There is a clear dream, that is, there is no design for life, maybe you rarely get promotion and can't make more money. A few years ago, the US writer Gael Hei published a best-selling book, the book called "Pioneers", when writing this book, through a very extensive "Questionnaire questionnaire", There are more than 60,000 people in all walks of life. He found that there are at least two common features of those who are most satisfied with their lives: First, they like more intimate friends; second, They are committed to achieving a goal that is hard to achieve. According to Hei's research, these pioneers feel that their lives are very meaningful, and more than those who don't have long-term goals make them more enjoy. As the West has a proverb? Quot; if you don't know where you want to go, then you can't get it. "
Life planning is both a timetable for achieving your life goals, and a timetable that implements countless smaller targets affecting your daily lives. The design of life planning is to focus on your attention and fully utilize your brain and physical strength in a specific time range. In fact, the more important attention is concentrated, the more effective use of mental and physical strength. Life planning can reasonably assign your energy. The following is six steps in life planning design.
One of the steps: Find or figure out what your main life goal is.
The so-called main life goals should be a fixed goal you pursued for life. All other things in your life are around it. For some people, this work is a happy process of self-discovery; but for other people, it may be a painful process. Because they need to pull their minds back to the years, at that time they have not puzzled their dreams. In order to find or retrieve your main goal, you can ask yourself a few questions, ratio? Quot; who I? "," What kind of business do I want to achieve in my life? " "," When you are in the end, what is the most satisfied? " "," Which success in my daily life is most made me a sense of accomplishment? " ".
Maybe you can quickly know what your ultimate goal is, but most people are not like this. They often need to repeat these or other similar problems on different occasions before finding their ultimate goals. Every time I put forward such a problem, I will record your income. At the beginning, they may have no significance, but many accumulation will let you open.
Happiness is usually such a class, that is, his career and lifestyle are consistent with his life goals. For example, a person with strong organization, text talent and tendency is likely to be maximized from editing, teacher and other career life.
Steps 2: When you can express your life goals with a simple sentence, then you should start ready to achieve this goal.
In this regard, the choice of career is the problem you have to consider. You should know that your career is a tool that helps achieve your ultimate goals. You plan your own career's importance, just like a battle, it is also like a football coach to determine a battle plan of an important competition.
You can ask yourself: "Is my profession that help me achieve the ultimate goal of life?" If the answer is negative, then simply replace the occupation. If you replace your career is unrealistic, then you can further ask yourself: "Is there a way to make my existing profession and my life basic goal?" For the second question, the answer is often affirmative. . For example, a career is not satisfied with the rich lawyers who are rich, and he may take advantage of his energy to make some public welfare and get spiritual. Another example, an auditor who is employed in a big company may be at work to a part-time professor in a nearby university, from the process of summing up practical experience into the theory of theory, it is not satisfied in their daily boring work. . The most ideal career life planning should be carried out when you graduate from the school. At this time, as long as you have a big goal in your heart, you will know what kind of occupation you want to choose or accept. There is no doubt that you will choose to help you achieve your life goals.
However, we should also remember: As long as you haven't enjoyed the place of your old age, you will start your career plan at any time. Whether you are 20 years old, I just embarked on a professional journey, or 40 years old and trapped in a middle-aged person you don't like, is still a good time for your career planning.
Steps 3: After you understand that your career will help you achieve a bigger goal of life, you should start thinking about your specific details in your life and career planning.
You need a detailed personal career development plan. This plan can be a five-year plan, or it is a ten-year plan. Whether it is a scheduled plan, it should at least answer the following questions: 1. What kind of occupation or individual's specific objectives do I want to achieve in the next 5 years, 10 or 20? 2. What is the ability to earn more money in the next five years, 10 or 20 years? 3. What kind of lifestyle I want to have in the next 5 years, 10 or 20 years?
The answer to these questions will give you a list about your own short-term goals. Do not rely on logical thinking during the process of forming these goals. This kind of choice needs to play your creativity, and you should transfer all your emotions, value and beliefs. If you are married, you still need to consider your spouse of emotions, value, and beliefs, because in any important choice, he (she) always affects a part of your personal life.
Step 4: After forming the specific short-term goals above, you should plan how to reach them. For example, you are now a middle-level manager, your 5 years, 10 years or 20 years of personal professional distribution planning requires you to be a senior executive. So how can you make your goals? If you can answer the following questions, then you should know what you should do. These issues are: 1. What special training do I need to make me qualified to do a senior executive? 2. What books I should add? 3. In order to make your own business, I need to exclude which internal political obstacles? 4. My current boss is a help in this area? Is it an obstacle? 5. How big is the current probability of current this company to become a senior executive? Is there a bigger chance here than other companies? 6. What is the general education level of this position, and what is the level of experience and age?
Steps 5: Action.
This is the most difficult step in all steps because you ask you to stop your dreams and earnestly start actions. We know that good motivation is just a condition that is achieved and began to achieve, but not all. If the motivation does not convert into action, the motivation will only be motivated, and the goal can only stay in the dream phase. To achieve the ultimate goal of life, there are two aspects? Quot; trap "needs to be cautious, one is lazy, the other is wrong, even if it is a small mistake. Lazy is a natural enemy of success. Many people struggle for a lifetime I haven't perfectly realize my life goals, let alone lazy. I want to have a no regrets. In addition to the observing the target, I have to concentrate all efforts. In the process of realizing the ultimate goal of life, it is inevitable. It is subject to various hindrances or various temptations. Any flash or deviation will make you stay away from your established goals. However, people are not sages, who is not in the difficult trend of ideals, and make mistakes as little as possible This can achieve your goals as quickly as possible.
Steps: Constantly modify and update your life and career development goals.
The determination of life goals is often based on specific social environment and conditions. Such environment and conditions are always changing, and it is determined that the goal should also make modifications and updates, and this object is written, but it is not set on the stone, and its existence is just to provide an architecture for your advancement. Indicates a direction. You are its creator, you can change it at any time you look forward to it.