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The first chapter of the first chapter of the entrepreneurial era is the first lesson of the eagle that falls in the chicken nest. In a popular, no matter the rich family, the children, no matter where the city wells or business giant, everyone is using his own idea to decide, enter his survival status, and explain his survival status as success, fail or fate. There is a classic quoted in the field of educational psychology: "Broadcasting a kind of thought, harvesting a behavior; broadcasting a behavior, harvesting a habit; broadcasting a habit, harvesting a personality; broadcasting a character, Harvest a fate. "It is very good to explain the interaction between thoughts and destiny. Born a poor boy Liu Bei, using his own life, very good explanation of this classic quotes.
Liu Bei is a student in Zhangzhou City, Hebei Province. Because the young father is full, it relies on the oligomatus to support the family, and the days have abnormal. On a night of the high-rise, Liu Bei's self-study, I was back to my home, and I saw the mother still sewing cotton boots under a dim light. Liu Bei said: "Mom, this day is cold, sleep early!" Mother replied: "You will participate in the college entrance examination next year. I can sell more money, I can give you more money. Tuition fees in college. "Liu Bei was in front of the mother, the nose was sour, tears were coming. He whims and said: "Mom, I have to spend a lot of money in college. Our family is too poor, what can this be sent? Don't be a point!" Mother heard the shoulders and asked him: " Do you have to stay in this pool? "Liu Bei said:" What is the way? Maybe, this is destined? "Mother put down the needle, looked at her son, said:" I read a child. " After "three characters", I can think about some problems. If you are talking about, is it a matter of people? It's still a matter of people? I will tell you a story, maybe I can help you find the answer. "An eagle The egg rolled out from the eagle nest and dropped in the grass. Some people discovered him, thinking is a egg, take him home, put it in the chicken. There is a hen in the chicken, which is incubated with other eggs, and has been hatched. So, he was a chicken as a child and lived with a chicken. Due to the long-term, many partners bullied him. He feels loneliness and pain. One day, he followed the chicken in the rice field. Suddenly, there was a black shadow on the mountain, and the chickens were panicked, and they hide everywhere. When the crisis has passed, everyone is relieved. "What bird is it just?" He asked. His partner told him: "That is an eagle, the eagle." "Hey, the eagle is really can't afford, flying so is as bright!" He made an inner envy, "If one day, I can also be like an eagle. Flying, then how good! "" It's a feeling of infatuation! "His partner repeatedly reprimand him:" You are a chicken, and even chickens feel face for your ugly, how can you like The eagle fly? "The mother said the story and asked:" Son, the so-called destiny is an eagle that falls in the chicken. Now, are you willing to choose the same life like a chicken? "Liu Bei is still asking mother:" Do you think son is the little eagle that is unfortunate to fall in the chicken? "The mother affirmed:" Yes, you are the descendants of the eagle, you should pursue your blue sky. Don't sigh the son of one or two valleys in front of you! "She told her son, his grandfather's grandfather's grandfather is Liu Sheng, who is Han Jingmine, and he is actually the descendants of Han Gaozu Liu Bang. The royal family Blood. Liu Bei awakened, resolutely said to his mother: "Mom, I don't understand what you mean, I will never live up to your expectations!" After studying, the second year, Liu Bei finally took the Yangtze River International Business Administration University. On the day of the admission notice, the mother and child were sad and happy, and the door was crying.
The second class self-service, the school name of the Yangtze River International Business Administration, the number of open-word "Three Kingdoms", "Rolling Yangtze River", has created countless hero heroes from the past, is an internationally renowned school. Liu Bei can become a student of this university, a promising future, is enough to launch an unlimited association. Uncle Liu Yuanqi, I know that this child will have a good time, come over to the nephew: "This child finally gave him the death of the death. You, the guards have been, it is very difficult. Do you have a tuition fee for college behind him? I will be responsible by me! "Uncle opened a store, and uncle's uncle was opened in the weekdays, and there was a small savings. Liu Bei and his mother feel both surprises and strange. The surprise is that the high tuition fees have finally settled. The strange thing is that uncle has always been poor to love, and the nephew, the nephew is very cold, how do you suddenly want generous to ply enthusiastic help? Uncle Haha smiled, explained: "As the saying goes, self-help. Since the old God is willing to help you, let alone my uncle?" Self-help people help? Liu Bei's heart is moving. It was until he came to the university until he graduated from his university until he was in a dilemma. He fell into a contemplation again, and once again, he would ask the gods in the sky: What is the relationship between self-service and heaven? He lists the following answers: 1. The real self-help is an admirable conscious person, he will despise difficulties, and difficulties will be strange to fly in front of him - this process is like a helpless . 2. The real self-help is like the fireflies of the night, not only will illuminate themselves, but also win other people's appreciation - when people appreciate someone, they often express their love in the form of help - good luck therefore. 3. People believe that a real self-service will eventually achieve his success, and all those who have helped him will be gratified. 4. If the self-help understands, people will give him more help, so he can face life more easily. He used his own understanding to apply this philosophical reputation of mythical color, actually tried. In view of his self-improvement in the economic difficult situation, the school also helped him from many aspects, giving him tuition fees, giving him a scholarship, giving him a chance to study. When I graduated from the big four, he looked back, and he had pressed the poverty problem of breath. It is already a general, quietly passed in the morning. The third lesson will attract happiness. He believes that the famous emerging e-mail Tugzhi gave him a third lesson of life. At that time, he was still a big freshman. Lu Zhi smiled and walked on the platform. Welcomes the arrival of the new classmates. He said: "As a teacher, I hope to give you a Mentor (a good teacher Yifu / Bole), can give you the help. As for you can True material, it is necessary to depends on your own understanding and pursuit. "He told the students that the university is more than just the things on the book, but not only to get a paper diploma, and It is necessary to get a Vision (foresight), a way of logical thinking.
"Who is there?" He suddenly asked. A male boy named Gongshun said: "I have played, it can be fun." A girl named Cai Wenji said: "I know, there is a Ya Ya, called 'to weave,", my father said, this Suspent makes people play. "Teacher Lu said:" Some people think that playing will make people play the same thing. Some people think that they have brought children to our world, and the world full of childlike is relaxed, pure. Here We don't discuss 蟋蟀 is that it is not, but there is other purpose. I will tell you a story, about a insectist and his cricket, businessman and a coin about the insectologist. I hope This story can be inspired by everyone ... "Along with the charming body movements of Lu, his story, the magic box opened: there is an insectologist and his businessman walks in the park, chat. Suddenly, he stopped and as if he heard. "What?" His businessman asked him. The insectologist screamed: "Have you heard it? One of the squats, and it is absolutely a big one." Businessman friends are very difficult to listen to the ear, no to answer: "What am I?" I didn't hear it! "" You are waiting. "The insectologist said, while ran to the nearby woods. Soon, he found a big head, come back to tell his friends: "I saw it? A white teeth is a big wings, this is a big-level 蟀! How, I didn't listen to it. ? "" Yes, you didn't listen to the wrong. "The businessman is inexplicably asked in insectologists:" You not only listen to the tweezers, but also heard the variety of 蟋蟀 - how can you listen? "Insectology?" Home Answer: "The big cockroach is slow, sometimes it is twitakship for a few hours. Small cricket is fast, called it, black, purple, red, yellow and other colors of all kinds of colors Various, for example, the sound of the yellow slap has a metal sound. All the sounds are only extremely subtle, even the difference between the words is difficult to describe, you must have a heart to distinguish it. "They said, while left the park, walking There is a lively sidewalk on the road. Suddenly, the merchant also stopped the footsteps, and the waist picked up a coin dropped on the ground. The insectologists are still walking forward, and there is no sound of the land of the coin. "What is the truth of this story?" Asked Lu. Everyone is thinking, no one answered. After waiting for a while, Teacher Lu gave the answer: "The heart of the insectologist in the worms, so he heard the tweezers. The heart of the businessman is in the money, so he can hear the sound of the coin. This Story, where is your heart, where is your wealth? "Teacher Lu continued:" After four years of university study, you are also pursuing the wealth of life, please seriously consider, what is your wealth? The heart is placed there, so you can get your wealth - in order to help you understand this truth, let's make an experiment together. "He took out a big paper filled with the sand, showing it to everyone. Look, while saying: "These sand is mixed with iron filings. Can you pick the iron filings from the middle of your eyes and your fingers?" The man shook his head. "We can't use your eyes and your fingers from a bunch of sands, just like we are hard to find our customers from the vast sea. However, there is a tool to help us quickly find iron filings from the middle of the sand. Everyone may I thought that this tool is magnet.
"Teacher Lu took out a magnet from the bag, put it in the sand, and quickly gathered the arrows like the iron filings around the magnet. Teacher Lu took the group of iron filings to the classmates, he Say: "This is the magic of the magnet. We can't do things with your hands and your eyes, but it can easily do very well. "The students have grown up their eyes, watching the miracle of Siki in the hands of Lu. Lu said:" If this box of sand is like the life, setbacks and boring books we face, then this magnet is one A heart full of love. Where is your heart, where is your wealth - if you have a heart full of love, then it will be in your book, in your life, find a lot of beneficial knowledge, just like magnets can suck out Tie cut. However, a heart that doesn't know how to love is like your fingers, it is looking for it in the sand, but I can't find a little iron. Is not it? Classmates, as long as you have a heart that loves life, you can always find that every day has gains, every day has accumulated, every day has a happy thing. "Teacher Lu said, while letting the students turned the game and magnet. He played unquestionable gestures, and the voice told the children:" Where is your wealth, your wealth is where - no matter you encounter What kind of difficulties, what kind of adversity, how to confuse, have to believe this sentence. Whenever there is a real love, you can attract useful resources, good things, and happiness like magnets. "The fourth class is a popular person to the school for only one week. Liu Bei shouted to be trained by the student because of the student in the bedroom. Just after the teacher, I took a closer look, and asked the teacher at the Student Office. "What is wrong with him? "The teacher of the student said:" The classmates in their bedroom jointly tell his words, saying that he likes to swear. After a few days in the school, I actually played three frames. You see his head of his head! "
Lu Zhi said: "I know this boy, you will give it to me!" So Liu Bei followed Teacher Lu to his office. Teacher Lu called Liu Bei to sit down, giving Liu Bei poured a cup of tea, making Liu Bei's heart as hot as this cup of tea. "Tell me, what is going on?" Teacher Lu asked. Liu Bei said: "They all look down on me, deliberately can't go with me." "Why didn't they go with you?" Teacher Lu asked again. Liu Bei grabbed his head, replied: "They said that I am a village. In fact, the seven people in our bedroom, seven people come from the countryside, why do you look down on me?" Lu Ji knows what is going on, he is very Looking at Liu Bei's eyes sincerely, "If you don't mind, I want to tell a story to you." After the consent of Liu Bei, Mr. Lu began to tell a story about the dog. There is a dog called "lonely", inadvertently broke into a model of a model school. The four walls of the room are inlaid in glass mirror, and countless shadows of dogs. Seeing that so many dogs suddenly appeared, this lonely snack was shocked. It instinctively retired, and his mouth was grinned, showing a low snoring. All the dogs in the mirror have retired, and one is grinned, and the dance room also sounds the echo of the dog. This lonely drum started to panic, it stuffed, struggled ... it was messy in the room, more crazy, more and more confusing ... until it was in the past because of physical strength and despair. Liu Bei asked: "Do you say that I am a lonely dog?" "What do you say?" Lu Jian asked. Liu Bei said: "My character is a bit lonely. However, what is the relationship between the classmates of the bedroom and the dog in the mirror?" Du Jun said: "Don't you understand? The classmates in your eyes are the dog in the mirror. Remember, if we are friendly for others, others will be friendly for us; if we are not polite to others, others will also have tooth our teeth. You said that the students can't go with you, then how do you treat students? "Liu Bei did not say anything." "You want to be a popular person, can you be a popular person? Can you." Lu Jun smiled and said, "I have a secret, as long as you believe, accurately Within three months, let you become a popular person. "Back to the bedroom, Liu Bei immediately put this" popular secret recipe ", Jing Gongjing, 地 地 地 地 页 页 上 页 上 上 地 地 上 地 上 地 地 页 上 上 上 地 地 上 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地 地Second, encounter students, be kind to hello; third, take a good heart to help others; fourth, people are not sages, can you? Take each person around you with the same mind; fifth, firmly treat others is be kind to our own public relations philosophy. Since then, Liu Bei listens to the words of Lu Jian, practicing these secrets. Not long after, he became the most people like the students, the most humble and humble people. In the "Three Kingdoms", Chen Shou evaluated: "The Lord (Liu Bei) is a generous, knowing people's hospitality, covering the wind of Gao Zu (Liu Bang), the hero." It means that Liu Bei can grow into The hero of the business community, the most important thing is that he is sincere, generous, affinity. Because of this character charm of Liu Bei, he became a good friend who liked many teachers liked.
Even in those days when he later entrepreneur, no matter how hard work, how to discharge, there is still some talents to follow him, and he is hard with him with him. The most famous, is the Guan Yu and Zhang Fei, which is the same as Liu Guiyi, "Don't ask for the same day, but the same day, the same month, the same day,". In the fifth egg shell, there is a mysterious four-last semester. When the Test, Liu Bei accidentally encountered the purchase of food in the supermarket in the campus, and suddenly there was a strong impulse to get close to him. At that time, Lu Zhi had left the podium, and it was the general manager of a school office. Liu Bei took the initiative to help him with the basket. Then I went out of the door together, I didn't know that I came downstairs. Lu Zhi said: "Let's go, go to my house, let's get a meal!" Liu Bei hesitated for five seconds, his face was red, nodded: "Well!" The next thing happened to Liu Bei. He was choosing a dish with Teacher Lu, to do a housework, talk about his family, his mother and the story of the eagle, talked about his career that he was about to graduate. Teacher Lu said: "Whether you know how to hatch it?" Liu Bei shook his head. "From an egg into a fresh life, what kind of miracle!" Teacher Lu raised a egg and said, "You can imagine it as an egg - we break it, you Look inside, there is no feathers, eyes, or the shape of the legs. It is incredible that this group has sticky, but it is hidden the mystery of the beginning of life. Put it in a warmth In the environment, after an appropriate time, it will become a cute and eagle. "Teacher Lu came back, watching his students, meaning that" people are like this. A person's potential, after pass After training, it will show an appreciation of talents and advantages. Four years of university life has passed, you are now like the eggs in the eggshell, you have to break the shell. From the eggshell, a new The world is waiting for you! "Liu Bei said:" Yeah, I only fleate the eagle on the Tianyu field in Hebei, after four years of study in this egg shell, now face another new life "" The sixth lesson uses all the strengths of the largest quadrupleness almost all work or prepare for the postgraduate study, everyone has fallen into busy and panic. Liu Bei is also like this, but until the winter holiday, his work is still not a bit eyebrow. This is a Saturday afternoon, he came back from the talent exchange market, sitting on the side of the school's playground. He has participated in many times, the job hunting conference of various names, and handed a hundred counseling applications, but also did not have a little effect.
I don't know when Liu Bei began to pay attention, there is a sand pit from him about 100 meters away, a little boy is using a sandwrapping road. Next to the sand, some toy cars are placed. The little boy waves a plastic shovel and works very enthusiastically. The sun warmly shines on his busy figure, and those sand becomes beautiful roads, bridges and tunnels under his creation. However, in the construction process, a big stone appeared unexpectedly. The little guy began to dig the sand around the stone, then hug it and wanted to move it away. He is so small, while the stone is so big, when he makes it try to move the stone to the edge of the sand, and no power is. He biting his teeth, shouting, initiating an impact on the stone again and again. However, whenever he just has a little progress, the stone slipped and reappeared into the sand. The little boy screamed loudly, resolutely puff it, and fought out the hardships of the milk push the big stone. The big stone rolled down again and hurt his feet. He sat in the sand and cried in the sand. Liu Bei has seen these scenarios clearly, he wants to help the little boy. He stood up and went to the couch before kneeling: "Xiaobi, do you want to move this stone?" "Yes. However, I can't move it," the little boy sobbed frustrated, "I I have exhausted all my strength, but I still have to move it! "Liu Bei cordially corrected him:" The little brother, you are not right. You didn't use your strength, you didn't ask me. "Liu Bei jumped down the sand pit, picked the stone, moved it out, just like moving it from his own heart. He suddenly realized what, quickly returned to the dormitory, sitting in front of the desk, writing his difficulties he encountered on the left side of a piece of paper, listed in the right, all resources and strength he can use. He found that the way of using this power is indeed a good way to effectively solve difficulties. He wrote in the diary: From now on, no matter what frustration and dilemma, no matter what kind of desperation, you should think about the stone, then ask yourself: "You really use all the strength. ? "The seventh lesson allows the soul to be passionate and lively Spring Festival soon passed, and a large number of students ushered in a nervous last semester. Liu Bei's work is still not enough. He can't stand the way and ask Guan Yu, Zhang Fei: "You said, why can't I find a job?" Zhang Fei said: "You see you." , All the day, a look, who wants you? "
Guan Yu also said: "Liu Bei, not we say you, you have to positive. People are active, the spirit is also coming. The examiners who are responsible for recruitment are energetic guys. It is like you, just like you. It can be an anti. "Liu Bei sighed and said," I also want to actively. However, I don't know why, I will not do it. "Zhang Fei put the two glass on the table, poured into the water , Then grab a dust from the ground in one of the glass, asked Liu Bei: "I didn't see it? I am a cup of water, so I don't worry. You, it's a cup of water, all day gray gray Face. You said, what method can be used to make this cup of water? "Liu Bei said:" There are two ways, one is the sedimentation method, one is the filter method. "Guan Yu is watching" Zuo Spring and Autumn ", he The book is put down, saying: "Zhang Fei's meaning, this cup of clear water represents a positive thinking, this cup of water represents negative thoughts. The sedimentation method means that the depths of melac are deep, sometimes you think that I have forgotten, no I think that the wind blows up, it is re-filled the whole mind. The poet often uses 'only brows, but the words of the heart' to describe this state, so the precipitation method is not enough. "Liu Bei asked:" So, filter What? "Guan Yu said:" Filter can solve the problem, but there are two shortcomings. The sediment that blocks outside the filter is easy to block the filter hole. When the pressure outside the filter is too large, it is easy to filter. The net is broken. Therefore, the filter can only keep the short-term ice and jade, and 'a mistake, a thousand ancient hate' is the normal state of the world. "Liu Bei asked:" Do you have any other good way? "Zhang Fei said. : "Of course." He brought two good friends to the bathroom and put the cup under the faucet and unscrew the water source. Under a clear shock, the water in the cup is constantly diluted, filled out. In less than a minute, the cup of water has been completely turned all over water. He said to Liu Bei: "Seeing that there is no? The water in the faucet represents happiness, vitality and positive ideas, it can dilute your troubles, rush away your confusion, exclude all negative things. Just like you need a cup of water. You should choose those positive and exciting thoughts, let it continue to flush your heart. "Liu Bei said:" You know, although I am born, I have never given up my self-motivation. But I don't know why, my The attention is easy to turn to the other side, so I can't actively. "Zhang Fei said:" Yes, in this process, you feel shy, don't twist, panic, sad, excluding, these phenomena are normal. But you Don't let some phenomena in the process affect your determination. You must put your attention on the 'final result', let those active thinking is 'final result' service. "Liu Bei said:" Where am I Going to find this source of positive ideas? "Zhang Fei said:" It is very simple, as long as you don't doubt, those happy, affirmation, philosophical quotes, beautiful imagine to things, the self-jam, even just a motto It is all able to silently stir your heart. However, as long as you suspect, you will be silent - as long as you are silent, those active thoughts will stop the role - and the troubles between the world seem to drift. Dust, just I will take the opportunity to turn your clear water. "Liu Bei smiled:" Your presentation is right, I do often doubt, I think this is why I can't active reason. Zhang Fei, usually see you. I didn't expect that you are so big.
"Guan Yu said:" You see him seems to be a rough, in fact, the beauty picture is beautiful than anyone, but also writes a good word, the mind is good! "Liu Bei thought for a while, said:" Zhang Fei, you summon the macro you just now into a word, write a word, as my motto, how? "Good wow! "Zhang Fei generously responded, immediately returned to the bedroom, paving the paper and the ink, wrote:" Don't doubt success, always passionate! " "The graduation thesis submitted by Xiao Liu, submitted by the class is" the seven must repair lessons in the era. "The mother gave him the first class, so that he struggled to jump through the threshold of the college entrance examination, and became the Yangtze River International Business Administration. The famous school student. Uncle gave him a second lesson, let him work hard, finally spent four years of studying time. Du Jun gave him a third lesson, fourth class and The fifth class has made him understand the meaning of love, society and growth. That little boy gave him the sixth class, let him know what is going on. Guan Yu, Zhang Fei used two glasses of demo effect, Give him the seventh lesson, let him truly understand the relationship between positive and success. He is like the eagle that Lugzhi's fable is that the eagle that is being broken, because there is this seven lesson, He used his neussite and strong feet and wings to go to the new life outside the egg shell. It is worth mentioning that he and Guan Yu, Zhang Fei worshiped into the brothers in the Taoyuan in the school West Hillside. Press The birthday month, Liu Bei is a big brother, Guan Yu is two brothers, Zhang Fei is a third brother. Liu Bei said: "The traditional habit of Chinese reading is a gentleman's interest, but our volunteer is not just a sense of praise, we still have to Galloping Jiangshan, entering an entrepreneurial space. As the saying goes, the three people are concentric, and their discontinuation is gold. Concentrated our strengths of the three people to pursue success, success, will be a must! "So, the story of Taoyuan's sinister is circulated, and the Romance of the Three Kingdoms of the Entrepreneurial Age will begin. Milu, who served as the Chinese football team, said a famous saying:" The attitude determines everything. "However, there are only few people to understand the true meaning of this sentence. The world, all beings, everyone is learning how success. It is worth noting that many people will complain about his objective conditions, so it is unable to pursue success. Must be recognized The disappointing dilemma is indeed a truth of life - it must also be recognized that some successful possibility constitutes another truth of life. Therefore, how to understand his life and objective conditions, in fact, it is entirely on your own Attitude. All resources and strengths can support you to achieve the possibility of success. The more active, your determination is, the more resources you can mobilize, the more success, the probability of success is also The rise is rising. The attitude determines the maximum probability of success and determines the successful understanding. These schools include the "Treasures for the Entrepreneurship Age". Let these learn to support the start of success, and help you manage all the processes Success, it is waiting for you at the other end of the process.
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