What is my feelings?

xiaoxiao2021-03-06  81

Recently confused, a very familiar friend came over and tell me about his feelings, looked at him, and I didn't know what speech to comfort him.

He and his girlfriend have been in love for more than five years, university classmates, feelings are very stable (this is what he said). Feelings, this thing is like a cup of coffee. When you start, you are hot, the aroma is overflowing, especially attractive; but after a while, slowly cool down, then drink it, I feel very flat, sometimes I feel A bit bitter.

In recent time, his girlfriend met a man because of his work relationship, according to his girlfriend, said the man tall, the eyebrows show, the mouth is very sweet and is very happy. I started to see the niji from the usual performance of his girlfriend, I feel that the feelings have a crisis. He has seen the man. When I started to meet, I found it as a very ordinary guy. I can't see it. What is the attractive place, wearing a suit, small flat head, and the five senses are not there any show, just say it. His girlfriend thinks he is very handsome. This Sunday, his girlfriend finally frankly with him: she thought that the man was good, but she said that the girl is only a kind of weak heart, I hope there is a handsome guy to turn around you (I look at my buddy, hey, very good One person, all over the day, I still said that a handsome guy is around her, is it to think that my buddy is not a long?), She didn't think so much, and I think that Men Just a general friend, the two have no possibility of developing. It is a saying that she only loves my buddy. I originally so that our male protagonist should be satisfied. But after a thing last night, he had no confidence in himself. The guy of the grit powder actually found an excuse to come to shopping and her shopping: Said to buy something, need someone to help the staff (FT, is his friend's eyes, come over, the big old people come to find a very familiar person to help him pick Things), this is a date, and the blind is also seen. What surprised him is that she agreed. One night, our man's feelings were like being taken away from the air in the lungs, (more appropriate to say that the feeling of drowning) The uncomfortable. From 5 o'clock in the afternoon, I played N (N "30) multiple calls only three responses, just a few words, hey, my heart is not a taste.

Later, he finally came back, full of spring breeze, seeing very happy, he really didn't know what to say. The two communicate for nearly an hour, and finally handle this thing in the way they are satisfied with both sides (the unidentified man is coming to SMS bombing, seeing the next time), our male protagonist goes back to get a life. The first insomnia.

As a bystander, I think, don't say other, at least my buddies must have problems in a certain manner, I refer to her things. Maybe it's cold, or his recent performance is too bad. I really want to say to my buddy: find yourself, reflect, there is any problem. Don't say anything else, after all, you are still a lover, not a husband and wife (how husband and wife, it is not married). Everyone has their own life circles, and each person is best given to the other party.

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