During the year of the year in 1906, my mother was born in a live village in Hubei, Hubei, and wrapped his feet in 5 years old. He said that his family is in the age of 10. The mother was very bitter when she was a few years old, and my grandmother did the world. The grandmother's widowed a large brothers and sisters, all depends on the woven fabric, and raised the family. Grandma is a life to live in a live Buddha, and people are good. The mother has affected from a small ear. Fortunately, there is still a reading person in my grandmother's family, so that she has the opportunity to learn some words, I have read the book "three-character", "daughter", and she usually coms, and often quotes the book The words in the middle are very literate.
My mother has a total of 11 children in a lifetime, and finally only half left. Mother often tell her time when they are young, one year, cold winter months, the sky is especially cold, forty days, ice and snow, well water I frozen, I have to dig the snow with water, when she gave birth to a pair of twins, because of only a small dress, the third day after birth, she struggled to climb, temporarily demolished The broken cotton jacket, then supplement with a set. Later, due to lack, it was sick, and a pair of twins were repeated. I am a mother in the age of 43, and there is no way to give birth to the old society. According to my mother, I really don't want it, I'm trying to take medicine, take medicine, push the grinding, do it, do everything, I want to get me, but I don't help, when I fell, my mother hugged I am crying, I shouldn't come to this world, my father deliberately tried to ask Mother: "Take a little bigger, find a suitable person to send it, do you see it?" Mother shook his head and said: "Since Come, it is also a fate, it is dying to live together! "
The mother learned a good craft from my grandmother, so far I often think of that the hourly family is sitting together to do a cotton, very like a northerner's new year's dumplings, and the cotton that is playing is in the middle. Everyone has a rush, first take a cotton, pull the square, then press the stick in the middle, rolled up, move forward, then take a bamboo stick, a cotton bar is done. A stack of cotton looks like a honeycomb from the side, beautiful, the remaining work is the mother, she wants to spun into a fine yarn on the spinning wheel. The scream of the spinning wheel is particularly beautiful, just like the mother's crane, we sat next to listening to it, he asleep, how many cold winter nights, the mother is in a dim, kerosene lamp, spinning, there is When the chicken was called the head, he also heard the scream of the spinning car. We always remind her to collect her, she always said: "Fay, so good, you sleep!".
Mother will not only spinning the woven fabric, I still remember the first time I first visit the county, the mother wear is a "T-shirt" that my mother uses her own textile cotton. My teacher also praised my mother's good craft; mother's shoes were also very beautiful, she was a thousand layers of bottom, the needle, the helper is hard, both wearing, appearance. The mother will also embroidered, mother embroidered does not need to draw, all in the heart, embroidery, only use the finger to pick up a child, it will be a manuscript. For a while, a bright flower appears in the upper.
"Smile does not laugh" "Small breaking does not make up, big break" This is the mother of the mother, the mother's diet is very particular, requiring the latitude and latitude latitude, she often said: "People must speaking, yarn Road, doing things and people are a truth. " The mother is hurting at home, life is funny, kind, and often is good. I remember that Xiaoman had once, our family is having lunch, a person who cuts firewood is not angry, passing through my door, and the mother will give yourself a meal. Usually see some townships than our more difficult country, always do their best to help. I also learned to do something because of the influence and teachings of my mother's unimmented. I was only five years old. One night in the summer, I played alone in the road, I suddenly saw a old blind man who had to meals, holding a stick in the hand, I couldn't find the road, and I was anxious and worried. I ran over and asked what the situation took the blind. The blind man was eating, taking a bath, overnight. For this matter, the mother praises me, says that I is good, kind, I listened to the mother's praise and sweet, and still remembered.
In the late 1960s, people habits called three years of natural disasters, and China's land is a famine, and no one is very surprised. Because it is not enough to eat, some people have more children, and they are afraid of uneven and speaking, they will work according to the number of people, one person. Our family is often exception, the more you can't eat it, the more you can't eat, you advise me, I advise you, say that I am full, my father still can't hold, falling, spread, sent to the hospital Going to hospitalization, the doctor said it was a serious nutrition, and later did not use medicine, just drinking a few days of soy pulp.
There are few people in the family. The relationship between my parents is better. I rarely see that there is a big contradiction between them. If my father is in addition to some disputes, my mother is always mediated, persuaded, and resolved contradictions. I am also very common to persuade some young women, teach them how to deal with the relationship between husband and wife, she said that there is a long-term life between husband and wife, and the bumps are inevitable. When you have contradictory, you don't want to do it, don't finish it. Forbearance, after two days, you will talk to him, he will accept, sometimes, calm down, think carefully, it is true, or misunderstood, you have to find a chance Clarify it, I have to admit mistakes. The husband and wife respects each other, often talking, is the best way to avoid misunderstanding and enhance the feelings. After we grow up, we often verify the mother's way, and it is, and you will try to go.
The mother's view is also more open, she often said: "Life is in the world, the grass is a life, and the Great Wall is still here. I didn't see the Qin Shihuang". She told us in his later years. After she died, the relatives didn't cry, people were old, it is A kind of liberation is to enjoy, don't give up, otherwise it will be willing to hurt money, drag your children.
In the past few years in the past few years, because of an unexpected fall, the head was injured, induced, accelerated the old dementia, and was confused all day, just like entered another world, some recent things can't remember. But when you have learned the "children's song" "three characters" can have a lot. It is especially to understand that it is often called "Mom", often sitting and "chatting" with her mother. And someone talking about how her mother is diligent, strong, struggling in adversity, when she is guarding the children, she has a pride on her face; when it comes to her mother's life, it is not tears. The flow is full, the sound is shaking. Friends and relatives told her that your mother has died for more than 70 years. You don't worry about her, but she doesn't believe that she insists that she is not dead, she is still alive ... "There is only mother in the world, there is a mother Like block, putting a mother's embrace, happiness can't enjoy ... "This is a legendary song lyrics of a Taiwan movie, what movie? Many people don't necessarily say it, but this song has sang in Taiwan, sang in Hong Kong, sang the mainland, singing through the mainland, singing all over the world, where there is Chinese. Place. Deepe in the heart of every Chinese children. Why are people habits to compare the motherland? Put the travel overseas? Because only the mother's caress for the child, the child is an emotion that will never disappear and changing, it is a topic that will never have to say. It is narrowed that it is a mother-child relationship. It is a kind of national feelings. Hong Kong, Macau has returned to the motherland, I want to return to Taiwan, it will be able to return. Anyone can't stop this trend of history and cutting this kind of flesh and blood in this Chinese nation!
