Marriage is not just love ,,,
Last night, I was 3 o'clock, I finally finished the "Chinese-style divorce". The divorce case inside the film is not not a plot familiar: the man will abandon the original wife after flying Yellow Tengda; but there is a twist.
First of all, it can be said that Song Jianping's "flying Yellow Teng Teng" is entirely guided by his wife Lin Xiaofeng. She didn't hehe to threaten her husband with divorce to achieve the ideal of her so-called "husband's wife". However, when Song Jianping has become the most important source of the family's economy, Lin Xiaoma's nerves who have a wife began to be sensitive. She found that her ideals did not achieve. In these days, she watched the burden of the entire family, even gave up her own career, became the silent "bad wife" behind Song Jianping. She extremely tightened the nerve, so that she often mistakenly thought that Song Jianping had an affair, and she was constantly deceiving her. Therefore, she is constantly making a happiness, from the home to the neighbors, from the court to the unit, even in the unit, threatening Song Jianping with jumping building. I think Lin Xiaofeng this woman, too selfish, no matter what she starts, it is selfish. Everything, she will only think that this is the responsibility of Song Jianping or anyone, she is a victim. This is her personality makes the tragedy of the character itself. However, it is obvious that Lin Xiaofeng is a key figure that promotes the development of the plot, every big thing, every turning point is because of her.
Speaking here, talk about Song Jianping. This person, according to Liu Northeast, IQ is too high, and the emotional business is too low. Many things, he considers very well, more than one, "Bing Linked" things; however, this person will not understand the feelings of others, and think about others. For example, for Lin Xiaofeng, many things can be said to be clear, but he is not saying that a self-sufficient look. For example, to Xiao Li, his requirements are too much: If someone else is in the court, the public is playing his wife. If he is not so self-esteem, then face, I am afraid that many things can be avoided. However, he also has a good aspect, but he always believes that he must be responsible for this family, thinking that I can't afford Lin Xiaofeng, so many times, he still strives to save this marriage. When I was finally disappointed, he also hoped to let Lin Xiaofeng reflect (but the victory violation).
Let me talk about Xiao Li, I think she is too loyal to people. Although Song Jianping has helped her many times, maybe because of the mentality of reporting, he is so willing to do things for Song Jianping. However, I always think that she should grasp this degree between friends. It has been done, even if you are lucky, it will also bury the seeds of the crisis. If you change to me, I will definitely tell Song Jianping to clear the pros and cons. Don't make it difficult to make up for the future because of the face of face.
There are also two different marriages in the drama, one is a young version, one is a classical version. Two versions, I think it is not so much two references. Song Jianping learned from Liu Dongbei, "marriage needs love, more need wisdom." Lin Xiaofeng learned in Juan, a lot of things that should be understood, such as learning to care about itself). As for the classical version, the plot has always showed the marriage model of the old husband and wife, but also implicit the unusual people of Lin Xiaofeng. However, in the end, he gave Lin Xiaofeng a most thorough anti-provincial - tolerant thick road is the secret of marriage. But everything is too late.
Therefore, I finally concluded that marriage = love responsibility wisdom (generous, thick, mutual understanding) is a tragedy ,,,,,,,,,,
