Relatively speaking, it is easy to enter marriage. It is an art. This article talks: the marriage has triple realm. The first realm: marriage with a person you love. Second Realm: Marriage with a person who is loved by himself and he (she). The third realm: and a habit of him (her) and his (her), and is married. A couple in the first realm, the marriage is relatively stable. The marriage is relatively firm in the second real world. Couples in the third realm, rarely see a divorce. In this world, those who have elderly, have basically wedding three times in their lives. The first time is in the hotel, in the congratulations and blessings of friends and family, marriage with one you love. The second time is at home, and the two have been running in a few years, and they are married to each other. The third time is in the family, marriage with the other families. The second and third marriages were very different than the first time. There is no grand wedding, and there is no friends and relatives to congratulate, the only one is the tacit understanding of both parties. Real marriages often happen to last twice. Now many people are divorced for two or three years. If you analyze it carefully, you will find that the reason is that you have not pushed your marriage from the first realm to the second realm. Everyone knows that boiling water can kill bacteria. Like boiling water, you can also kill the shortcomings and deficiencies of the parties. Those who have a perfect white horse prince and the little bird, after entering the marriage, the shortcomings, shortcomings, will be returned as bacteria. Those who have been very loving, I am divorced in a few years. Shi 89 is the result of refusing to enter the second realm. After marriage enters the second realm, few people hang the divorce on the mouth. In psychological, they have accepted the shortcomings in each other. Some even turn the other party's shortcomings into one of themselves. At this time, marriage is sweet and warm, and the biggest feature present is tolerance and complementary. However, the warmth of marriage does not represent the stability of marriage. The stable marriage also requires the third sublimation, which is married to all kinds of family familiarity. In other words, the love of him (she) is extended to his (her) parents and relatives. And in this love, there is a conscious of wisdom for marriage: your other half belongs to you, he (she) is also his (her) parents and friends, and even he (she) himself. Once marriage enters this realm, it is also very difficult to enter the status of meditation. In the world of love, many men often misunderstand marriage is a woman, and ignore the pursuit of women's own, and the woman behind women. Many women misunderstand marriage is to marry a man, and I don't know how to marry this man's habits and character, and the family behind this man. This kind of understanding, let us see a lot of broken marriage in this world.
