In the morning of July 4, 1952, 34-year-old Felunns began the trial of the Catalinna Strait from Catalinna. That morning, the fog was very fog, and the sea was particularly cold, and she couldn't even see her boat. On the way, several sharks were near her, and they were shot away. After 15 hours, she was cold and tired, and she called her to board her boat, and others told her that she was close to the coast and let her stick to it. But she is looking forward to the coast, except for the fog, I can't see it. After 15 hours of zero 55 minutes, she was pulled on the boat, and only half miles from the California coast! Ferronus repesible, "To be honest, I didn't have an excuse for myself. If I saw the land, maybe I could stick to the next 2 months, she successfully swammed the same strait.
This is the power of clear goals! The so-called obstacles are those things that you don't see when you don't look at the target! Therefore, the establishment of the right goal is to obtain a step in life achievement. Many people have worked hard. After reaching the goals, they did not know that the goals were not really wanting; some people were more busy because they were binding to the goal. It was very unfortunately.
An effective goal must pass the following 18 questions, can be determined to be appropriate, good, feasible goals: 1. What do you want? What do you want? What is the ideals and dreams you want in your life? Many people may say: "My dream I know." But these dreams are just in their brains, but they have not written it on paper. I suggest you write all your dreams, don't be suspicious, you can't be feasible, as long as you really want, let it down 1 This is the first step in setting up the goal.
2, what is the priority in your mind? When you write a full dream list, you start to arrange them in the priority order in your mind. Which one is most important to rank first, so on this class, schedule all priority.
3, what is the core goal you most want to achieve? From your dream list, find four most important core goals. What is a core goal? The so-called core objective is to drive other targets when this goal is implemented. According to my experience, do not exceed four at the core objectives of the year.
4, when do you want to achieve the goal? It is very important to write the clear dates to your goals. This is very important. If you don't make a clear date, they are just dreams. Therefore, it is very specifically written to the annual month of the target, or even a few minutes.
5. What is the result of your desire? Please depict it in detail. When you reach this goal, what kind of scene you will see? What kind of sound heard? What kind of feeling will it bring? What impact on the people, things and things around it? Writing it on paper on paper very clearly, I believe that you have understood the power of clear goals, right?
6. Are you in a vision to expect what you want? The point you should pay attention to is that you will describe if you expect, whether you use positive, forward, and affirmative statements. For example, there is a goal of a friend to develop: "I want to quit the tobacco wine before a certain day." I want to return to the mold, and I want to make my body before one day of this month. Becoming healthier. "Remember, use affirmative words, rather than" not "" Don't ", etc.
7. How can I know what you are pursuing? In other words, you have to master the evidence that stays. When you appear, you know that your goal has been reached. For example, a friend's goal is: I have to be healthy. But what kind of situation is healthy? If you don't have clear evidence, you may never reach the day of your goal. 8. Is the process of achieving the goal can be controlled by yourself? We have been talked about "entrusting ideas", say not to control the happiness of happiness to others. So I have to check if the process of setting the goal can be accepted by yourself. If you can't control your goals, please fix your goals, otherwise this goal is an empty talk, never implement, because it is not in your master. 9. Is the result of your goal with people around them, things, and things? When you meet the goals and when the target is achieved, whether the result is in line with the "three-win principle" (hello, I am good, everyone). Only when your goal is able to get more support with people, things, things, things that are good, and your inner heart will have more balance and strength. These are strong guarantees that help you reach the day.
10. What is the reason you can't achieve right away? That is to find out the gap between the current status and the target. If I go to your home today, I walked at the lost, so I called you, I asked: "How can I go to your home?" And you will ask me what is wrong? " You must first ask me: "Where are you now?" Because I tell you where I am now, can you tell me how to go to your home, right?
11, who has reached the goal you want to achieve? NLP neural grammatical program tells us that the fastest way to succeed is "imitation". So must first find someone who has reached what you want to achieve, then you will ask him, imitate his success strategy and belief, and constantly learn from him, learn from the success, and master a lot of time with the shortest time. Experience, you don't have to go to the end to the end.
12. Why do you want this goal? You must find enough reason to ensure that you have enough power to reach your goal. There is a saying: I only find a reason for success, I don't have an excuse for failure. So your reasons you succeed, the better!
13. What kind of person you must have to achieve this goal? This question allows you to find the direction of your efforts. Think about it, when you want to reach the goals you want, what kind of person must you be? What kind of beliefs do you hold? What kind of ability do you have? What is your wear? What kind of speech? What is the interpersonal relationship? and many more.
14. Do you list all your needs and existing resources? Find out what you have to have in order to achieve your goals. It is also clear that you can use the resources you can use in your hand, don't "hold the golden rice bowl". 15. Do you have a clear and detailed plan? In a say, there is no plan to fail! So please make a clear and detailed plan. Planning a hundred minus, equal to no plan. You can split a big goal into several small destination or several phased targets. The plan is then set up for these small objectives and stage targets.
16. In order to achieve your goal, what kind of action is you constantly taking? According to your goals, what do you think of the biggest actions you have to take? That is to find out the most productive action for you. For example, your goal is to learn English. Then, the most productive action is to communicate directly with people, not just back words or back grammar. 17. Are you reviewing your goals every day? Every morning, you have to review your goals. The steel king Andrew Carnet daily reviewed his goal up to 1000 times, he missed his goals when he was driving traffic jam; he was also thinking about his goal while going to the toilet; I will read my goals in a space. When you do this, in fact, it is constantly stimulating your subconscious. Share a secret to you: Once your goal can be accepted by your subconscious, you can be implemented.
18. Why do you definitely reach your goal? Find out why you will definitely reach the reason. For example, I will definitely reach my goal, because I am warm; I will reach my goal, because I set up a detailed plan; I will reach my goal, because I will continue to grow; I will definitely To achieve my goals, because I have continuously expand interpersonal relationship; I will reach my goal, because I take a lot of action every day.
