"? When you are young, your feelings are successful, but often, often, often failure, frequent failure. After several failures, they started to complain about this world's unfair, which is to doubt their ability. They are not doing all costs to pursue success, but repeatedly reducing successful standards - even if the original limit has been canceled. Just like the "glass cover" just taken, they have already been hit, I don't dare to jump, or have been used to it, I don't want to jump again. People often have to endure the life of the loser because they are afraid of being sucked.
Does the flea really can't jump out of this cup? Absolutely not. It is only that the height of this cup is unable to pass by default.
This is also like this. Many people don't dare to take the pursuit of success, not the pursuit of not succeed, but because of their hearts, it has a "height" in the heart. This high is often impossible: it is impossible to succeed. This is no way to do it. .
"Heart" is one of the root causes of people unable to achieve great achievements.
Don't be self-limited. Tell yourself every day: I am the best, I will succeed!