How to be a star becoming a star?
Author: BadcoffeeEmail: blog.oliver@gmail.comBlog: http://blog.9cbs.net/yayong2004年 November
Subject: This is the study notes I participated in the company's Communication Skill training. I would like to record the harvest and experience of my growth path, but also make it a basis for me to constantly self-province ... The memories of this training are in my blog: training experience: awakening the dragon within
Don't misunderstand, the star here is a communication star - Communication Star. Modern society, communication skills is a necessary basic quality, is a very important skill of the star in the career and life. So how do you become a Communication Star? Be aware of the following 5 points: Be specific To explicit Be Specific refers to the use of blurring when communicating, and it is easy to generate ambiguous language, and use accurate and clear languages. Note 4w: when (Time) / WHERE (Location) / WHO (Character) / What (Event) Personal Experience:
There are many languages that produce blurred, ambiguble languages, using possible words, probably, and probably probabilistic vocabulary, it is easy to cause other people's untrustworthy; do not pay attention to 4W, easy to misunderstood. Although English is relatively Specific language, it is also necessary to pay attention to the same problem, for example, ASAP is trying to avoid using the case where it is necessary to clear the exact time. Be Concise To concise Be Concise means simply, direct, directly, and avoids too lengthy languages.
Individual experience:
Especially in the work, the brief language will give people a sense of trust and customer feelings. Be personistent should insist on Be Persistent means not to easily compromise to the other party in communication. It is necessary to persist in communication with the obstacle to communicate, to achieve the purpose of continuing communication.
Individual experience:
In Western culture, Competition is more and less, it is easy to compromise to others, and people who don't adhere to the principles are easy to give others a weakness. It is often not easy to get respect for others. Therefore, with Westerners, pay attention to their own principles, do not give up the principle for unity. In Dongfang culture, it emphasizes Collaboration, so in order to prevent each other and the dispersion, it is easy to cause more than COMPROMISE, so it is necessary to pay attention to cultural differences in different cultures.
Be honest to honest Be hone is to emphasize your own feelings, good at expressing your own feelings.
Individual experience:
Appropriately express your inner feelings to others, you can add others to your own good feelings and trust. For example, the Oriental culture is comparable, people are ashamed to express their praise to others, and often praise others, bringing gratitude and encouragement.
Be Polite Polite Be Polite means that there must be self-esteem in communication, but also pay attention to others. Respect others can win others to respect their respect, this is the basis of communication. Individual experience:
Before expressing your opinion, learn to fully listen to others' opinions and ideas.